Why my boyfriend kissed me while groping my body? is he pervert? its our first real kiss?

i wasn’t wearing a bra and underwear. just pyjamas. we went to a lonely place. when we were kissing, he moved his hand from was waist to my butt. & then moved his hand inside my clothes. i was scared if he touches my boobs cuz i wasn't wearing a bra but he didn't he just touch at my back. ofc he knows i didn't wwar one. then his hand outside of my clothes and groping my left boob. then he wanted to touch my pussy but i moved his hand there. is he a pervert when he did that for our real first kiss? our first kiss just kiss. no groping.
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  • If you are not ready to move ahead in the relationship you need to tell him so he can back off. I doubt he is a pervert. Usually guys who are in relationships thinks its ok to feel and touch. Its good he didn't try to do more. You need to talk to him and tell him to slow down.

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  • I don't think he is pervert. He want sex from you and if you are not ready for sex then you should talk to him. It's common when your are in relationship it will happen your boyfriend is not pervert at all. But if you want your time to have sex with your boyfriend then talk to him. Other wise its a normal thing

Most Helpful Girls

  • You're not ready and/or not mature enough to be having this situation if you feel like this.
    Slow down, back off, wait til you're more comfortable.
    He's not a pervert, but you're about to get taken advantage of in a way that you won't want. You need to assert yourself and say no.

  • He was just being a normal over enthusiastic boy. They do get quite carried away. Tell him that you didn’t like him rushing things so quickly. I am sure he will apologise.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • How long have you been together? I do t think his behavior is unusual but you guys should talk about where you are both at. So there is no misunderstanding and no one feels manipulated.

    • 1 month haha

  • Yes he is quite a pervert, but you not exactly a saint as well.

  • Doesn't sound too perverted to me. Sounds like he controlled himself quite well, ... especially if you're the one who moved his hand to your crotch.

  • Going bra less he felt the invitationwas open

    • haha i was lazy to wear one. i thought just kissing. didn't expect he would grope. I don't know what to do but shock

    • Well from a guys standpoint you had no bra which he thought you were welcoming it

  • He just wanted more. He wasn’t very respectful, considering it was your first kiss.
    Move his hands away sharply next time. But I suggest talking about what is and isn’t ok.

  • Sounds fairly standard.

  • He's not a pervert, but he obviously wants sex.

    • but fast 😂 he told me that he's high

  • What 😂

  • 'my boyfriend is sexually attracted to me is he a pervert?'

    that's your question