Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Okay. Let's take a major step back and try to not make this all about you, shall we? When a man engages in sex with a woman, it's a complicated affair, pun intended. He has to take into account her needs, boundaries, stated preferences, feelings and a host of other factors. All this before he even gets to the part about his needs and trying to achieve the closeness he seeks. You wouldn't have it any other way. You want a considerate, caring lover, no doubt.
When he watches porn, it's all about two things: fantasy and convenience. If you really, honestly expect him t never lust after another woman in his head, you sadly mistaken. He was a girl watcher when he found you and finding you, no matter how satisfying, doesn't kill that desire to look. There's an old saw that is absolutely true: when a guy's through looking, he's through. He is, to put a point on it, NEVER going to stop looking at other women. Nor do you want him to.
It's that sexual desire that's the engine of your intimate relationship. Nor do you stop looking at attractive men nor does he want you to for the same reason. That he looks at other women and porn says nothing about how he feels about you.
So porn is about him fantasizing. It's also where he likely finds new ideas to bring to your conjugal bed that you'll hopefully find very entertaining.
The other reason men watch porn is convenience. He doesn't have to take all those factors I mentioned into consideration. It's just him and his dick.
Bottom line: fear not!! Just relax and enjoy the man in your life and ignore the porn. Or better yet, offer to watch it with him. It makes a great warm up.
What Girls & Guys Said
20 19I don't have to explain why I watch porn to any bitch
lol so stupid
Your the stupid one calling women bitches ahole
@Arielbubble why do i have to explain?
Don't have to explain anything. Except calling women bitches. How would you like it if someone called youe own mother or sister that? It's disrespectful. 😒
@Arielbubble of course they have they are women it is a part of life women and men get called shit plus you women do not care about us men in general so your words have no value
Oh yeah? I care about my sweet kind and caring boyfriend who asked me to marry him n a doese but I certainly don't give a flying fuck about you so, How about a great big FUCK YOU UP THE ANUS DICKWAD? Choke on my big fat hairy fucking clit. Ha
@Arielbubble HAHAHAHA lol that made me laugh
Omfg...🤔😒
@Arielbubble I don't believe you lol
Exactly my point 😒🤔
I don’t watch porn because I’m asexual
Porn is the devil himself. It is filthy it is ruining the fabric of our society. And I love it. Fuck away people fuck away.
Interesting
I watch porn to arouse my inner man
Rarely fap to it tho, boarding school, and the fact I don't let myself more than 1 in the end of the week
Good take..
Thanks.
Same reason women watch it.
I watch more porn then my boyfriend does. lmfao
LOL
Porn is great bro
What about if your boyfriend stopped having sex with you (from like once a week to once every 3 months) and would rather watch pornography than be intimate with you
I'm going through that and honestly its unacceptable
My man fave thing to say is "is that all I care about?" 😒
I don’t care if he watches his porn as long as he doesn’t force me to do the things pornstars do. If he wants that, then I’ll dump him and he can date a pornstar.
There’s a misconception porn only contains porn stars. Recently the trend in the industry is to get ordinary but pretty girls to do a casting video and publish it on free sites like pornhub. They film ordinary sex positions with no craziness. It’s literally ‘watch a pretty 20 year old have sex.’ Old fashioned porn is going out of style pretty quickly.
The simpler explanation minus the psychobabble nonsense:
Because we're horny, it turns us on and we jack off to it.
I don't wanna know that. I'll just pretend it's not true and he can keep it to himself. Just like women have stuff men dont wanna know.
I don't mind knowing that stuff, in fact, the more the merrier, that way I know how to deal with it
@Cokebottle really? I wouldn't wanna know everything.
if you keep things from people, and you go behind their back on certain things, that makes them distrust you
Guys who are in relationships but don't watch porn or masturbate have no choice but to take all that built up sexual energy out on their wives and have a better sex life. this I know from real couples I've met. looking at other women or men and lusting after them is not the same as porn. one can't be cotrolled, the other can.
What if they love their wives, but over time their wives sex drive dips while the man's is still high? I'm sure a man who loves his wife will not want to end things as a serious relationship is or should be more than sex. But there will be built up horniness and if so a man will really want to get off or else be very unhappy. If his wife only wants sex once a week of the desire is far apart. He'll want to get off other ways which would be masturbation. And guys go to porn because it's the easiest way and convenient to get off. A guy can go from his spank bank, but that's not much different. A dude is probably jerking off on some hot chick he saw at a store in yoga pants with a great ass or the hot female celebrity on tv, etc.
@brennanhuff he can masturbate, watching porn is not necessary for that, you are just making excuses. and fantasising about somebody in yoga pants will not make things better with your wife. sex once a week is still quite good. better save all that energy and use it on her. eventually her drive will go high again.
Men who don't watch porn, satisfy their needs and fantasies by cheating. So girls be happy if your guy watches porn.
Watching Porn stars and cheating with an random girl have absolutely nothing in common except a selfish man...
@SouthernExposure no, actually porn has nothing to do with selfishness. the thing in common here is that both guys are satisfying their fantasies (and all human beings have those, humans are not monogamous by nature, its a biological fact).
Well then maybe you should be with a girl who can satisfy your needs instead of hurting someone who doesn't deserve to be cheated on.
@SouthernExposure I never cheated on anyone in my life. However, that doesn't change the fact that one woman can't satisfy all man's needs. And vice versa.