Why men and women should not dislike giving oral.

[DogEatsCat1973]

Why I think everyone should give oral. First if your partner is willing to give you a special gift of pleasure you should be kind enough to reciprocate and make sure they enjoy it too. Now ladies we all know that you can use other parts to give your guy a special moment, but for him is is nice to be fluffed first by the mouth, partly because it shows him that you put him above any random guy because you do for him something you might not enjoy doing, and also because if the intimacy of the action as it says his member does not offend you. Guys I love to see, smell, taste, and yes feel her genitals but if the sight offends you, or the smell, or the taste, then ask yourself do you find the alternative more appealing?

I feel that if I love someone then their sexual organs and fluids should not be offensive to me. Also if my partner is willing to give me such a special gift then why would I not want to make sure my partner enjoys it too. Now since most women don't get off on just penetration we men need to give her a little something extra special> that tongue action. Do not fear guys if you don't think you are good at it: First study anatomy you can't get someplace if you don't first study a road map. Second look up how to guides on giving her pleasure. Third study how women give pleasure to other women because they know what to do. Now when you do it for her don't do it as if it is a chore, or because you have to, dive in like you love it more than anything else, attitude will help her enjoy it more, while a lack of attitude will make her feel bad about herself, and rob her of enjoyment. Lastly every woman is different so ask her what she likes. And yes ladies the same goes for us men and to give the best you can study and ask too. Joe might like having his balls sucked, but it hurts me and makes me lose interest.

Ultimately providing such a service is not about your enjoyment but your partners enjoyment, and nothing is more special than doing for them something that you might not be overly enthusiastic about doing, but do because you love them and want them to enjoy a moment provided by you.