Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Does Porn Control?
When you Drive your car, do you drive it to your destination or would you let sex take the wheel?
Sex, it really is a wonderful thing. From your first experience to your last, people can't get enough of it. It is from this that the miracle of childbirth is possible. But when newborn becomes newborn pleasure, does this change your stance?
Pornography is the "limb tangle" of sex. Pornhub released their annual results weighing in at 21 billion people visiting the website and 4.3 billion hours worth of pornography consumed. Doesn't it all get to a point where you've had enough? A point where you realize that this one thing is simply sex.
Many could argue that sex is the reason for our existance (which could be argued) but most would agree both porn and sexual activity is for simple pleasure. Yet has anyone thought about the feeling of making something? The feeling that you get after coming home from a long day at work safe? The feeling of growing something significant in the world and making a difference? What about even simpler things like friendship? When you dig deeper and deeper it is evident that the answer to this is yes, sex is overrated. There are way too many price tags and too many ratings for such a common and insignificant thing.
It's almost as if I declared one day that playing with the end of your pencil was forbidden and that doing it was wrong. Then everyone would do it, most likely make memes and probably even make videos on the dark web of rubbing your pencil.
Just take a second now, step back and think. Is sex needed to survive? Is it absolutely complusary? Sure I won't make the truth abstract, for some it is all of the above but is it something we should let drive our lives?
I personally believe as someone who has been surrounded as a child and teenager with such atrocities that sex and more so, porn is wrong. I believe that porn is something that should be banned, there are many different people gaining money. The owner of buisnesses, the domain hosters, the actors and directors, the internet companies and places which sell sex toys and technology used in porn. However, take a look at how twisted this society, no this world, has become. How many lives have been ruined and how many more to come?
Taking a look back in time to the earliest of people to roam this Earth, artworks and pictures can be seen of men and women walking around peacefully naked. No men popping one, no covering up of the "private areas" and most of all, no need for porn. If porn did not exist, then the secrecy put on female's "girls" and both men and women's "downstairs" would not exist. This would mean that people would not find these genitals so significant and arousing. Understandably, people have common decency and dignity though porn is a large contributer to the sexual attraction put on pictures of women's pants for example. I personally believe that this would substantially decrease the rate of sex scandals, rape and many other sex-related problems let alone the pressure put on relationships over sex.
On the topic of the pressure put on relationships because of porn, this website, GAG, has over time revealed to me that this is an evident problem. More commonly with females but evident in males (myself included). Porn puts such great expectations on relationships and from people looking to date online on datings apps and websites. My favourite quote that would simply save everyone from this endless loop of expectations and rape is; Expectations always lead to disappointment. Never expect anything from anybody. Be self content. Anticipate everything but expect nothing.
Dr Anil Kr Sinha quotes
This article is proof that sometimes these sexual expectations go too far and a when there isn't a no to sex, a yes isn't required. https://www.bustle.com/articles/135171-i-didnt-say-no-but-it-was-still-rape?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=owned&utm_campaign=sexrelationshipsbustle
It really is a shame that the world has come to this.
What Girls & Guys Said
42 63Don't like porn? Don't watch
And yes, sex IS needed to survive. Where do you think babies come from? When you really think about it, that is our reason for existence- reproduction. I could go on, but I'm not going to bother.
I see all the guys saying that your take is nonsense and saying all girls are agreeing to it cause they are girls...
But I'm going to agree with you not cause I'm just a girl but I only do think that porn has put pressure on peoples minds to make them think of certain expectations that you don't have to or do, and yes porn has made down fall on men, women, boys, girls, relationships, marriages and even firendships. Porn certainly has made side effects to every persons sexuality side...
But end of the day people come off saying its just a video clip or porn is just realeas for sexual pleasure but what people are really blind to is that porn has its side effects of mental and behavior.
you clearly dont know your history, porn has been around since the beginning of written history in fact, genitalia were seen as special and not just a normal body part. actually learn about how eygptians, sumerians, mayans viewed sex and dont try and lie to prove a point. it just makes you a little less, credible. porn or sex wasn't seen as ''taboo'' until abrahamic religions plagued the earth. nobodies life will be ''better'' for stopping their urges, it will be much worse. People have the right to have sex because that was what they were designed for. There is no debating that. without sex no humans. PERIOD. your argument is really weak. who are you to say that ''sex and more so, porn is wrong'' without sex you wouldn't exist idiot none of us would. How can that be argued? its right in your face. 2 people having sex=baby. I would understand of course if you argued saying that these things are time consuming and it can be a problem if the person has no moderation BUT you are saying sex alone and porn is the problem. Who are you to act so high and mighty anyways? You also have these urges, yet here you are trying to act like you are doing something good for yourself by avoiding them trying to tell people how to live their life. Thats the problem with this world NOT porn or sex. Everybody tries to tell other people how to live and whats right. they lack mutual understanding to even try and realize how stupid they sound. Who are you to say whats wrong? you can live a sex free life, but that doesn't mean the same thing applies to everyone else. dont try and say people will be better without it.
It is a very provoking topic on which I have urges to write a dissertation but I will sum it like this:
There are, in all the world regardless of ANY other factors, three tiers of people:
1. TIRE: those who will push the world forward and not neccesarily in their own life time. These are geniuses, artists, scientists, philosophers and the like. (These are the least likely to have offspring.)
2. TIRE: Those who will make it POSSIBLE for the 1st tire group to flourish, it includes everyone who is regularly employed and with their labour create a politically and scioeconomically stable enough environment for the visionaries. ( 1-2 children but less today than ever before for reasons that demand another topic)
3. TIRE Those whose function is merely to ensure there is enough manpower for tire 2. and once in a while they spurt out a tire 1 specimen. (Lots od children 3-4 up to over 20).
So to answer your question, be happy it posed itself to you. If you want to read more on this topic it is included in the ethics and ontology of my upcoming philosophy work and I'd be glad to share it with you via pm if you'd like.
Let the mayhem ensue.
I won't even comment on pornography. Those who watch it are not guilty of anything per se, but demanding the content results in an ample supply of the, hmmm... bodies, i. e. the orifices which evoke arousal. The problem is, spirit being indivisible from the body, it destroyes the moral integrity of the supplied 'cattle' of the porn industry whether they realize it or not and all in demand are directly responsible.
If you don't like sex, don't have sex.
If you don't like porn, don't watch it.
It's that simple!
BUT PLEASE do not take away the pleasures and joys of those, who are doing it. And also do not project your idea like it's the right thing to do.
You are essentially behaving like the german and australian politicians with their video game ban policies.
Nah, sex is awesome.
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Awesome but it shouldn't be obsessive
@Aklaknana lol I'm just being funny
Do I even want to know what you put into google to find that?😂😧
I think societ will turn negative at some point on porn and it will be a big negative if you watch it, kind of like a loser.
Since porn became mainstream, sexual crime has dropped to its lowest in history.
The good is on a societal level. The bad is only ever on a personal level
"Porn Should Be Banned." NOOOOOOO
no
pls
no... banning it means censoring half of the internet.
I don't think sex is overrated, I love sex. Sex is awesome.
Sex should be private. It shouldn't make a person obsessed with it in a way that it is noticable. Fuck how much you want but that shouldn't affect on your behavior and attitude
@Aklaknana I'm not saying it shouldn't be private.
And it shouldn't affect on your values
@Aklaknana it doesn't affect my values either
Nah.
porn was never an issue until it was widespread for free all over the damn internet 19021910 genres deep.
I wish there was a dislike button.
I'm a person who is against porn only if it's addictive or the person think it's real sex.
You're points are shit
"Many could argue that sex is the reason for our existence" ... umm.. right? Only argue, right? Right?
Is it necessary to survive? No, it isn't. Yet it's quite necessary after a week full of hard work, . you might have read about people doing such a thing.
"Porn puts such great expectations on relationships"
Porn does Nothing significant to relationships. You think a relationship is major part sex that you tie in porn so closely to it? *facepalm* Have you ever beeeeeen in a relationship? Do you get up in the morning and worry how your partner might become "bored" of you because you're not fucking in innovative and more demanding ways?
Sex is right where it belongs. For two intimately close people to express their feelings to one another, for reproduction purposes and finally, for simply getting off.
Now, to address porn. In a way I feel sorry for you that you are so EASILY affected by porn. May I remind you that porn is form of entertainment and if so necessary, a suiting company next to a bottle of lube and a box of paper towels.
You are MENTALLY WEAK!
Since you like to compare how things were "once upon a time", I would like to take this opportunity and remind your limited ass thinking head that
The weak will perish and the strong will survive.
Too many things are banned as it is. We don't need more governments telling us how to live our lives.
I'm guessing that you're religious
Just because something isn't necessary for survival deosn't mean you shouldn't do it, especially when it's pleasurable. That's the point of entertainment. You didn't make a very compelling case at all.
Nah i disagree
And that driving example at the beginnjng is bs it makes no sense
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i like how most girls are attacking porn
anyway u can't ban it its a $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ insdustry