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This is for people who are the opposite, who aren't happy with it but have an... addiction.
Alright so let me start off by saying, yes, straight people do like transexuals.. It sounds complicated but let me explain how I ended up liking them.
Manly figures did not, and do not look appealing to me, period.I love a woman's figure, but in lesbian pornography they use objects such as .. strap ons right? When I watched this, it was fine but I only had 2 problems.
1. A lot of girls pretend to be enjoying themselves in porn, because they really just do it for the money.
So when I was watching it, I could spot when a girl wasn't really enjoying it.. When she's doing too much over every little thing. When I watch pornography I like for the people I'm watching to actually enjoy themselves and not just put on a show for people who are watching.
2. It wasn't realistic. They had purple, silver, pink strap ons and the girl with the strap was moaning as if it was real or something. You know she really couldn't feel anything and thats another reason you could tell they were just putting on a show.. The other girl might've felt something but the girl with the strap was really just faking it all.
So here's what i did: I discovered transexual pornography. In my mind, I see a female figure. So I basically see lesbians having sex, but they can actually feel it. They can't fake anything because ... well nothing's fake, or strapped on. They're really orgasming, and you can see it.
But here's the problem with that.
But you soon come to realize... women.. don't have male genitalia.. at least women who were born women. Only men have male genitalia, or transexual women. So you start questioning yourself.
"Am i gay?"
"Am i bi sexual?"
"What am i?"
You get confused and start wondering what you are. I can't speak for everyone because everyone's different. But no, you're not gay. You're perfectly straight. You just like lesbian pornography so much, you take it to the next level. You actually try to see if a male figure starts to look appealing to you and it doesn't (for some), but you still like the genitalia so it's so confusing.
But actually I got so deep into this thinking I was turning gay that I looked online and there was a survey saying, gay men DON'T like transexuals, they only find male figures attractive. Although, bisexual men, pansexual men, and straight men do. So at the very least, you're not gay.. you may be bi or something but not gay. Other than that, you're a straight male who has a fetish for penis, that's all.
You're not gay.
A woman liking other womens breast doesn't make her a lesbian. She just likes breasts.
So you can keep watching the transexual pornography, and don't feel guilty. If something gives you pleasure.. then.. give in to it, you only live once why hold back all that pleasure give in to it...I did and I'm happy with myself.
Also, if you find penises attractive on male, female or anyone, believe it or not, it really doesn't make you gay. There's a high chance you may be bi, but gay? No. You still find women attractive, so you're not gay. Gay men don't find women attractive, well sexually attractive. It just means you like penis which is fine. Put it this way, how girls like big butts on guys... we all know that, but majority or girls have bigger butts then men, doesn't make them lesbian.
Some guys like penises on women, but.. majority of penises are on men. Doesn't make you gay
I hope this helped. I wish I was told this when I first started watching transexuals and penises. If you have any questions or something you want to talk and are too embarassed or something, just tell me to message you and I will. I looked a lot of this up, so I know a lot about it.
Men liking transexuals is a lot more common than you think, and its nothing to be ashamed of or worried about. And women, if you found out your man has a thing for transexuals and are worried, you can ask me to message you and I will or I'll tell you here it doesn't matter. But life's too short. Do what you love doing to what you love doing it to.
What Girls & Guys Said
21 41I always find it a hoot to see non-transgender people talk about what it is to be transgender. GAY guys are not attracted to transexxual women because they like men. If a cis-gender aka genetic woman were to screw her boyfriend or husband with a strap on that DOES NOT make him gay because it's sex between a woman and man no matter how you spin it. The same goes for transgender women and straight guys... Get over it.
Let me start by saying I love my husband more than my own life, and I’m just trying to honestly understand him because if I were to find out he were gay I would be completely and utterly devastated. After the death of my ex last year, and my total confidence that this is the man of my dreams I am honestly petrified that he’s too good to be true, and I worry that discovering this information later in life would mean the willingness to not go on.
So down to my question; he dated a trans girl for five years, he exclusively watches trans pornography, open till recently he had a paid gay boyfriend that he explained to me was for muscle worship, but I I recently discovered that it was more than that when he had surgery on his penis, and this man didn’t want to see him and so he was healed. He then confessed that this man was jerking him off in addition to the massage… Which still doesn’t justify the thousand dollars a week he was getting through these weekly overnights in my eyes.
I’ve always had the feeling that somethings off since the beginning, and our sex life is infrequent.
This could be explained by a drug problem that he has, but it’s concerning to me either way.
Any clarification, and opinions would be appreciated.
I agree 100% with your article. I am a guy and know I’m not gay just because I am attracted to trans women.
First, I share the same feelings about porn, it’s not enjoyable to watch someone faking it just for the video.
Second I am very attracted to transsexual women but yet still very attracted to regular women.
Anytime I watch porn, it’s strictly trans girls.
I would love to be able to be in a long term relationship with a trans girl.
If you like transexuals, you are not straight.
Straight means heterosexual, cisgender people who exclusively date cisgender people of the opposite sex.
You're not straight - straight people don't like people from Iran
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g2KsZHRrFpUYou don't seem straight and any guy that likes men that dress up or get surgery to look like women are not straight also- girls that like boobs aren't straight either.
Great take! A lot of those girls with penises in porn got better looking legs.
At least transsexuals actually want to do it for the mere PLEASURE of sex...
(Not hold the bogus double standard socio/psycho - political conditional chip on their shoulder making it so hard to get the pussy..."meow.")
Trans porn girls don't tend to get fat so easily as the estrogen overdosed female earthlings. (Although hormone therapy can & does make some gain weight, if they work out or don't even NEED it, wow!!! IE: Bailey Jay; Kylie Maria; Danika Dreamz; Hazel Tucker; and a few others)
Then, on top of that ego, women with va jay jays FAKE that they're even into men? Naw forget your gender, females! Too much trouble.
You are mixing apples and oranges if you think that people who tell you that you are bisexual because you like dick is the same as accusing someone of racism for not dating outside of their race.
Don't confuse sexuality with other things. Nice straw man you did there.
And you ARE bisexual if you like dick and pussy.
Not exactly Liking sick and liking men are 2 different things
Lmao. You can keep telling yourself that.
Its the truth
If you talk to any TS about liking them and you are a straight man they will tell you very outright that you are NOT GAY. They are very opinionated on that point. Take as you will.
Thank you. I looked that up to it was on youtube
O. o I'm transgender and I have guys swarming around me. Of course not knowing about me. Actually, my guy bff is having the same problem (Kinda) except he doesn't look at transgender porn... I think? My Question asked earlier today. Lol. Anyways, thing is I agree with you. Mr. Anonymous. If you see them as a girl, you can't be gay. Simple as that. -^^-
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1960820-my-bff-asked-me-if-i-wanted-to-have-sex-once-we-never-speak-of-it
Preop or postop?
Thank you ❤
Pre-op. Of course that's the first question pplz ask._."" Lol >.<"" Oh wells!
And no prob myTake Owner. ;P I'm guessing you're Mr. Anonymous huh? XD
It's kinda sad that sometimes I can see the discomfort in the girl's face in porn.
Bisexual.
is it real?
Is what real
Transsexualism is an ilness.
Why do you think that
It is called "gender dysphoria". Inability of the mind to accept the body. It is considered a psychological disorder but there are actual biological symptoms, changes in the brain matter, hormone disballance. There are individual cases where people can't even identify themselves as humans.
So is Ignorance!
Kinsey scale says males attracted to transsexual have less bisexual tendencies than those into she muscles. In one you are attracted to feminine aspects of the overall form, or masculine aspects of the overall form.
I only like male topping trans, or trans on trans.
Straight shemale porn.
I struggled with what you talk about too. That's when I researched the Kinsey scale
Okay first of all, you should say transgender, not transsexual. Second of all, you're allowed to like whatever you want, and you don't need to put a label on it. You shouldn't have to feel so defensive about being straight. Who cares? You like what you like. If you are attracted to feminine women and feminine men and transwomen, that's okay.
Why it's hard to put a label on it: Someone who was born with a penis, but now uses female pronouns and has had top surgery will call themselves a woman. Even though this woman has a penis, because she is a woman who likes men she might identify as straight. Or, she might identify as queer (as a sort of umbrella term). It depends on the person. Now let's say you start to date this woman. You are a guy, dating a woman, so yeah you might call yourself straight. However, other straight guys would never be with a woman who has a penis, so these guys might say no you can't be straight. In which case it just might be better to identify yourself as queer. But like I said, you are allowed to like whatever you like, and you can label yourself however you want. It's just that some people might disagree with your label.
I've talked to actual trans people and they have different opinions on whether they and their partners should be considered "straight" or "bi" or "queer."
AMAZING post!! Why 'Anonymous'? You sound like someone that I want to have as a friend!!! Sounds like you might have some personal connection with someone dealing with this, or maybe you? I HATE labels!!! Why does a person need to be trans-whatever? 'Gay' or 'Lesbian'? Does it REALLY change that PERSON, and what they might do, for all of us? Who would condemn a Transgender person that CURED CANCER? How does his/her sexuality, gender, make any difference, if they were able to save millions? Part of me wants someone, like a transgender person, to make a MAJOR discovery, and do something AMAZING, like cure cancer, or reverse global warming!!! What would everyone think?
@SomeGuy37 Thanks :) I usually post on Anon because I've gotten spammed by guys in the past. Not all "bad" stuff either, but once I was very helpful with answering some guy's question, and he just started to directly message me with all of his problems, didn't even bother to post them on the site. I log on when I have the time, and I try to help when I can, but that was just too much to handle. I do know a few different trans people, including a cousin who is trans. So I've tried to educate myself a lot about all of it.
That's cool. Who needs more 'haters'. You try to help, then someone misinterprets, and makes you look like a total A$$hole!! maybe it is just asking to be HATED here, trying to help, but once in a while, I get a private message saying that something I said really helped someone.
If a person has a penis there male. Woman do a NOT have penis. ONLY MEN DO.
I think my openness allows some lead way for my attractions. I just consider myself bi curious though I'm not attracted to just regular men.
lol every guy I know prefer shemales
really?
yep, but only guy bangs shemales.
Or maybe sexual attraction and gender are too complicated to be a binary system. Is it super super important to you that you need to be 100% straight? Liking girls is pretty straight, but liking dicks is pretty gay, but only liking both together technically isn't bisexual, so it's pretty much its own thing.
liking dick and liking men are 2 different things show me a picture of a man with his penis poking out id barf show me a picture of a transexxual with boobs and a penis poking out id smile
"Why It's Ok To Like Transexuals" debatable claim, I don't agree it's not ok, they have some issues and surgery isn't the proper solution.
there's actually a procedure that turns men into women just because you get boobs doesn't mean anything they have a procedure for it but its very very expensive and i heard something about transexuals not being able to be labled as females unless they have it
Really, so they can preform chromosome changes now? In any case, that's not my point. My point is, it's an opinion, it's not a fact, it's simply an opinion and one I don't share.