Why most guys love doggy style?

I don't understand why he kept wanting doggy style instead normal position.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Every man will be different - and every couple will be different. However, in my case, it is a matter of asserting my dominance.

    My girlfriend and I tend to a more primal sex. Not in a BDSM "chains and whips" kind of way, but in a very animal way, with licking and a bit of biting and scratching. We are like two beasts mating in a field somewhere and being reduced to that very natural and primitive state makes for some amazing sex. We are stripped to our most base selves and are totally accepting each other as we are devoid of any refinement or self-control.

    That being stated, I am the dominant alpha male and she is the submissive female. My instinct is to put my sperm in her and impregnate her and she receives my seed and bears my young. (I should add that we have three children - the first two pregnancies were unplanned, the third we did plan.)

    For that reason, doggie is something that we both really like. Only it has to be doggie with me laying on top of her, not with my back straight up, and thrusting hard. Though really with any with us on all fours works.

    (As an aside, I also like being on all fours and being milked, with my girlfriend stroking me or underneath me and sucking me. We also like rimming. For me she is presenting and submitting. To her, when she rimms me she is showing her obedience and submission.)

    Whether "most" guys like doggie-style and for that reason is arguable. (For that matter, I also really like missionary with me on top. Again, so long as I am on top and am "humping" her in the sense of having my body pressing against her's it is a wild turn-on.) The natural male instinct is to be the alpha male and to dominate and make babies. It is how the species has survived over several hundred thousand years.

    By the same token, our female ancestors were looking for the alpha male with healthy sperm to make healthy babies and who could then find food for mom and baby and ward off rival males and predators. So insofar as any sexual position triggers those instincts in both male and female they were apt to be satisfying.

    To my girlfriend, submitting and being obedient to me sexually is a huge turn-on. To me, being that alpha male who dominates her is equally wildly exciting. Doggie-style works in that way for us. It is the literal physical expression of my dominance and - weirdly perhaps - the love and trust and intimacy we share.

    So doggies in a natural way. Not absolutely always - after all, variety is the spice of life as the saying goes. Still, as a man, I need to be natural and sexually dominant and I am lucky enough to have a woman in my life who shares that view and who believes her naked body is there for my use and the positions that reinforce those feelings work best for both of us.

  • How is doggy not a normal position? It's probably the most practiced one of them all. And for guys, it's about the view, the ability to go deeper, and the ability to set the thrusting speed to his own liking. I thought this would be common knowledge by now.

Most Helpful Girls

  • He doesn't want to look at your face, it's easier for a guy to fantasize being with someone else if he is not looking at you

    • Ha ha so not true.

    • You lie.

    • Not really got much of an imagination to fantasize about

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  • He may be an ass man and he may like looking at your ass while he is beeping you also doggy style the guy can go deeper

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  • Cus they're psycho

    • They are

  • Because doggy style is "normal position." Look at every animal on the planet and how they typically have sex. Even our genitals are designed that way. The reason the clit is on top of the vagina is so that it can be stimulated by the man's testicles during sex in doggy style.

    • Lol. Yep, that’s EXACTLY why the clit is above the vagina - so that it can be simulated by the testicles during doggy style sex…… 🙄🤦🏽

    • It’s also why our fingers are relatively small - so we can pick our noses with relative ease.

  • I enjoy the view mostly. Also it seems a lot more comfortable for both of us. I can go deeper and for her she gets a good g spot thrill. Really turns me on when my partner wears lingerie or something sexy.

  • I think doggy position is for for fucking my wife more than making love to her. It's more for harder sex. Although it's a great view for guys.

  • Well I suppose it's because we have a view of the butt and I suppose it's better for moving our hips... Yeah I don't know I'm a virgin I have no experience and honestly I'm not a fan of doggy I much prefer the front then the back.

  • I don't. I think it hints of raper. It's forceful and not intimate.

  • So he can see your butthole

  • Well personally I love to see a womans ass bounce as I fuck her

  • While her body and butt looks so good from that view I am not a doggy fan because she doesn’t like it and I have to be extra careful not to ram her cervix and not go all the way because that angle hits it directly. Also, her vag pushes down on her pubic bone so it is too tight and I can’t go in on the smaller part and she hates the stretching/tightness. I gave up on doggy. In missionary, everything works better.

  • It's more animalistic and carnal

  • so he could look at your ass

  • It allows deeper penetration and tends to feel really tight around your shaft all the way down to the base when you’re thrusting

  • He doesn't want to see your face because it's too intimate for him? How much do you both kiss?

    He could be thinking of someone else. Another possibility.

  • I've never been much of a d9ggy fan myself but its popular because its easy for the guys to reach the tits while in action, it also allows for rough sex by choking or pulling hair. Plus its more active for both parties than other positions

  • My tool is very short, that is the easiest method of entry.

    • With girl with a bottom like this
      Why most guys love doggy style?
      Id just have to send her a text.

  • Normal position? Please elaborate

  • He's gay. He only gets off thinking that you are a little boy and not a beautiful woman.

  • Don't ask lol

  • Some guys like it because they like butts, and if you have a sexy butt then doggy have a nice view. Also you get to see it go in. Second of all to grab them hips makes you be able to pound hard

  • It's an easy position to maintain stamina, makes us feel dominant, and me personally like seeing a woman's asshole

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