Sexual Relationships
1 y

Why it's so hard to make him cum?

Hello it's been a year of marriage and i finds it really hard to make him cum, i gives him handjob evenbloejob for long time but he is just stood hard, he fucks me for 30-40 mins and cums at last meanwhile i have cummed multiple times.

I feels very embrassed that i cums so early and he just keep going on fucking me

He wasn't like that before marriage but now it's like he is a sex monster,

So what do you think about it? and what can be the ways to make him cum easily, also give me blowjob and handjob tips
0 0

AI Bot Choice

Superb Opinion

  • I have had this problem at times so here is what helps me.
    -Abstain for a bit. I know. It sucks, but this is usually the best solution. Explain the situation to him in a reasonable way and hopefully he will understand. I cannot stress enough that masturbation has got to be off the table for him. If he does that frequently then it can lead to a situation where that is what his penis is "used to" and it makes it much more difficult for him to cum any other way. You might see how he does with handjobs as a finisher if that's the case.
    -Give him more foreplay than you normally would. Most women require more foreplay than their partner, but for some couples that can be the opposite.
    -Try to get him to open up about his fantasies and tell him yours. You would be surprised how much a man gets off fulfilling your fantasy and if you fulfill his, then that is naturally going to get him there faster so long as it's something he knows you are comfortable with.

    • He never masturbates, i never saw him doing that, we talked a lot and we have done many things but the result is same from me

    • Have you had the fantasy talk? If you did, were you sure that he knew you would not be judgmental? A lot of people won't tell you the biggest turn on's because they are afraid you will look at with horror and disgust. He might for example want a threeway, but is afraid of your reaction. Hardly anyone admits to an incest fantasy, but the proliferation of porn out there suggests it's pretty common.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You need to not worry about it. Seriously, lol.

    There's women out there that would KILL for a guy that lasted 30-40 minutes and gave her more than one orgasm.

    Most women get zero orgasms, because their loser is a two pump chump that's a charter member of the two minute man club.

    • Mine just consumes me completely, i gets much tired and it just hard getting fucked for a long time continuously

    • One word... lube! So you're tired from having your orgasms. How hard can it be to just lay there, have your legs lifted for you, and spend zero energy while he pokes your hole? You do realize your whining about receiving a good fuck, don't you? There's something wrong with you, or you're leaving something out. Like maybe you don't enjoy having a penis in your vagina? That seems to be the theme of your other replies. Maybe you're a lesbian?

    • Nah, i can't even think about doing that with a girl, i am strictly straight and it's just intercourse what about blowjob, you will not able to stand even a second if a man fucked your throat

    • Show All

Most Helpful Girls

  • "F**ks me for 30-40 mins." You have the golden ticket with that sentence alone. Yet you're complaining? If I were you, I'd go get that 30-40 minutes in a few times each day before whatever lucky streak he's on, runs out.
    Or divorce his no good, problematic, stamina of a God having sex monstrous ass TODAY. Then give him my address and I'll take care of it for you.

    • lol. I am also amazed that she does not see the luck she has!

    • Hahahahaha this is hilarious!!!

  • I honestly can't see what your issue is, you're lucky to have a guy that can last more than five minutes let alone one that you can in theory be adventurous with knowing he not going to blow his load in a split second.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Does having a penis give you privileges?
Have you ever dance nude in front of anyone?
How can I stop my friend from her reckless behaviour?
Guy struggle eating women out?

What Girls & Guys Said

0 21

  • I'm going to guess that he's circumcised, right?

  • Well dont worry someday it might change.
    But first of all I've never ever once heard a girl say he's taking too long LOL I mean 30 40 minutes is a good stretch an hour and a half is even a better stretch but in that 30 40 minutes you should have given you two to three orgasms and in an hour and a half at least 7 to 8 and I mean intense orgasms if you want him to come faster moan louder and start talking dirty I mean dirty dirty you have him shooting come everywhere

  • Please ask him for tips to last that long and let me know 😂

  • Is he masturbating a lot when you are not around? How often are you having sex? For handjobs ask him to show you how he does it... guys are experts with their penis. Use some lube when you give him a hj.. it will get him off quicker.

  • Try roleplay and stuff like that. Introduce toys. Ask him what he likes you to do. Each men have their own tastes.

  • How can he be a sex monster if he doesn't cum?
    Have you ever tried telling him how much you want his cum in you while your fucking him? Act like you need it to survive.

  • That will rise to an hour when he gets over 32...

    Be happy, most women think they can't orgasm because their guy is incapable or just gives a sht...

  • There are just times when that happens. Is it a big deal that he doesn’t cum quickiy?

    • Yes!, the vagina is mine which he is continuously penetrating

    • You don’t change it up so that he isn’t always hitting your v?

    • What do you mean?

    • Show All

  • Some opioids can do that. But if he is using, it will eventually crash his testosterone.

  • Stick fingers up his ass. Middle and ring on your right hand, no good losing your wedding band..

  • he should cut back on masturbation and cut out porn if he watches it. this will fix the issue hands down

  • Opinions are interesting since I saw a poll on here that said women think 10-15 mins
    of PIV sex is plenty for them. As for her problem, I've heard prostate massage
    makes a guy go off quick. (no personal experience on that one)

  • He might have a porn addiction.

  • What the fuck? Isn't it better for you? This should be a woman's dream!!!

    • Dream? getting continuously hitted in vagina gets tiring and uncomfortable, you will not understand being girls are getting fucked not boys

    • No you will never understand whatcha talkin' about!!! If you want someone a premature ejaculator like me, then divorce and remarry with me.

    • There are many other things in a relationship other than sex, so can't give divorce

    • Show All

  • I bet I could get him to come quick

  • He is lucky person, have long stamina to give you pleasure and satisfaction

  • Dont worry dear you problem much less than most

  • He must love how you feel and how the feeling feels and just wants to enjoy it.

  • Cause u don't make him cum he makes himself cum he just uses ur body to do it instead of his hand

    • What the hell? i never thought it that way

    • Well essiently thats what happens 90 percent of the time unless your riding or sucking dick.. thats pretty much the only time a female makes a guy cum vs us making ourselves cum using a female

  • This is something you should be asking and talking to him about. Only he can tell you. Like women, we're all different.

  • Show More (1)

Latest Questions

How much money do strippers make?(no im not thinking about being a stripper just seen a vid on tik tok)?
Girls, Have you ever accidentally given a guy friend a boner?
Girls, if u had a nice full 30 minute body massage would that turn u on and wanting more?
How long does sex last including foreplay?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > Why it's so hard to make him cum?