Why is this guy I’m sleeping with trying to make me jealous?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months. At one point recently I blocked him because he was being toxic to me and putting me down and saying hurtful things to me and then he found me on another platform so then I unblocked him and we continued the relationship. He kept saying abusive things to me after that and playing mind games so I decided to phase him out and then he got mad at me and sent me a long message about how my behaviour was wrong. Since then we’ve tried to work on things, but all the time he is trying to make me jealous. He keeps talking about how women at work throw themselves at him all the time and that his students message him and ask him out for coffee. He keeps telling me that a group of women were talking about how attractive he was the other day and he also told me that he went on a date with a girl a year ago and it didn’t work out but he still speaks to her and talks to her on the phone. He also keeps talking about how attractive other female celebrities and porn stars are and what sort of porn he likes to watch and that he loves watching other naked females have sex in the videos.

I’m not really sure why he is constantly trying to make me feel jealous. Shall I just end the relationship?

[Corina_J]

End it NOW and block him on all platforms and don't let him see you anymore.
He's showing classic signs of narcissistic abuse.
I speak from (unfortunate) experience.
If you allow him to keep treating you this way, it will get exponentially worse to the point it will break your mind. Literally give you psychosis.
I deplore you, GET AWAY FROM HIM and anyone he associates with!!

[Corina_J]

Oops wrong word. Not deplore. Meant to use "implore".

[TwinkleLily5]

Respect yourself, he is doing this because you are allowing him to. Don’t let someone disrespect you more than once or they will make it a habit. He’s saying all of those things to boost his ego and by making you jealous only boost it more. Didn’t you say you all were only sex friends, in that case he already doesn’t respect you and most likely never will. Move on your not losing anything here.

[SEntertainment]

Halfway through this post I found myself wondering why you are still with him. Guys like this should pass their entire lives single, because they don't deserve the women that put up with them.
You deserve someone who focuses on you, and cares for you. Wandering eyes and jealousy games, those are dramas that don't have a place in a healthy relationship.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Do you really need someone to tell you to end things? You should have ended them the very first time you blocked him as you had plenty of reason to.

[Veronica21]

Block him, he just needs an ego boost by being with you, him saying woman are all over him says a lot about him being narcissistic and he lowkey wished that happened when in reality it doesn't... It's just something that he wants to feed his ego and he knows saying that to you makes you vulnerable to his dominance

[TommyMountainFigure]

If you block someone then be prepared to have them get all shirty with you. That is why once you block, you should call it a day!

[Browneye57]

I find it utterly amazing you're attracted to all this. Simply astounding.

[Yaharro]

I would Immediately block anyone who try to humiliate me

[In_Trance]

Why would he? He's already railing you