Why is sex not enough to hold down a guy?

I thought they love it so much that it can. Can it not even be a primary factor?

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I thought giving a guy more sex would make them fall in love more
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  • Sex is important in a relationship but it isn’t the only thing that’s important. To make love grow in a relationship you both have to make each other your number 1 priority , remove selfishness for each other , understand that you can’t always be right and they are wrong , Wear each other’s shoes before making decisions , resist temptations from other’s, make it clear that you are already taken , remember that you aren’t single anymore , by you doing those things for your partner shows you respect them and value them , Just because you give your partner more sex isn’t going to make him feel valued unless you do those other things for him as well , when he notices that you only value him and you want nobody else he will begin to do those things for you if he isn’t already and feel that he is lucky to have a girl like you. The problem with most relationships is people are already selfish and only really care about themselves , people assume in themselves that their partner automatically should trust them , so it’s ok if I do Things without them because they trust me but little do they realize the things you might be doing might make them feel questionable on whether they can trust you or not , so until you both know how to remove that selfishness for each other , then you both will begin to see love grow , Always remember your partner should be your top priority over everyone , your friends your family etc. When you both make it clear that you are each other’s top priority that’s where love and respect and trust comes into play , without that you both will have nothing , It’s ok to have friends but never choose those friends over your partner , make it clear to your friends that you are a package deal , if your friends don’t like it , then they aren’t your friends , they are toxic friends , a toxic friend will try to get in between your relationship with your partner and try to pull you away from them , a true friend will support your relationship and not try to come in between it. Most people don’t grasp this concept and wonder why they keep continuing to have failed relationships, it isn’t insecurities , it’s respect for each other , if you set boundaries with your partner , make sure you follow those boundaries as well , if you don’t then you are a selfish person that only thinks of themselves. I dated girls’ that set boundaries with me that told me they didn’t like when I went out with friends without them all the time so to show my respect to her I made sure I included her , but when it came down to her making friends she excluded me and acted like it was ok for her to do things without even considering me , little did she realize she was damaging the relationship because she didn’t follow the boundaries that she set. Which caused resentments to come in between us , they were choosing their toxic friends over our relationship which caused them to be my exes, because they were going to bars and clubs and being whores , if a girl doesn’t remove those things for me I am not going to remove those things for her , I want a girl that stays under the sheets with me , not one that runs to the streets

Most Helpful Guy

  • I like sex. I've had sex with many women. Our relationship died because we realized we didn't like each other. There were many reasons: personality conflicts, drama, politics, laxck of common interests such a hobbies, activities, music. It could have been different sexual kinks.
    My SO and I were in each other's friend zone for a couple of years. We knew almost everything about each other. We were a good pairing. She got out of a bad marriage, we hooked up. We are both happy. And we are very sexually compatible.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because relationships are about (much) more than sex. Friends with Benefits or f-buddies are arrangements that just require good sex. Serious relationships are 70% about how well you get along and romantic compatibility, and maybe 30% about sex and other things.

    • This 👆

  • I think it's because sex is too easy to get. Imagine how it must have been a hundred years ago.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It is primary factor, most guys would dump a girl that don't give them sex, but many guys able to separate sex from feelings, and if he think that the girl is a ho, he likely not marry her.

  • Are we talking cheating?

    • Nope

    • If you don't mind me asking, what is the context here? And I agree with you, although maybe it shouldn't only be sex.

  • Sex is great but it’s often too easy to get good sex when all you need is a horny girl to convince that you can make her day. What a good relationship needs is commitment and love. Then the sex is great!

  • Sex is nothing to base a relationship on. Sex cannot be used to hold a relationship together. Sex is something that adds to a relationship. It is the most intimate form of communication possible.

  • Sex can become repetitive and routine. Good companionship and common interest do that better.

  • Giving him sex is not gonna make him develop feelings at all.

  • Sex should never be the only thing that keeps a relationship going.

  • I don't think guys care for sex. They want "The One."

  • Because we're humans too. Sex isn't the be all and end all. I can't speak for other guys but I know if I'm not happy I have no desire to have sex. Sex doesn't create happiness but it is a product of happiness

  • Clearly it's not enough. Most likely for the same reason it's not enough to hold you down

  • it's a good start, but we also like to have fun outside of the bedroom too... we're not animals LOL

  • Try not to hold down. It's not. There is way more to life than sex. How long a guy can jabe sex? It's just a single though important aspect of relationship.

  • Sex isn't the best way to keep a man. Making your man feel self worth and occasionally taking control of situations here and there are great. I loved it when my ex would just randomly strip down naked push me back and sit on my face.

  • By too small you mean uncomfortable? Only if the guy is inconsiderate and doesn’t pay attention. I once had a girlfriend who was Hmong and she was a very petite girl in every way. It took a few attempts but within a couple weeks she wanted no mercy lol.

  • You think sex makes a guy fall inlove, I don't know who ls been feed you that BS, guys will stick around for lots of sex but it's not what gets their heart racing for you