Every single society has erotic depictions of women in media, art, entertainment etc. Whether it be a Victoria's Secret model, or even a simple fast food advertisement that depicts women in an erotic manner. Men are never depicted like this, why?
Well, because it's assumed that nobody wants to see a partially clothed man showing erotic mannerisms. It's been stated by many women that men don't look as good as women do, especially naked. I can't think of one instance when a man is depicted in such a way.
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We straight men get extremely nervous around random beautiful women because we find women physically attractive even if we don't know them. Women don't feel nervous around men because according to various people and so-called experts, women don't find random men visually attractive. So why would they be nervous around men? Even if it's a handsome man, she still won't find him attractive. She needs that infamous emotional connection.
When women call men "sexy", unfortunately it's not based on his looks. They only find his personality, mannerisms and scent attractive. I hate that so much because it's deceiving. The farthest they seem to go with visuals is to find his smile and jawline attractive, nothing else. They don't seem to find the rest of a man's face or body attractive because according to various "experts", men have no beauty.
Even straight women find women better looking than men. To them, even the most unattractive woman is still more attractive (physically/visually) than the most handsome man in the world. When's the last time you noticed a woman ogling or checking out a random man on a street? Oh that's right, it probably never happens. People say; "they are more subtle about it" or "women have better peripheral vision than men" and while it's true that women have better peripheral vision, I'm not sure if they use it to check men out.
We straight men get so happy when a random woman flirts with us; women on the other hand, will feel offended or creeped-out. They will say, "ugh get away pervert" or "stop looking at me". It doesn't really matter if he is considered handsome by other guys. This is why I wait for women to make the first move.
Something else I just loathe is how a woman needs to know a man to be sexually aroused by him. Women don't get turned on by looking at a random man in swimming trunks. Even the media goes along with this; commercials and movies show men checking out women in two piece swimsuits while the women don't even care if a guy is shirtless, just like in real life. Here is a picture of what I think of this infamous emotional connection.
While I'm not sure if one gender has better-looking bodies and faces, people sure like to think that women are more aesthetically appealing than men. Don't forget a lot of women use beauty products like makeup to make themselves more pleasing to the eye. I'm a straight man so I wonder if that's why I don't think men are pleasing to the eye.
While I can still appreciate both genders as a piece of art, I still think women are more beautiful. It just seems that women only care about what men can do with their bodies more than how men look. I don't want to date a woman that only likes me for my personality or what I can do for her. I want her to like me for how I look as well. I'm still skeptical that women even find men attractive (physical/visual).
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19 26First the guys on this site bitch that women only go for a guy's looks, and now you're bitching that women go for personality.
Make up your freakin' mind!
There are many, many men out there in happy relationships with women who find them attractive in every single way.
It's not just one thing.
Stop generalising and blaming an entire gender for the fact that you're single and take a look at your own attitude.
Maybe go outside and talk to some actual women for a change. You'll be surprised
I don't talk to that many women out of fear.
No I'm not complaining, I'm just dissapointed.
People would take you more seriously if you change your attitude.
I'm not meaning to be rude. I'm just sick of these takes. Women will walk down the street and happilycheck out many men, trust me. My mechanic is an absolute dick, but sometimes I wish my car would break down every week just so I can watch him fix it. Also, what you do think the mirrors in the gym are for?
I'm not sure why the gym has mirrors. I think it's just to check yourself out.
Who really check themselves out though? When you're on a treadmill for half an hour, you don't use them to admire yourself :) I was going to say that at the end of my last reply, but my Ipad is being weird and the screen keeps moving and I hit send by accident then forgot.
I'm not sure why they have mirrors then🙂.
Also if women do find men physically attractive, then why do they only care about Jaws, eyes, smiles and abs? Nothing else.
Why is it that women say that women are more attractive than men?
"Even straight women find women better looking than men. To them, even the most unattractive woman is still more attractive (physically/visually) than the most handsome man in the world."
Lmao yeah right, that second sentence is bullshit! As a straight guy, I bet 1,000,000 dollars that the most handsome man in the world looks 100 times better than the most unattractive woman. All straight women and straight men alike in the whole world would bet the same thing lol.
How about the most attractive man and woman, who do you think would be more pleasing to the eye?
I predict that even though both are equally pleasing to the eye but I would be attracted to the woman, not the man. It depends on the person's sexual orientation.
I'm not sure about that, I think most people would say the woman looks better.
Put me in a room with Mariano Di Vaio for the rest of my life and I'd happily stare at him in silence. (in the least creepy way possible) Being in a room with Bridget Bardot (in her prime) forever just wouldn't have the same effect
@Napoli Why would you stare at him?
... because it would be very hard not to, and it would make me happy! Women DO get nervous around hot guys. I'm pretty shy, so it took all the courage I could muster to banter with the guy who regularly uses the same Starbucks as me the other day, we had jokes but I was shaking the entire time
@Napoli That's amazing, I never knew this happens.
@ADFSDF1996 you should stop generalizing, even if women tend to be more beautiful in general, there is plenty ugly women, you might not see that much on the TV, because very few people want to see them on the TV, but if you go outside you would see them.
@Berethor If you put the most handsome mm in the works and the most beautiful woman in the world, who do you think will be rated higher based on looks?
@ADFSDF1996 by men or by women? men didn't Miss America is only for women? don't people don't care about it you know? men do not compete with women on beauty just as women don't compete with on strength, and in the eyes of most women, man's strength is also add to his attractiveness, the same usually not true the other way around. Men and women should be beautiful in comparison to their on gander, and some men are much more physically attractive then others, and that's all that is count, most women are not going to date other women anyway, and someone who is good only in his personality is far from perfect, if he looks like shit.
tvtropes.org/.../WomenPreferStrongMen
tvtropes.org/.../NoGuyWantsAnAmazon
@Berethor what about Mr. International?
Romans *really* liked males. Men were considered to have the "sexual spark" and be the more desirable sex.