Here is the thing about virgins... they honestly have no idea how important sex is to a healthy and productive relationship. They have no first hand experience in the matter and the longer they wait the more insecure or insistent they become on how they feel about the subject.
They just do not get it, that as virgins if they wait for marriage is too late to figure out if you and your partner are sexually compatible and you have no idea how important that is.
I have seen this slice both ways to, I have seen women on hear say how they met their boyfriend or husband and were virgins and now they do not know if their issue with sex are because of her or if their man is not a good lover. They don't know if they are messed up in some way or if their guy is just incapable of pleasing them sexually... because they have no bases for comparison. No they will say how much they love their man but are concerned if they will always have to live a life with out feeling really fulfilled. Having to live with the not knowing and always wondering.
Virgin men are eve worse they at literally minute men, and it takes a guy some time to build up some resiliency without losing it first 5 minutes... where as most women need more time to truly get into it.
So honestly yes, at my age I have no interest in a virgin... mostly due to the fact that sex is something you can only get good at with practice. Sure there are some people who are naturals... but sex really is something that takes time to develop any real skill at and you put in all the effort and energy to develop a strong emotional attachment with some one it can be a real bummer to discover you are just not sexually compatible.
If both are virgins then there is nothing to compare too.
@888theGreat true but if one is unsatisfied or unfulfilled in relationship sexually... they always have to live wondering if it is them or their partner or if this s just how sex is supposed to be. Now if their both happy then... who cares right? But if they aren't happy, then sex is just one more thing that puts stress on the relationship.
@davejord thank you so much for your explanation 🙏🏻
Not here. Here, it's the other way around. Most guys here are creepily obsessessed with women being virgins and with degrading women who aren't.
Why?
Because most guys here are incels and bitter misogynists who project their insecurities onto women.
Yeah, you are totally right.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I have never heard of that. 95% of men love virgin women and actually prefer virgin women.
These guys think that if she is older and Virgin she might have some problems.
No…. Not what people think.
I think very few do- they may not be their first choice in sexual partners, but that's not the same as hating someone. Recall that you can GAIN experience fairly easily; it's not like it's an impossibility.
A woman's virginity usually doesn't matter to most men.
To those for whom it does matter, it usually doesn't matter much.
To those for whom it matters a lot, it's almost always seen as a GOOD thing.
They likely looking for a one night stand, virgin women are better for a relationship.
https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NatureAdoresAVirgin
No. Only guys that are just interested in sex/hooking up/casual sex will think that.
In a relationship you both learn together what your partner likes and dislikes. unless their previous partner happened to like things exactly like you do, you still would have to learn together what each other likes.
Do you think that virgin women are bad in bed?
I don't think it should matter too much. As long as someone is active and doesn't just lay there like a corpse it should be fine. In my opinion, having a strong emotional connection to someone first would make the experience much more enjoyable for both people involved. I think that people that are too experienced either don't value sex as part of a special emotional bond, or they have been broken too many times to form a very strong emotional attachment anymore. To me, the less experienced they are means the less people they have formed a strong emotional attachment to, which is good because they are less damaged emotionally and can more easily form a good strong lasting attachment. It is part of long term pair bonding. Nothing wrong with inexperience. And pay no attention to people's age for that. Some people that are older have little sexual experience and some really young people have an excessive amount of experience.
I never did. I just found them shy and selective.
I thought it was the other way around
Most men prefer virgins and have a distaste for the sexually promiscuous.
Promiscuous is another thing of course but nowadays i hear from most of them that they want women who are little experienced.
lol that's not true most men fetishize virginity.
I thought like that too. But nowadays, i heard from many men that they want girls to be a little experienced.
men have a hard time knowing what they want lol let alone communicating those wants
Ahahaha, i think this is the best answer 😂
I personally wouldn't be bothered if she was a virgin. I do have a problem with people say that you "hate" someone simply because you wouldn't sleep with them. You cannot shame/guilt someone into having sex with you and you aren't entitled to sex from anyone. There are plenty of men who have no issue sleeping with women who are virgins. Go find those men and stop worrying about how some men wouldn't sleep with you.
I don't hate virgin women, but I rather don't date any. Virgins in general, have a long way to go with romantic relationships.
Who told you this hoax, i adore virgin girls who keeps themselves virgins till marriage...
That's how it should be...
They don't
I think taking someone’s virginity is absolutely amazing but on the other hand experience makes everything better.
Not true, I don’t hate virgin women
But do you prefer a little experienced in a relationship?
No I don’t prefer that, you can pm me if you want
I don't mind virgin women sense I am one to
Those guys are retards and bad in bed. Sex is good based almost entirely on the man. And virgins have way more access to men for serious relationships so dont go throw that vcard away thinking it will help because it won't.
If anything, it makes more sense for them to prefer virgins.
If you get married what difference does it make. The guy is just looking for sex anyway.
I do not understand what you mean.
If you are going to be with her forever , she will get plenty of experience.
It's only a turnoff if she wants to abstain from sex
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