Why Smart Guys Are 100% Opposed to MFM Threesomes

So. I'm not a fan of any sort of threesome, but it seems on here, many girls, to my amazement, can't understand what many men find oh so repulsive about male/female/male threesomes, even guys who think a female/male/female threesome is great. Hypocrisy? Immaturity? Nope.

Why Smart Guys Are 100% Opposed to MFM Threesomes

Simply put, it boils down to basic biology. Or male nature. Or media and patriarchy, depending on how much of a crybaby you are.

Sex is different for the different sexes.

Why Smart Guys Are 100% Opposed to MFM Threesomes

Simply put, women are the feminine sex. They receive. They get pregnant. They are dominated, held, etc. Part of why for the most case, sex is far more a bonding experience for women than it is for men--the psychology of it all, of how sex is somewhat an act of surrender, submission, for women.

How does this relate to threesomes? Simply. What sane man wants to let his woman be dominated, possessed, by another man? That's why most men feel thusly about a mfm threeway.

Why Smart Guys Are 100% Opposed to MFM Threesomes
That's not to say women should be fine with a fmf threesome either. I mean, you'd be letting your guy have at it with another woman. Tons of problems can result for you from that. However, it is different in that sex isn't as much of a bonding experience for him as it is for a woman. He's not being dominated or possessed by another woman--he's doing the dominating and possessing. Which also can lead to a bunch of problems if you're the girlfriend and he wants a threesome. So be smart and say no.

However, there you go. Besides the fact it disturbingly gay to have another naked man in the room with you if you're a guy, but that's the deepest, most innate reason why no smart guy would agree to a mfm threesome. If a man puts any value in a woman and/or has feelings/possessiveness, he's not going to just let her be literally taken and possessed by another man. He'd have given her away, basically.

Again, I'm kind of amazed I've seen women wonder about this more than once on this website, but there you go. Ladies, if your man is in fact a man and values you more than a decent shirt, he's not agreeing to a mfm threesome. Ever.

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  • Sound, yet u r in the minority here

    • I would need to be a virgin to be in the majority on this website.

  • This is stupid, the only real biological reason might be that women are more inclined to be bisexual than men.

  • Right on!

  • I'm not the jealous or possessive type, but I couldn't do it. That being said, I wouldn't mind her/me having other partners, or an open relationship. As long as you are straight forward and safe about it, I don't see the issue. It just wouldn't be my thing to share a bed and a woman with another man, even if there was no direct touching between us.

  • Agreed.
    They really gotta stop only looking at it from the female point of view.

    • If you all have something to say, say it.

  • What would it take for you to do the MFM threesome if you were the other guy with nothing to lose? Would you tell the guy in the relationship not to do it either

    • I have been offered to be the other guy with nothing to lose. I declined.

  • Because we're not gay.

  • Cause when we think about a threesome... we think about two women and yourself lol.

  • .. and sometimes sex is just sex.

  • hah, you made a take about it!
    pretty cool dude, i share the same opinion.
    and i think this is a mostly a us based tought only. Canada as well,, and maybe a bunch of the other cucked european nations altough i doubt it.
    i have been around a lot, and i have never met a guy who would even think of sharing his woman. and i haven't many many girls who would even dare to tell her man of such a tought.
    sorry, but y'all are crazy and have forgotten the art of manliness.
    and overcompensating with the whole "im alpha, im a bad boy" act is just almost as ridiculous, and doesn't bring it back.
    im not saying that about you tough. you obviously are very smart, and you have backbone. just saying that a lot of your country's young population has lost it and gone apeshit

    • *met many and i forgot to say, great take

  • Honestly I agree with your take but feel it could have been worded better. I personally use to want a FMF but ended up realizing how dumb it was and that I only wanted to bang different types of girls.

  • I'm just not into threesomes (nor have I tried) period. I'm selfish that way. Hopefully my s/o (female) would be the same way (that she's not into threesomes).

  • Ty dude well said

  • Okay, my one "threesome" story: A guy I knew asked me to come over and bone his wife. Said she enjoyed the occasional strange cock and that he was okay with it. I went to their house, some small talk and then time for me to go bone this bitch. Last minute they throw in that the guy needs to be in the room while I'm servicing his sow. I was taken aback, but wanted to get it over with, so I agreed. I'm on the bed eating his wife's pussy when he puts his hand on my ass. I smack it away and start to get up. He steps back, raises his hands in the air and says "okay, no problem." So I finally start pounding the punanni and while doing it I hear a strange noise. I turn to look back and the guy is naked, on his knees by the foot of the bed, furiously jacking off. I ignore him, turn back and bury my face in his wife's neck and determine to just finish. I hear a loud groan as the guy came. Instinctively I turn and look again. He was on his hands and knees licking his own jizz off of the floor. I quickly finished myself and, after as little chatting as possible, got the hell out of there.

    Threesomes are not my bag. And open relationship married couples are just freaking weird as far as I'm concerned.

    • yeah, thats what a crushed self confidence does to a man. i can guess how disguisted and grossed out you must have felt. and people think its just an "alternative" sexuality

    • lmao that's a really funny story

    • He licked his own jizz off the floor LOL

  • Hehe

  • "Besides the fact it disturbingly gay to have another naked man in the room with you if you're a guy, but..."

    I assume you didn't use locker rooms?

    • Never haha

    • Is that an American thing? We don't have that in the UK... like we just had pe and got dressed... kind of gross i guess but we just didn't have showers.

    • @TheUsername27 Probably because it's so cold and damp there you don't get that sweaty.

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  • Great myTake. Its nice to see some rationality on here.

  • I don't think it's ok to let another man treat my girlfriend as a sex toy. She's mine and mine only. The only reason I probably agree with this is cause of my possessiveness, but I definitely understand where you're coming from

    Though if other guys want to do it, they can go on ahead. It wouldn't involve me that they get hurt in the process

  • Not my husband and he's a pretty smart guy.

  • men like to dominate... not watch other men fuck our girl. It is simple as that. I often go out of my way to chat to gay dudes because we often have a great convo (not masculine ego getting in the way of joking about stuff/having fun). But i would not want another man fucking a girl i was dating... i wouldn't even want another girl in bed i don't have 2 dicks... its less personal too.

    • Then why are there entire genres of porn dedicated to men being dominated by women, MFM sex, and even "cuckolding" which is in fact watching other men fuck your girl? Clearly, not all men have the same sexual tastes.

    • @fabulouspancakes Cuck hold porn isn't exclusively for men who want to imagine a man fucking their girl... i know some dudes who say they watched it pretending they were the dude or they just thought it was more interesting. Honestly porn isn't an accurate picture of what peoples true sexual nature... i mean one of the most popular catogries i believe (i saw this report) was like mom porn/incest shit... are young men wanting to f*** their moms? No.

    • @fabulouspancakes There are men out there who are don't want to dominate... but the vast jaority of porn seems to include men abusing/dominating women... i mean 95% of m and f pornos have a woman sucking a mans dick and then going straight to fucking...

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