These are side-effects of too much hardcore masturbation, the masturbation style he has developed, does not easily transition to your pussy stimulation, he might need a more tighter pussy, no disrespect intended, we are all built in our unique ways. There are many variations of pussies and dicks, and human mind also plays a great part during sex to compensate these variations. Solution. Stop watching porn, if he does. Needs to make sex more mind controlled, than mechanical (like fantasizing on a romantic novel, or another woman he would wish to fuck -just in his mind, visualization) Stop masturbating with hands completely, mouth b. js only occasionally. Give sex a breakExercise and eat foods that boost libido. If he’s willing to work it out, with time, he will cum inna pussy stimulation.
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No I wouldn't say that's normal. Like women that can makes themselves orgasm, yet their partner can't, I think it's time for more COMMUNICATION. My guess, being a guy, is that the pressure difference with his hand is why? But only he can tell you. Sometimes it can be the littlest thing, a slight change in pressure for example that can prevent an orgasm. Have you given him a hj? Can you make him that way? It could be speed also. He's got to start talking to you during sex and let you know what he needs to orgasm.
0 0 0 0I give BJ, HJ as well.. but only his hand can make him cum, not mine
If it's always been a problem, maybe he's a closet gay man? lol But yeah, if that's not it, he needs to start talking to you during sex. So try talking to him, but keep calm! Come at it in a loving way and tone of voice. Don't take this personally yet (as in, "something is wrong with me"), you just have to get to know him better and what he likes and doesn't like. But you can't do it alone, he has to start talking to you. If he won't do that, then maybe he's not the guy for you and a partner you need to be with. I know I couldn't be with someone that didn't want to communicate about sex. It's a must. Especially in circumstances like this.
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This is an issue that many guys face when being intimate.
The condition is called erectile dysfunction (ED) and the causes can be multiple. It could be the result of stress, health issue or other problems that prevent him from having an erection during intercourse.
The best is to talk about the situation and if it persists, it can become chronic. I would suggest to consult a urologist to ensure that there is no medical condition behind his ED.1 0 0 0Since there are women who find it difficult to cum, it stands to reason there are probably guys with the same issue. Don’t feel weird about it. It’s not your fault. Heck, it’s not his fault. Just temper your expectations during sex and, if you want to be a part of him cumming, offer to “assist” in any way he wants while he masturbates.
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0 9I think he is not used to the feeling of sex. when I first started having sex, I was also unable to cum from blowjobs/sex. It might have to do with his masturbation habits. I was used to using sex toys to masturbate and that was prob the reason why I couldn't orgasm from sex. After being more sexually active, blowjobs and sex are now enjoyable for me and I am able to orgasm from it. Cheers.
1 0 0 0Figure out what type of porn he likes. Watch it with him. Learn what turns him on and do that for him. Edge him and tease him. If you're going with a blowjob, use your hands in a twisting motion while also using your tongue. If it's a hand job and he's already erect and turned on, use your individual fingers to touch and feel on his head and shaft. If he's shaking, then you're good to go.
0 0 0 0It doesn't seem normal. I've never not been able to cum when having sex, though it isn't unusual for someone to need to do more than just sex once in a while. However, when this is an issue every time, it seems something is amiss.
0 0 0 0That's because he's for to use to masturbating and does it far to much.
0 0 0 0I don't believe that is normal.
0 0 0 0i am pretty sure he wank to porn so often that there is almost no sperm left in his testicles
0 0 1 0Maybe you’re not good at it.
Maybe he’s a homo?0 0 0 0He’s too used to masturbating and has desensitized the skin of his penis.
0 0 0 0Try footjob with your polished toes, if that is doesn't work try footjob with sexy socks on like pantyhose, nylon socks, ankle socks etc. because they are looking so sexy...
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