Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Let's start off by saying that I am sure many men are bad at sex. If you want to make that argument? Fine. Write a mytake. But the point here is that with the advancements of gender equality, what we haven't seen enough of is gender equality in the bedroom.
Simply put: there are a ton of women out there who are simply bad at sex. They just lay there!
Don't get me wrong. I love women. But I would contend that there are a lot of women who claim they want to be dominated and say they are submissive for one simply reason. They are sexually lazy.
A lot of women in society these days have sex freely available to them any time they want. Unlike men, they may feel they don't need to maximize their performance in bed due to the abundance of guys drooling over them to bed them. What is the result of this?
The result of abundance of available sex means you dont have to impress your partner. You simply can lay there on your back an open your legs and let the man to all the work.
Other times women enjoy doggystyle and so they can bend over on their stomach and once again...have the men do all the work.
Still, can women thrust? Are they good at riding a man on top and arching their back? How good is their perfomance when commanding the ship?
Who knows? Maybe I am wrong. Maybe there are a lot of women riding on top and have their game on lock. Only the fellas out there would know if most of their women are typically not doing much other than letting the guy do everything.
And ladies? If you are an equal partner in bedroom dynamics? God Bless you!
P.S. I have written articles assisting men who are horrible in bed.
What Girls & Guys Said
22 18I'm bi and can confirm men aren't all that great either.. but no man starfished me! lol
Lol Women are great kissers at least...
@BlackCatBone Really? The ones I've been with held back too much. I prefer aggressive, deep tongue kissers.
Most girls don't enjoy a lot of tongue during kissing...
@BlackCatBone I've noticed! But most women don't grab me by my shirt's collar and whisper filthy things to me that make my toes curl. They aren't aggressive, they're too passive
I need a *good* dom lol.
Honestly... It wasn't my experience but I'm not a sub so that may be why I'm more into that sort of things...
Very true. You also say the same thing about why most women have very little personality and are not that intellectual. Answer:. Because they don't have to be to get male attention.
Let the man do all the work?
Must be a millennial thing. Living with mommy deprived younger people of so much life.
Because they're girls. and they are being raised in a world with men's guidance, And a world of P***Sied SIMPS you'll find bunch of lost and confused women who dont have anything besides their p***sies to offer.
Agreed. I would add that young girls are also not encouraged to play sports or be athletic in ways that gives them a taste for that kind of high powered energy release that is really crucial for later life. Plus the diets and workouts pitched up women (honestly it shouldn't even be gendered!) are typically more about weight loss than building stamina or endurance.
Can confirm. Women seem to think sex is only for them and the guy shouldn't complain. Instead he should feel lucky he even gets it.
This might be one of the reasons I don't enjoy sex. I'm a relatively long laster which sounds like a brag but if you're doing all the work and you aren't extremely good at cardio your muscles get exhausted before you can really get anywhere.
what is bad sex
This HIT HARD!!
If you're not going to move can I at least tie you up?
hahaha
when life gives you lemons...
You clone those lemons.
Awesome. Lol
LOL!!! THANKS FOR SAYING THIS!
Oh this was for girls, I was it for the asker and i thought you were telling to move on.
What does it add?
Rope. Or duct tape in my case. I'm poor.
Why does it make things better?
Sorry, my eye brows are doing things and I'm too old for emotes. So just imagine the most attractive man you can think of is giving you the naughty brow.
OK... 😂
u care too much for the physic, it is the mental is what importance, with me it is not how a woman riding a cock, it is about what is the story of that woman riding that cock.
powerful point. but its rare to find women who aren't superficial or shallow
As far as some positions -im scared of bending it or slamming it in the wrong hole, and my man is HUNG, so I'm much tamer with my thrusting than when he does it, but def not lazy
Lol who are these women who seem not to enjoy sex?
Maybe the women you experienced are bad in bed because you really dont turn them on enough or they probably know your judgmental and that's a big turn off. Trust me if she's horny enough she's going to go all out.
Yeah yeah lol... Boy talk again...
I don't think this is true unless they're just interested in casual sex, which most aren't. Every woman knows to keep your man you need to please him.
Fair distinction! Women hold all the cards in casual sex, so why would they feel the need to put in the effort?
Women hardly like casual sex so why would they if the get nothing out of it. There's a small minority who do it because they feel less pressure and ingabition. It sounds to me like some of you guys need to communicate more with the inexperienced ones.
MOST women don't feel like they get anything out of casual sex, yes. But the few who DO (very much so) have ALL the power muahaha
I agree HARD on the communication part by the way! I can tell you it's a problem on both ends for sure >.<
God bless the women out there who want to please their man and keep them by being a good mate instead of keeping them by saying I can get 3 guys to f#ck me by tomorrow.
I feel like this didn't need to be so l I ng and could have been summed up in like 3 sentences. Not disagreeing the woman are lazy with sex at all, we are, guys are expected to do more work and be amazing at everything they do. But thats more of just a common knowledge fact these days.
I think a lot of women are told to look pretty and I keep quiet and just let the man do his thing. Have you ever seen secret life of a Geisha. So when I comes to sex we try to incorporate things with the people that we really love or married to because you can get away with it.