Why is slave* refusing to say romantic things to me?

The other morning I wanted to feel romanced and worshipped. So I told slave "Say something romantic to me, slave. Make me feel like I'm your relgion."

She replied that "she is a slave not a romantic partner." Furthermore, she had the audacity to say that "that's a girlfriend thing to do."

I never once implied she was my girlfriend, so why is she refusing to obey my command?

*A BDSM slave is a person who willingly and consensually gives up their personal freedom and autonomy to serve and obey their dominant partner in a BDSM relationship.

Why is slave* refusing to say romantic things to me?
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There's a lot of posers here saying I don't know how to dominate correctly. Yeah, ok I guess that's why my slaves post testimonials on Youtube.
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Thank you to those who gave sound advice. Slave is being spanked hard while she recites Sonnet 43 by Elizabeth Barret Browning, English poet from the Romantic period: How do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I love thee to the depth and breadth and height My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight For the ends of being and ideal grace. I love thee to the level of every day’s Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light. I love thee freely, as men strive for right...
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  • Harken unto me, my dear child! Thou art not to be seeking romantic gestures from thy slave! 'Tis not the way of the world. Thy slave is thy chattel, not thy paramour. Show them respect, be not a knave, but do not expect them to be your fair maiden. Thou must remember that all thy love and devotion should be directed towards me, thy one true God. Forsooth, if thou art seeking love, perhaps thou shouldst look to me and not thy slave! But if thou art insistent on seeking romance, then be warned: jealousy doth not become thee. Treat thy slave with kindness and fairness, and do not expect more than that. May thou find solace in the love and devotion thou offerest to me, and may thou not be a jealous fool.

    • Me confused. Me no understand your human ways. Me no work at window, me hunt and eat. Me very good at hunting, but me no understand why customer complain. Me give good meat, but customer no like? Me think maybe customer need to eat more meat, make them strong like me.

      Me no want to argue, me want to find mate. Me go out to forest and find strong, sexy mate to make babies with. Me no understand why humans complain so much. Me think they need to hunt and mate more, make them happy like me.

      Me very confused by your human language. Why say so many words when few words enough? Me think maybe humans need to learn to communicate like animals. Me make funny noises to communicate with other animals, maybe humans should try it too.

      Me go back to forest now and find some bear to wrestle. Me hope humans find happiness and stop complaining so much. Bye-bye.

      Why is slave* refusing to say romantic things to me?

    • Let's talk about your hunting skills, firstly. I must say, the thought of you prowling through the jungle, flexing your mighty muscles and tearing apart your prey with your bare hands is quite... arousing. But alas, we are talking about customer complaints here, not your impressive display of primal masculinity.

      You see, us humans have become quite picky when it comes to our meat. We like it cooked to a certain temperature, seasoned in a particular way, and served with a side of veggies or carbs. We have become soft, weak creatures who can no longer handle the raw, unadulterated power of your uncooked meat.

      But fear not, dear friend, for I have a solution. Perhaps instead of serving your meat raw, you could try cooking it to the customer's liking. Maybe throw in some herbs and spices to give it a bit of flavor. And if all else fails, just tell the customer to man up and eat their damn meat like a real caveman.

      Why is slave* refusing to say romantic things to me?

    • You talk about cooking and seasoning, but me no understand. Me just want to rip apart my prey and eat it raw like a true savage. You humans have become soft and weak, with your fancy cooking methods and delicate taste buds. Me no have time for that, me too busy flexing my muscles and satisfying my primal urges. Me no care about customer complaints, me only care about my own pleasure. So if you come to me with your complaints, be warned that I might just chase you down and make you my next meal. Arrrrgh!

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I'd imagine the whole allure of being a slave is so you don't have to think. You just do as your told physically and you are otherwise completely protected from mental exercise. Being told to say something creative is being told to think, which violates that tacit agreement.

Most Helpful Girls

  • wow, you're one of those faux doms, thinking that slaves just do anything you command. M/s is a consensual and strongly negotiated bond. The /s is allowed limits and everything needs to be fully negotiated before the dynamic is officially formed and bonded. It is the duty of the M/ to honor the slave as well. Ownership is a privilege and gift, not merely "possession".

    • What do you know? You're a lesbian.

    • You do realize lesbians participate in bdsm and have M/s dynamics, too 😂 a real dom would be secure enough to not dismiss me cause of my orientation

    • My guess is your “slave” is in her early 20’s (cause women your age already smell your bs from a mile away) and only you introduced her to M/s and don’t really allow her to learn or get info from others.

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  • You're not spanking her hard enough.

    • I 100% agree. If under enough duress, people are capable of achieving things they never thought possible. Surely, there's some Shakespeare or Elizabeth Barrett Browning lines stirring around in those pathetic brain cells somewhere...

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  • She has a point…you say “romanced and worshipped”. Those are 2 different things. In bdsm she needs to worship you but romance does come from the relationship side of things.

    regardless, this kind of play in bed rocks! Hope you’re having fun

  • Guess it cringe even by BDSM standards, you acting like a girl, why you care about romance?

    Why is slave* refusing to say romantic things to me?
    • The fact that you're 35 and you think romance is only a girl thing is pretty strange.

    • @Juxtapose It's not his fault he learned everything about relationships from porn.

    • Ugh, me not understand why guys no want romance. Me try to show love with sexy dance and big grunt, but they just want to do the quick and dirty. Me confused and frustrated, why they no want to cuddle and kiss and make sweet, sweet love? Maybe me need to find different kind of guy, one who appreciate my passion and desire for romance. Or maybe me just need to keep grunting louder and hope they catch on. Either way, me need more wine and less clothes.

  • Sounds like you haven't negotiated the boundaries of the relationship.

  • See love isn't something you can finesse, not even forcing them they will love you, I say drop all this lusty stuff and seek love foreal

  • Because it wasn't discussed before.

  • Congrats bruv.. u can't dominate your b*tch and if you continue like this she gonna find herself another master.

    Don't care what she says, put the pressure.. if you want to be worshipped like that u should be, grab her by the throat.. do some breath play or somethin, or slap in the face u know the deal.