Why is the guy I’m seeing asking about his dick so much?

I started seeing a guy who has a penis that is above average in size. It is the perfect size. Sadly, he complains about it all the time, and says he wishes he were more well-endowed and I told him that I think his penis is great. He asked if I had been with men with wildly different penis sizes, and I said I had been with a guy whose dick was too small to give me pleasure and a guy whose penis was so large is banged into my cervix and hurt.
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  • It's a common insecurity in today's world due to the many sources that essentially make the claim that 'women want big rods'. Many females, typically the younger girls, also propagate this idea themselves. If it wasn't so unfortunate, with all the misinformation out there regarding a man's equipment, you could surmise that today's women are into ripping open the upper cervical wall and having their internal organs stirred around.

    We do not go around comparing penile sizes and we don't always talk about our lightning rods openly with other guys, and to talk to random women about our manhood is really weird.

    So for many, when it's finally time to unsheathe the man sword and go into battle, they feel underprepared and like they're really bringing a pocket knife.

    Many guys today, unfortunately, need this very honest reinforcement that they're adequately equipped. And we feel that the safest and likely most honest person we can get that from is the person we were just with.

    • Yeah, I find this obsession with having a large penis to be off. Honestly, I think penises that are average or above average are far superior to huge ones. Men don’t believe this, though

    • Odd, not off.

    • Well, it's not a matter of faith or belief in what you say, as much as your statements being muffled by a chorus of contradictory info. The fact that the guy wants your opinion and validation, personally, tells me he thinks highly of you and what you think and feels comfortable with you to be vulnerable with this.

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  • He's being insecure about his dick size, not exactly uncommon for a guy to be selfconscuous about that.
    It seemed to happen after you had sex and I have no idea why, unless something you did during sex made him think you weren't having a good time.
    Maybe he wasn't as ready for it as he thought he was.
    Did you cum?
    I don't know why he's so insecure with a woman who has already fucked him and says she likes his dick but he is.
    He doesn't think it's big enough so he's having a hard time believing you when you say its the perfect size.
    He's also being selfconscuous cause you've had sex with a bigger penis, he comparing himself to others and again is not believing you when you say his size is perfect for you cause in his mind nothing matters but size.

    Sorry but I can't think of anyway to convince him it is perfect for you

    • It really is the ideal size. I think it’s become he came fast

    • Yeah I know every girl doesn't want or need a big penis, but it's all some. guys want and sense they dont have it it's hard for them to get over it. You say he came fast? Maybe he thinks your out of his league? Maybe he comparing your looks to his size and thinks your too good for him.

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  • Tell him to shut up and fuck you.

  • They all do 😂

    • The don't understand that technique is important

    • Not true

  • guys like that just make every conversation they can about their dick, even with guys.

  • Some guys are too hung up on the hardware and completely ignore the software.

  • Stupid anonymous

    You told him he is perfect and knows your lying because that's all you are good for

    Fucking anonymous can't trust you

    Tell your boyfriend to get run over by a car

  • You just started seeing him?

    • I met the guy online. My car was totaled a few days after we started talking, so we talked on the phone for two weeks before I got a new car and we met up. We went on two dates and hooked up after the second one and then I started getting these questions

    • Right. As a guy it translates that he’s not looking for a relationship and likes to hook up. He’s seeking validation so he can feel confident banging another chick

    • Sux your car got totaled! Hope you were ok physically

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  • He’s insecure, he thinks his dick is too small

  • Maybe he just feels if he was bigger he could pleasure you more but guys can be insecure about there size at times. It just might be a phase. If he is really worried about his size may be give some make enhancement however then he might think your saying he is too small. I think there a not away to please about his size.

    • I think his penis is the perfect size. He’s also 33. He should be a bit more secure by that point.

    • By that age

    • I agree he should be mature and more secure about his size at his age. I was pretty secure about my size when I was 25.

  • Tell him if he doesn't shut up about his member, you will find a guy with a member just a little smaller, that is satisfied with it, fall in love and have a big family with him...

    And he will always know, that he could have had that. Because his member is bigger then the guy that got the girl...

  • Because us guys have been bombarded with dick size our whole lives. We hear about how great it is to be big and how terrible it is to be small. “Size matters” is all we hear. And if you watch modern porn at all, they ain’t trotting out the guys with the tater tots. And since the penis is the ultimate symbol of masculinity, the natural progression of thought is, the more the penis, the more the man. And every guy wants to be the most manly.
    Hopefully he will accept his size one day and be confident. Being statistically at the upper end of average myself, I felt like he did until I had enough exp and conversations with women to know that women definitely were not disappointed, in fact they were pleased and satisfied with what I had. Oddly enough, the compliment I always got was how “purdy” it is. (Yes, I’m in the South) Which I can only assume is it is aesthetically pleasing. Shape, color, etc.

  • So what's he asking?

    • Is my dock on the same size? Have you been with a. Guy who had a huge dick? Etc?

    • Is he gay? Does he like dicks? Why is he asking about dicks? He must think dicks are delicious

  • This guy is cockblocking himself. He needs to get therapy or drop him.

  • He’s self conscious.

  • he has dick size fetish, it's very common

  • Wow! He can't find anything better to talk about than that. I'm glad I'm not a girl guys suck

  • Men are very obsessed listening about their dick from others

  • sounds like goldilocks

  • Yeah it happens I remember being jealous of my girlfriend's ex size