Why shouldn't men care about women's body count?

What's an actual reason besides him being insecure to you

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  • insecure? this shit needs to end, no caring about body count is NOT insecurity, we don't want another male to be sexual with our girls whether in the past or now is irrevelant, jealousy is not insecurity even non-monogamous animals are jealous of their females difference with humans males kills the cubs of the females as a sign of both trying to get her into heat and showing displeasure towards her past sexual encounters.
    girls thinks it is insecurity because it is THEİR jealousy that stems from insecurity, most girls doesn't care about your sexual encounters but cares about yourpast relationships and fears you mighthave liked them better, this is insecurity, with male it is DİSGUST a biological instinct that shows itself when another males being sexual with your girls presents itself whether in the past or now.

  • Because this is a case where it isn't the more the merrier.

    Also if she has been having sex with everyone then it is hard to see why she won't continue that way and we do want confidence her babies are our babies.

    A partner that seeks and gives into self gratification is a bad partner to have because it is unsupportable in the long term.

    • That's my argument though. If you've been doing something for a really long time, its gonna be really difficult to just try and stop what you're so accustomed to doing. Obviously you can break a routine or something youve been doing for a while but it's very difficult. People think they can just shut something off and do things differently at a whim

    • That doesn't work. We have internal moral prohibitions against a number of things. Once a moral prohibition is broken then it is easier to break it then next. In time you break it all the time. Say shoplifting. A person might take something and feel fear at being caught and guilty but the next time that person will feel less guilt and fear. I dumped a girl who routinely stole a chocolate bar each she was in a super market. The truth is we are entirely dependent on a partners moral compass for fidelity, aside from locking her up. That the partner isn't going to break the boundary for their own sake and sense of worth as well as yours. If a girl has done gang bangs over bonnets in a bar car park the moral inhibition has left the building.

    • Dont tell any of these other people that

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  • Men and women both should care somewhere about body count. If either party’s numbers are astronomical, there might be a reason….. I don’t want to go out with someone who’s not in it for the long haul.

  • Women exist for guys to use and get off inside the higher the count the better using her is

    • Yup women are objects for our pleasure.

  • I definitely think people should care about their partners bc, but only if they are low bc (no more than 2) or a virgin themselves. Otherwise they're just stupid and wasting their time, since it's a waste for a whore to get with a virgin.

    • Men can't be whores though. They're whore makers

    • Cry me a river hoe 😂

    • Look i know you think its the same but its not. A dude that gets laid a lot, had to work for that kind of success. Women dont have to work for it and just open their legs. How is it the same thing?

  • I don’t see why it does matters unless they’re worried about STIs.

    • How is the intimacy suppose to be any different for a woman who's had a lot of sex with different men before the current man she supposedly loves?

    • ? Because you’re different people? You’re the one she’s with now. You’re the one she loves now. You are not the same person as those other men. Your experience is different, your energy is different, your smell is different, your looks are different, the way you move and feel. They’re all different. Unless you just see yourself as another random body with nothing special about you.

    • You really think most women can have sex with 30 or 40 men and then turn that off for a man she's interested in romantically? Is it possible? Sure. Is it probably? Not very likely

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  • Men should definitely care about a woman's body count (BC). Actually it's only in the western world where this question is being asked. If you go to Asia, Africa, or S. America then it's without a question. The reasons are manifold.

    1. High BC means lack of disgreation because women dont have to do anything to get sex, every time they have sex it means that they have given their consent.

    2. High BC means decreased pair-bonding. Repeated studies have shown that the more sexual partners a woman has, the less she's able to pair bond and settle down with one person.

    3. High BC could indicate STDs

    4. High BC means she's giving her most valuable asset on the sexual marketplace for very little or free and will make you pay full price for it.

    On top of that if women feel like men should not care about a woman's BC then let's see how they feel if men say that women should not care about a man's height or income.

  • A better question would by why SHOULD men care about body count... haven't we exercised this question enough... almost as bad as penis questions?

    Give it a rest?

    • Its my question and i can ask

    • @bricealan exactly. This guy just has some sort of inadequacy's with his own life I guess.

    • @chthou95 Be my/our guest... for the 100th time.

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  • It has been reported from studies that women (but not similarly men) erode their capacity to commit to men and to CHILDREN by the 10th sexual partner, making them incompatible with marriage. That's why.

    • It happens with less partners

    • @Kykiono1 No doubt.

  • Why should I?

    • You want to date 304"s go right ahead

    • 304 is sex worker territory. Everyone has an opinion on what's high and what isn't. My wife had a bc of about 50 when we met. My bc was around 10. She is as honest and loyal as they come, she just loves sex. So I'm a very lucky man. This is why I think the whole body count thing is ridiculous

    • @Straitforward38 50? Damn 😳

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  • I would care if I was a guy

    I won't marry a girl who isn't a virgin

    personal opinion

    • Nothing wrong with that

  • I would care about body count because I would want to make sure she’s not a serial killer.

    Seriously, that’s what comes to mind every time I see that phrase.

  • Because it’s in her past.

    • And? Past matters

    • And that’s it. I answered your q

    • Okay lol

  • Our pasts are our pasts. Guys should let it go. Guys think it is ok for a guy to have a high body count but not girls!!! That is a double standard.

    • @Alex-Snow that's because genders are different. There is a natural bias

    • Men have to work for their body count kid. Women dont and just spread their legs. Big difference

    • I disagree why do we have to work on our body count.. I have not had any issues.

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  • Its a proxy for higher risk of cheating and higher risk of STD:s.

  • I heard promiscuity had different impact on men and women. It affects women more and I see it myself many times. Hate promiscuous women.

  • Iv never understood guys that do that. Its very very silly to ruin your future because of the past. Everyone has a past but I'm only interested in the present and future.

    • Your choices define who you are as a person

    • Yep and everyone is different thank god. A 25 Yr old virgin is not necessarily a better person than a 25 Yr old with a body count of 20

    • Didn't say that virgins can't be bad people. But a woman that can love a man after being fucked by 30 or 40 dicks previously has a low probability