Why its not considered okay for a older guy to date a younger girl


Why its not considered okay for a older guy to date a younger girl

I think its because guys know they are more sexual than girls are, like usually guys are on different levels. And guys (not all) edit the way they talk around girls when it comes to sex. In my generation, it wasn't uncommon for 12-13 year old guys in middle school to talk about having anal sex daily. Or how a guy could say "I wanna smash her pussy" to his guy friends but if a girl heard it or if he said that to her, she would be creeped out most of the time.

Or even in college, in our Sociology class a guy and girl had to put each other in a stance that was their opposite gender, like the guy puts the girl in a masculine stance and the girl puts him in a feminine stance. The first round he put her arms up like she was flexing her biceps, but the second round he put her hand in front of crotch like a guy kinda grabbing his junk for a masculine stance thats signifies manliness. All the girls freaked out and the guys either didn't care, were amused, or were laughing. Because girls didn't understand it and reacted bad he made him pick another one.

Like even in college and with older girls in their 50s-60s there's stuff guys do or whats normal for guys that girls don't understand and are weirded out or creeped out by.

I think girls know this to an extent. Some know everything and dont care. But guys typically know this and it affects the way we look at issues like this. Because most of us guys were the same as 14-15 year olds sexually as we are as 21 year olds. Girls usually aren't at that level and girls usually tend to act more innocent then they really are. When a younger guy in high school hooks up with a older girl, its looked at as he's pulling her in, but the other way around its looked at as the guy is preying on her, because we know how guys can be. It may be a bias we developed subconsciously or consciously because we know guys and girls are on a different level (or usually can be). And also guys are considered dominant and are the ones who initiate everything. So the age factor, you're perceived as more innocent if you're noticeably younger. If she's like 21, and you're 45, its not looked at as she's pulling you in, its looked at as you are preying down to her level for all the reasons listed. But a 20-21 year old guy with a 45 year old hook up, its looked at usually as he's initiating it (kind of dominant) and pulling her in.

These are my opinions on the topic.

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