Why my boyfriend sucks my tongue like a vacuum cleaner when we kiss?

[Anonymous]

He sucks as if he's going to pull it off. He's my first boyfriend, is it natural.. are french kisses like that.. or he's too horny.. ? LOL

[Anonymous]

That's a bit weird... I don't think that's natural. I think he just has no idea how to french kiss... I once made out with a girl that thought that french kissing meant shoving their tongue as far down your throat as possible. You gotta tell them what they're doing is wrong or they will continue with the bad habit.

[COMMODOREII]

He may not be a very good kisser. However, some women do like the sucking effect. What would be better is to be gentle, and just rub your tongues together. It is not wrong to suggest to him to be less "sucking", if you do not like your tonuge being used as a lollipop. lol There is never a bad thing to practice.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Because no one ever taught him how to kiss

[DCooper]

Back up a sec... how do you know what sticking your tongue in a vacuum cleaner feels like? Or should we not go there?

[Belleevans]

Most men do this to me and I HATE it. Not only does it hurt and it's not romantic, I don't wana kiss them anymore. I end up with a tongue that feels like it's been burnt in hot liquid for the next 3 days and I'm dehydrated from him sucking out all my saliva. No idea why TF men kiss like this. It's horrible and a turn off. How to tell them they literally "suck " at kissing? Next guy I'm gona say PLEASE DONT SUCK! STOP SUCKING!

[RedThread]

That's.. odd. Let him know you want to try kissing differently if you're not into that. Communication between partners is key.

[AndreeaCr0ss]

I know, but you'll get used to it and you will think it's hot :>

[Belleevans]

Nope. Try dipping your tongue into boiling hot water. The after affect is how the girl feels. It's bad technique