Why men like butts? Behind the male attraction towards female hips and butts

Recently I saw a question posted by a female GAG user and it inspired me to write this take.

Question 1
Question 1

Here's another similar question,

Question 2
Question 2

Take a look at the girl in the picture below.

Why men like butts? Behind the male attraction towards female hips and butts

Now if someone asks me “Why do you like this girl’s butt?”, my answers would be that it looks attractive, hot, sexy etc. etc. Well, I'm not going to overthink about her pooping or tooting like how the OP of the "Question 2" has mentioned.

But in reality there’s more to it than being simply being attracted to two bouncy balls, or “literally a ball of fat” as described by the OP of "Question 1".

So why are guys attracted to female butts if they are for pooping? What's appealing about them? And is it bigger butts that guys want? Let's dive into it.

It’s not all about the butt

The attraction is not merely about having a big ass or a small ass.

Men are actually attracted to the “hourglass shape” of a female body.

This so called “hourglass shape” consists of a low waist to hip ratio, which means your hips are wider compared to the circumference of your waist, and then there’s this curvature of the lumbar section (lower part) of the spine.

Now this type of a body shape comes with a nice booty!

Hourglass shape
Hourglass shape

The area where a female’s spine attaches to the buttocks is called a “vertebral wedging”. During a study it was shown that men were more attracted to women with a 45 degree wedge in the vertebral wedging regardless of the size of the butt (Example: see the image below). Which in other words would clarify that,

Males are more attracted to a specific shape of the female body rather than the size of a specific body part such as the butt.

It’s said that in the ancient days, women with a 45 degree curvature would have been able to do foraging with more ease during pregnancy since that type of a body would have prevented them from having spinal injuries. How? Go on reading.

Saw that?
Saw that?

Notice the 45 degree curvature in these photos?

This one too
This one too

Protection during pregnancy and child birth

As you see, this sexual attraction towards wide hips has a lot to do with bearing children. As humans evolved over the years, there was a dramatic increase in the size of our brains; and during the delivery, a child has to pass through the pelvic canal to be born. So, for this reason it is pretty obvious as to why we are naturally drawn for the selection for a wider pelvic canal. Because women with a wider pelvic canal, or in other words women with wider hips, are likely to birth children with more ease.

Why men like butts? Behind the male attraction towards female hips and butts

Having a wider hip ratio affects the body’s center of mass in a positive manner. The embryo grows directly above the center of gravity (of the body), so there was a risk of falling down on the fetus, which could lead to genetic loss. Thus, wide hips are supposed to provide balance to the body during pregnancy by lowering the center of mass and increasing bipedal stability (ability to move on two feet). The body achieves this by depositing fat in the buttocks and thighs.

Therefore, having a wider pelvic bone structure made walking and foraging much easier for our ancestors.

Why men like butts? Behind the male attraction towards female hips and butts

It’s beneficial for both reproduction and survival

Okay, now the attraction towards wider hips has even more to do with “natural selection” and “sexual selection”.

You may already know these stuff, but in case if you don’t remember, natural selection is a process where the adaptive traits of an organism are preserved and passed onto future generations as they support them in reproduction and survival.

Remember the survival of the strongest thing they taught back in school? This is about it.

Example: Evolving long necks has enabled giraffes to feed on leaves that others can't reach. The ones who are able to feed on the leaves survive while the ones who cannot die.

Why men like butts? Behind the male attraction towards female hips and butts

And "sexual selection" is a form of natural selection where a member of one biological sex will select the opposite sex to mate with them on the basis of specific characteristics.

For example, let’s take birds. Male birds tend to have colourful feathers so they can attract female birds to mate with, that’s how sexual selection works.

Now when it comes to humans, the low waist to hip ratio and protruded buttocks (small waist, p̶r̶e̶t̶t̶y̶ f̶a̶c̶e̶, and a big bank) is a case where natural selection and sexual selection go hand in hand. Which means when it comes to a small waist and a curvy booty, it has both reproductive advantages and survival advantages.

Looking for differences

Why men like butts? Behind the male attraction towards female hips and butts

Okay now let’s talk about “Sexual dimorphism”, which means the differences between individuals of different genders in the same species (In our case, differences between men and women).

For sexual reproduction, the males have to identify their opposite sex, therefore waist to hip ratio can act as a cue (or a sign) of biological sex. For this reason, during puberty, with the beginning of the menstrual cycle in a female’s body, fat gets deposited in gluteofemural areas (such as buttocks, breasts, thighs).

Both of these processes happen during the same time. Thus, females tend to have bigger butts, thighs and breasts compared to males.

Some other similar features (that helps with identification) in females would be long hair, breasts, feminine voice, facial features, long nails etc.

Having healthy babies

Why men like butts? Behind the male attraction towards female hips and butts

A lower waist to hip ratio is also an indicator to a man that his children are going to be healthier. The reason? The fat accumulated in gluteofemural area represents a specific form of fat called “Long chain polyunsaturated fatty acids”.

The buttocks store Omega 3 fatty acids, and this type of fat plays a huge role in the neural development of an embryo.

Studies have shown that children of women with lower waist to hip ratio score higher on cognitive tests. Which means such children are likely to be intelligent.

Identifying if a female is pregnant or not

Why men like butts? Behind the male attraction towards female hips and butts

A lower waist to hip ratio in a woman also became an indicator to a man that she is not currently pregnant. During the embryonic development, the waist to hip ratio increases indicating that the woman is pregnant. Hence, a lower waist to hip ratio indicated that a woman is not pregnant but rather ready to become pregnant.

On another way, it also indicated the number of children previously born because the size of the hips increases along with the number of children born.

Your daughters would be gorgeous?

Why men like butts? Behind the male attraction towards female hips and butts

Studies show that women with lower waist to hip ratio are more likely to bear daughters who would also have a lower waist to hip ratio making it a heritable trait. Now this can be considered as an indirect advantage since during the selection of a partner, men do not tend to analyze if one day their daughters would have a “sexy look”. For that reason, we can take it as an indirect benefit.

Summarizing the butt story

Why men like butts? Behind the male attraction towards female hips and butts

Alright, so in case if you were distracted by the images or if it was TLDR and didn't read the 'take' properly, well then please read this part.

So, based on the above facts, we can see that,

  • Women with wider hips tend to bear healthy children and the structure of their body helps them with survival.
  • The "Polyunsaturated fatty acids" stored in a female's buttocks helps with the development of a baby's brain. Women with good storage of these fats can bear intelligent children.
  • Further, such body shapes helps us identify who is suitable to mate with.

Although some women think that it's the size of the ass that men are attracted to, it's not the size that men are attracted to. What men are actually attracted to is,

  • A lower waist to hip ratio (hourglass shape) along with a 45 degree curvature in the lower part of the spine (where the spine connects to the buttocks)

Things to note about this attraction considering the questions of the two anonymous GAG users (The ones I posted at the beginning of this post),

  • What's cute about a butt is its jiggly/bouncy nature, and how it moves when you walk.
  • Men don't care about the pooping and farting part. It's a natural thing after all, and it doesn't cross our minds when we see a booty.

Now I think you can understand why men are attracted to butts and hips in terms of biology and evolution. Sorry for the lengthy explanations and for any spelling/grammar mistakes.

Thank you for reading :)

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Why men like butts? Behind the male attraction towards female hips and butts

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  • Yep, well said.

    In short, men are attracted to a woman's butt for the same reason women are attracted to a man's chest, back, hands and height. We are genetically programmed to be, because those traits indicate the person is more likely to have the traits required to be a able to reproduce healthy offspring (in the case of women), or more likely to be able to provide for and protect those offspring (in the case of men).

    • Yeah, after all it's all about reproduction.

    • Agreed!

  • Exactly... My standard response to that question and large dressing sexy is it is always about the WAIST. Skinny waist can carry 30lbs overweight as well as little butt well.

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  • I think this is prob. pretty much true, but I also think it might be a little simpler than that. My idea is, well, think about how monkeys have sex. And like a million years of evolution where our ancestors mostly had sex that way, meaning doggy w the female butt on display. I think there is just something in guys brains from a million years of that. But the other stuff may be true also. JMO!

    • Exactly. Maybe there's something even more than what I've written here in this take which we do not know yet. Somehow we can all agree that butts are attractive. There's seriously something about it.

  • Also, we guys are programmed to find the female anatomy, and the differences between women's bodies and our own, to be endlessly fascinating! And if a guy really, loves a woman, he will want to experience her totally, every gorgeous inch of her!

    • This is very true. If you truly love someone you appreciate them as a whole. Not only their body but also their soul, both as one.

  • Small and tight athletic butts turn me on. Those gargantuan Kardashian ass type women disgust me.

  • Good point and nothing wrong with liking what you like. But everyone has a type as well

  • OP's assumptions lie on a false premise and the entire post is utterly misguided. There is a difference between liking butts and THINKING that you like butts. No one "likes" butts. Why would they, any more than you could "like" a toe. What you're talking about is ACQUIRED behavior. You don't have to do much thinking to realise this. If men liked butts then you would observe this in tribal cultures, especially since many dress lightly so women's butts are visible most of the time. You watch any documentary or the descriptions by anthropologists living with these tribes as part of field work (e. g. for their thesis or for their doctorates) you will find that male members express no interest in staring at butts. It's just a body part of no particular interest.

    I myself can testify to this. When I was young and innocent I thought exactly nothing at all about legs, male or female - they're just legs. As I picked up from others that female legs are SUPPOSED TO look attractive ("Woah, check out those legs!") I started looking at those very same legs with different eyes. The legs didn't change and my eyes didn't either. I LEARNED that they are nice.

    Finally, when you look at a shaved leg without a body you can say one minute that it's sexy, then see it belong to a man and go "yuk", same with a bare shaved butt - if you learn it's a man's all of a sudden the same butt is no longer sexy. You may say "that's a beautiful girl" and when find out it's a trans woman suddenly you change your mind - or rather, you consciously alter your own PERCEPTION, if such is possible. How does that work?

  • This is true, but heretical according to the social constructionism that dominates intersectional and third-wave feminist ideology.

  • They don’t it’s typical black peoples thing but they actually just laugh at fat

  • Finally someone else who understands these things too. Thank you!. While I have no problem with external examination, some may need to see what goes on INSIDE a healthy gal to help insure safe deliveries of offspring.

    Viva la difference!
    Viva la difference!

    The female pelvis is wider, more scoop-shaped, and with a much larger foramen (opening) icw the pelvic floor and pelvic outlet. And that extreme sacral curve does help everything come out in the - er, her- end.

    • Thank you, this is very informative.

  • Long time ago people thought women with husky bottoms were healthier and stronger for working on the farm and produce healthy and many children and I think it has carried over to our times now. For myself I prefer a curvy woman but to each their own a woman is not made by her butt size but her inside

    • True, I agree. We are all attracted to physical appearance but outwards beauty means nothing if there's no inner beauty.

    • inner beauty never gets old or tired it is always young and beautiful

  • Why men like butts? Behind the male attraction towards female hips and butts


    She could bring out the lesbian in any girl.

  • Maybe. There's definitely something to it. I mean if I bend over my husband takes it as an invitation to slap my ass or mount me

    • Hahaha, yes there's definitely something to it.

    • Its like bending over to reach the bottom shelf of the fridge... and there's a dick on my pussy.

    • Omg sounds like there's some desperation going on. A slap on it is understandable tho.

  • Those butts all looked good, not too big and shapely, what I like

  • Does it include thick thighs too including big hips

    • If you have a low WHR it's likely you also have thick thighs.