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Why My Partners and I Love Anal Sex
From the time I started puberty, I’d always had a major fetish for a high, round bubble butt. It’s the asset that has the most appeal so it just followed that I’d want to do things to those sweet cheeks. I also discovered that I’m a very dominant lover with a bit of a sadistic streak sexually so for me there are three things that I get from anal sex.
I love the dominance of it for me and the submission for her. In the dozens of women that I’ve been with, the vast majority didn’t realize that they had a major submissive streak when it comes to sex. I love being with strong, smart, independent, professionally assertive women and I was frankly overjoyed to find that the more assertive and ambitious a woman is, the more submissive she often is sexually. The psyche seeks balance and assertive, ambitious women want a place where they don’t have to make the decisions and can just be carried along by the dominant man they trust. My booty fetish leads me to love chest down, ass up doggy with that sweet bottom pointed up at me, vulnerable and there for the taking. As a friend once told me, “It’s hard to be unsure about who’s in control when you’re getting fucked hard up the ass.” That also accounts for my love of A2M.
Second is how damn good it feels using a hard cock to ream that sweet hole. It’s tighter and generally has more friction. Lube is important, at least at first. The feeling of power and manliness that comes from “forcing” her to take a ruthless reaming and hearing her making all those joyful noises is almost overwhelming. The cherry on the cake is when I’m about to cum and she follows my command and squeezes me like a vise. Makes me cum like a rocket, be it in her mouth or up her ass.
Finally, I’m a sexual sadist and my partners have a masochistic side that anal sex really speaks to. We can make it as painful as we both want and my partners like it to, as they put it, hurt so damn good!! Some go so far as to want to be butt fucked dry and just mercilessly sodomized. Hearing her cry out as I have my most manly and aggressive way with her is a huge turn on. Most women have a mock rape fantasy in some form and my partners have found that anal sex really helps to fulfill that fantasy.
All that said, the first time is critical in that it’s not the time to lose my mind ravishing her tender rectum. It’s a time to do all I can to make it hot and fun. With that in mind, I’ve written another My Take on that subject: Comfortable Anal Sex for Beginners: A Guide to the First Time.
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