Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Orgasms are great but some girls struggle to have them. Usually the guy gets the blame for being crap in bed or having a tiny dick. But a lot of the time it's her fault. So relax and enjoy the poppy guide to the female orgasm.
A lot of the graphs in this mytake come from
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5087699/#!po=5.50847
Which is a long term study on female orgasms. It's worth a read to see how much you agree with the survey results.
HOW EASY IS IT TO ORGASM
Google claims less than 50% of girls can orgasm through sex. However a closer look at figures shows it varies not only by age group but by when the survey was done. Looking at the graph it seems every year less and less women under 34 are orgasming. MILFS have a higher orgasm rate which explains a lot while teen girls and grannies seem to be getting a raw deal. So if you want to orgasm discuss with mother and not granny.
IT'S HER FAULT FOR NOT SLEEPING AROUND
The more skilled a woman is in bed the more likely she is to orgasm. Therefore if guys want wives who orgasm easily they should choose experienced women over virgins. The important thing to note is it's real sex experience that counts not masturbation, so get out there girls and get as much dick as you can, your husband will thank you for it.
WOMEN DON'T ORGASM EASIER BY MASTURBATION
It's a common myth that we all cum easily with a few wiggles of a finger but can't get off no matter how hard he tries. The truth is for most women there's no difference. So ditch the dildo and get dicked.
THE VAGINA ISN'T INSENSITIVE
I hear this all the time, guys think it's a dead tube we feel nothing in and only the clitoris matters. Not surprisingly this argument tends to come from "smaller" guys. Yes the clitoris is very important but don't neglect the rest of the vagina
MASTURBATION DOESN'T TRAIN YOU HOW TO ORGASM
We're often told that girls have to learn what feels good through masturbation so we can guide guys to give us orgasms. The fact is even if you never masturbate or your fingers always white and wrinkly it has little effect on sex orgasm potential.
AGE YOU STARTED MASTURBATION DOESN'T MATTER
Similarly it doesn't matter when you first started masturbating. You might have spent half the night exploring or slept in boxing glove it has little influence on your later orgasm potential.
IF YOU CAN'T ORGASM TRY CHEATING
Biologically women choose longterm parters for their "good genes" and their potential to support a family, I.e. their financial ability. Of course other factors come into play like political and religious beliefs, shared interests etc. All of which water down the gene factor. The problem is a guy maybe a great provider but if his genes aren't up to much it's worth cheating so your kids aren't held back by them.
Now this might sound awful but biologically it makes sense and women are programmed to cheat. Now there's a down side to cheating, you might get caught. Luckily mother nature has a solution, you will orgasm faster and easier with a good looking stranger. It's how nature allows us to maximise our pregnancy potential in short sneaky quickies.
HAVE ONE NIGHT STANDS
Remember how I said only real sex counts when it comes to learning how to orgasm? Well there's no better way than getting in some practice than with one night stands.
Guys vary enormously not only in size but in stamina, style, and ability. When a guy just wants to unload and go it's up to YOU to learn how to orgasm quickly. Once you've learnt you can guide men better in bed.
THE BIGGEST SEX ORGAN IS THE MIND
That's why it's important not to drop us on the head and why safe sex means wearing a crash helmet.
OK that's a joke (I have to point that our for some of you lot) but it's true. The wrong mindset will kill your ability to orgasm and simply learning to let go will vastly up your chances. This is why real sex is so important, it builds your self confidence so you can let go when it comes rather than fighting it out of embarrassment.
So there you go, stop whinging you can't orgasm and just get more practice, there's plenty of guys willing to help.
What Girls & Guys Said
21 54Your mind is the biggest sex organ. If it isn’t in the right place (especially females) an O is unlikely to happen. Age doesn’t matter. Once you can relax, are in the moment and in the right mindset, having an O is very achievable. Of course you need a guy that is interested in pleasing you too (sometimes hard to find from what I have heard).
It not, it you duty to she cum
Most sexual pleasure is derived from our brain and is not physical.
It's all about the personal romantic connection, otherwise sex would be super overrated.
It's a grey area based which also includes sexual abilities. It's not anyone's fault, it is 90% mental, and 10% can you be smooth and not awkward during sex (for both people).
Most men don't think it's a women's fault, rather they usually blame themselves. If someone is a narcissist they may say that, but most men don't think this. We usually look at our performance anyway; and if both people have an amazing connection, you don't have to be an expert to get her off lol
Nice take! I have a few questions though. What if a woman is too emotional to sleep around before marriage? Wouldn't the mental pain thus experienced lower the chances of having an orgasm? Isn't it possible for a woman to stay a virgin and then learn over time with her husband?
That would be like buying a house with out having it inspected... it might be okay but do you really want to take that risk?
But too much inspection can be bad as well.
lol not really...
Yes it's possible and you don't need a husband for that or a man. The who article made crack up. 👍
Dammit my finger slipped I meant a 😂 emoji lol
Dont let anyone tell you what to do with your life; if you dont feel like having sex or dont want for some reason or if you're not curious then dont do it... life is meant to be enjoyed and celebrated and sex is a pleasure :)
I'm happy to say that I can and do.
U guys actively avoid any guys who is “too interested” and go for guys who aren’t that interested and then complain those guys don’t make u cum or are bad at sex. Well if u guys didn’t actively avoid every guy with a high sex drive then you wouldn’t have this issue just saying
Didn't read
I actually dont wanna see any academic article this 3 months 😬 i will pass this question but no doubt both side is wrong.
Yes and no. Some guys dont know how to make her cum.
Very well written and researched. Fortunately, I never have difficulty in making a woman cum. From foreplay, fondling, sucking tongues and nipples and fingering her, she will cum. Then eating her, sucking her clit, she will c um several times. By the time my big cock goes into her pussy, she’s ready to cum again and again. Then when she is going to chum again, I cum with her, shooting loads of cum into her pussy. I just love t o make women c um multiple times
I am not the "Husband" I am the one being thanked... lol
Holly fucking shit, you even brought the receipts, girl, I'm proud of it.
Oh, the whole "skilled in sex" might be just an issue of self-perception, confidence and self-control enough to handle anxiety correlates well with orgasms.
But you are in a good path there. (to be honest, the limit in posts is way too small, so it's impossible to go full comprehensive.)
I owe you a slap
So women should be cheating sluts if they want to orgasm?
yes it is her fault
cause I have had sex with several girls
and some of them cum in like 5 mins
others take forever
My wife was like that and I make her cum first or I did not
it is not a fault
yess
I didn’t read the whole thing. I just wanted to give a thumbs up to the title!
Come on guys!!! MEN!✊MEN!✊ MEN!✊
Maybe is her's or the gay they both need to solve the problem that is what lovers do