Why men listens to or spends loads of money on the other woman who sexually satisfies him than the woman who he has been married or committed?

Men i have been having sex give me whatever i wish or listen to whatever i say.

Does sex manipulate men to such extent?

I use it too for manipulation. Just want to know the psychology behind this

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  • One theory is that humans have a natural drive to seek out new and novel experiences. When someone is in a long-term relationship, the excitement and intensity of the early days can start to fade, and seeking out a new partner can provide a rush of novelty and excitement. This theory is supported by research that suggests that dopamine, a chemical in the brain associated with pleasure and reward, is released when someone encounters a new sexual partner.

    Another theory is that some men may be seeking validation or self-worth through their interactions with the other woman. Perhaps they feel unappreciated or neglected in their primary relationship, and the attention and validation they receive from the other woman provides a temporary escape from those feelings. This theory is supported by research that suggests that humans have a fundamental need for social connection and validation.

    Some men may engage in these behaviors due to underlying psychological issues or unresolved trauma. For example, a man who has experienced sexual abuse or trauma in the past may struggle with intimacy and may seek out sexual experiences as a way to cope with those feelings.

    These theories are just a few of the many potential explanations for why some men engage in extramarital affairs or spend significant amounts of money on another woman. Each individual's situation is unique, and it's important to approach these issues with empathy and understanding. It's also important to recognize that engaging in these behaviors is not a healthy or respectful way to approach relationships, and it's important to communicate openly and honestly with one's partner and work through any issues or concerns in a constructive and respectful way.

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  • Well, think of it this way: There's a table in front of you with two bowls. One is full of candy and one is full of vegetables. Now, the vegetables are good for you. Very nutritious. You need them for a healthy life. But candy makes you happy. Your face lights up when you get candy. Now, someone tells you to pick a bowl. Which one are you gonna go for first?

    Adults are just big kids, really. No matter how much they try to pretend otherwise. Their wife is the vegetables. You're the candy. You're absolutely terrible for them, but without someone to stop them, they're gonna keep coming back for more.

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  • Yes as we connect during those times in some ways. Guys do not usually connect emotionally unless some action is involved. It does not always have to be sexual action. Fixing your sink, blinds, or toilet is same kind of thing.

  • The new toy effect. The guy in this scenario is probably sexually bored of his current relationship and finds other women more exciting.

    Excitement makea you put more effort into things.

  • Simple men want sex and want a best sex. Because wives do not give best sex to their husband so those husband find sex out side the house. So they find those women or girl who can give best sex because those give only give best sex so men give money you can give best sex course all you got best sex.

  • Yes, usually a man that’s weak in that way can lose himself in whatever a woman wants when it comes to sex. I have a philosophy I’ve stuck with and it’s helped me.. women don’t want to be seen as just sex objects and usually do use sex to get what they want. I don’t let sex cloud my judgement I’m pretty good at telling if a woman is trying to use sexual prowess to gain something. So I’ve been labelled an asshole by some for having sex with woman and not keeping “my end of the bargain.” Because if the intention was to have sex and get what you want. You already have gone into it with the intention of not caring about me, just something to use. So I make it back fire on them. It’s liberating when that happens because I know if they were genuine, I would be more inclined to be more give and take. Point is, you are right. Some men do.

  • If you didn’t put yourself out there like that do you think he would have strayed …?
    So who’s taking advantage of who…?
    Hope that helps

  • the dick wants what it wants

  • Sex is important in a relationship, if you use it to manipulate your a pos and the guy is naive or unintelligent. However if you hold sex from your husband till he does what you want then he’s right to seek out other forms of sexual gratification. Though he should divorce you first likewise for you, if he isn’t pleasing you then y’all aren’t meant to be, y’all should want to sexually satisfy eachother