I really love this website. It gives everyone a platform to let out inner frustration that can't be known to others in real life. It allows some to give advice and point of view. It's a great way to expand your way of thinking.
What I detest is when sexual questions are asked (mostly guys) and girls input is wanted. It really aggravates me that just because a woman shares her opinion, personal experience etc when it comes to those type of questions, does not mean she is looking for something like that on here or in general. What, woman aren't allowed to have those responses without being thrown in a "slut/dirty/easy" category? We're not allowed to be sexual creatures as well? Supposed to keep these things behind closed doors? Or are these sexual questions to "lure" in so-called "sluts"?
I just wish some guys could be more open minded and realize that woman can have as much sexual experiences as a man without being shamed for it. It doesn't even mean that a woman has had tons of partners! She could have experienced a wide variety of things with the same partner. As long as she knows what she's doing/is being safe. It's not like we're asking for your nudes to make you think that my input on "blowjob techniques, penis size, anal experience, fetishes, whatever the fuck it is,etc.... means that I want to be messaged vulgarly or treated differently. It's different if that woman vulgarly flirts on here with guys, has a skimpy photo, etc.
This is why most of my responses to certain questions remain anonymous. I don't want to recieve attention for misconstrued reasons.This could plunge me into another "Girls randomly hooking up and being shamed for it" rant but I'll save that for another time, if I still feel strongly about it in the future.
It seems like every social platform nowadays for heterosexual individuals right away involes sexting and only that. I don't know where sincere, thoughtful people are hiding. Miss having that real connection with someone. A conversation without the typical "how are you, what are you doing, what are you wearing, let's meet up, come to my house" default sentences and solely based through texting. May give up all together on the internet for new social interactions and stop communicating with people I personally know through technology.
Hope I'm not being too sensitive, annoying or unreasonable with this post. If I come off as that, what a waste of time then. Rant over.
Inputs always welcome. Especially constructive criticism with my horrible narrative style. I love writing and want to improve in every way possible (:
What Girls & Guys Said
1 2Too bad there isn't a decent person radar lolo
Great post
Guys are just guys whether you answer or post anything about sex :I doesn't phase me much anymore on the internetz
Thanks! (: very true
All he guys are not bad and all the girls are not good. Be a good human and live with good humans by ignoring bad people so keep smile friends😃
there are different human personalities... it's open-minded to consider this fact.
Well majority of these so called "personalities" are ignorant then.
maybe so... i don't see the problem.