Why so many men have fetish for blonde?

[Anonymous]

I don't understand it all. Hair color don't change facial features.

What they like about blonde?

[Lliam]

Different people find certain physical features attractive. I'm not sure that I would call it a fetish.

Some people like certain skin, hair or eye colors. Some guy prefer short women, some prefer tall. Some guys like small tits, some like large ones. Some guys like slender girls and some like thicc hips and thighs.

I confess that I find natural blond and, particularly, red hair striking. Women with that color hair often have pale, glabrous skin that has light-pink details.

I'm talking about their natural hair color. I don't care for hair that is dyed a different color because its false advertising. Blond hair with dark eyebrows and pubes doesn't work for me.

But it's all a matter of personal taste. However, a preference for specific physical features is usually not the deciding factor when choosing a mate. Non-physical features like personality and values are more important.

[Asker]

White women with brunette hair can also be really pale lol

[Asker]

So you would find a blonde woman less attractive if she looked same but just had darker hair?

[Lliam]

Did you even read my comment? I never chose a girlfriend for her hair, eye, or even skin color.

[Wade12345]

I don't know exactly why, but most of the women I've ever had a crush on were either blondes or Asian. I think I can say I know why I had a crush on blondes, because when I was a teenager I had a really weird crush on my little sister. I don't know how normal that is for a brother to have a crush on his sister, but I struggled with that problem for a few years before I got it under control, and pretty much through High school and college every woman I liked was a blonde, with like one weird exception or two.

Um... I find that I have a thing for some Asian women because one of my high school friends was an Asian girl. We even got matched on a high school dating match maker, and I SHOULD have gone for it and asked her to a dance or at least on some sort of date even back then, but I was still struggling with the social anxiety problem which plagued me for like I don't know, most of my life.

[Asker]

So if a blonde girl dye her hair brown then she is less attractive and if a brunette dye her hair blonde she is more attractive? Because facial features look exactly same that's why I am unable to see blonde appeal. At least Asian women look different blonde look same Lol maybe where you live they have many blonde (Scandinavia?). I am not even joking statistically there are more brunette among white women so chance of better facial features and personality are higher in a brunette

[Berethor]

Everyone loves blondes trope and uniqueness value trope, also it's the ultimate white look.

[Asker]

Lol a white women look white even with dark hair what about it? There are tribes in Australia who can have blonde hair It is fetish So less common. As I thought fetish. Because facial features look same even if a girl dye her hair brown or blonde.

[Berethor]

Fair hair is fitting for fair skin and dark hair is common, nothing special, same goes for blue eyes, it also uncommon. Fake blonde not worth as much as natural blonde. Yea facial features look same, and I am not care that much about hair color, but I know why blonde hair is valued.

[Asker]

I mean most white women have brown hair so how is it not fitting them? Blue eyes are not really uncommon in many northern European countries. I can understand liking blue eyes more than liking blonde hair Most real blonde are pasty through. A blonde women would look same even if she dye her hair brown

[Berethor]

White women with brown hair is not ideal, white women with blonde hair and blue eyes is ideal. White traits tend to be recessive, even in northern european countries blonde hair and blue eyes are not the most common, also what is northern Europe in context of whole world, northern Europe is not a big place.

[Asker]

Light eyes definitely are most common in many countries lol Why white women with brown hair is not ideal? What is wrong with brown hair? Okay then why so many white guys date Asian women. White facial features are also recessive

[Berethor]

Brown hair is nothing special, dark hair is common worldwide. You talk about fetish to blonde hair, while white men dating Asian women is the actual fetish, it called yellow fever. It mostly feminism's fault that so many white men goes for Asian women, feminism has lower the value of white women, even though white is the best looking race in the world, also it's mostly Asians who obsessed with whiteness, and white men just like to feel desirable.

edition.cnn.com/.../index.html

weta.org/.../independent-lens-do-asian-women-have-white-fever

[Asker]

I consider both blonde hair and Asian women fetish lol. Yes so what if it nothing special lmao. What is wrong with it? Most women have nose. So should big nose be considered desirable? Just because it is common or some shit

[Asker]

Small nose

[Asker]

Same with eyes most women have big eyes so should women with Taylor Swift eyes be called most attractive because it is rare for white women?

[Berethor]

Obviously something rare that don't look good is not desirable, you should google for the uniqueness value trope, Taylor Swift have the perfect white looks, blonde hair and blue eyes, and she date a man that have those traits as well, if they have children, then they would likely have a blonde hair and blue eyes as well, Taylor Swift is pretty smart.

www.whosdatedwho.com/.../taylor-swift-and-joe-alwyn

[Asker]

You know how Taylor Swift eye shape used to look before surgery? Search Taylor Swift before surgery she had Asian eyes. So those eyes are more attractive lol

[Asker]

Taylor Swift in past have mostly dated brunette men lol it is just a coincidence that her boyfriend is blonde now Who decide it is good? I was giving you example that rare thing don't mean something is more attractive. Most polish people have light eyes they also think that light eyes look better people are supposed to find people who look like them most attractive. There was even research done on it For example mixed women are considered very attractive and they are rarer than white women. so should they be considered more attractive than white women? You are understanding my point Just because blonde are rarer don't mean that they look better

[Asker]

Same with curly hair. Curly hair is definitely rarer than straight hair among European. I won't say it look bad or anything but many women with curly hair I know like to make them straight and most guys prefer straight here here.

[Berethor]

Blondes have the edge because it both rare and good looking, hard to understand? :)

[Asker]

Curly hair is also good looking and rare mixed women are also good looking and rare What is the point? And why do you even think that most men prefer blonde. I have done polls. Most of the time brunette win. I am asking for those who have this weird fetish

[Berethor]

Mixed women are not really a race, they need to look fair enough to have good looks.

[Asker]

I have half Asian half white they're considered very good looking and are rare but I won't say that they look better than white women. Just because they're rare and good looking. In case of blonde they even have same facial features.

[Berethor]

Half-Asian half-white look like ascended Asians, surpassing whites is almost impossible.

[Asker]

Lol Olivia rodgiro don't look Asian at all. You don't have seen many half Asian Anyway as I have said before. Most guys I know really like half Asian girls and they're rare but I won't call them better looking than white girls just because they're good looking and rare

[Asker]

And what about South European women? Women like them are not common in East Europe and most men think that Italian women look good. It don't mean that they look better than East European women just because they're rare

[Berethor]

You talking about country scale, while I am talking about worldwide scale, blonde is rare.

[Asker]

Why should I care about world wide? I don't live in whole world lol Italian women are also rare if we are being honest same with mixed women. You are not explaining me why it look better. It is just a fetish

[Asker]

And most famous blonde are fake. Starting from Marilyn Monroe. Most blonde have pasty skin. That's why most attractive blonde are in reality brunette and Taylor Swift herself did many surgery so lol are they actually attractive?

[Berethor]

Italian women might be rare but their looks are not rare, but all whites becoming rare.

en.wikipedia.org/.../White_Americans

[Asker]

Italian women look are rare in Poland lmao are they more attractive than polish women in Poland. I am asking this do you think that all European look same?

[Berethor]

Europeans are white, so they look similar, blondes and redheads looking more unique.

[Asker]

try telling a Italian that she look like a Finnish girl lmao you don't understand European diversity. They don't look similar not all all. You can tell someone ethnicity just by looking at their face most of the time

[Asker]

Funny enough most men I know find redhead unattractive lmao so what is it?

[Asker]

And most of those blonde actress are fake lol

[Berethor]

The men you know are odd, redhead is a unique hair color and that is similar to blonde.

[Asker]

How many redhead even fake one are in Hollywood? Lol and how common is it to bully redhead You are just projecting your own fetish on everyone

[Berethor]

I appreciate unique caucasian traits, and you calling it fetish, dark hair is not special.

[Asker]

Lol it seem like a fetish

[boggboss]

Pretty boreal and human nature because its uncommon it becomes valued feature

[Asker]

Lol so it is fetish because a girl look same even if she dye her hair brown or blonde

[boggboss]

Not sure if I would describe it that way but sure

[Asker]

How would you describe it? and how am I wrong?

[boggboss]

To say its a fetish imples some level of sexual want when we are talking about raw attraction

[Asker]

Lol I mean attraction to Asian women can also be fetish. Just see how they talk about them. I feel same about blonde

[boggboss]

It can be but again that's when it's ours based on the the sexual aspect the difference between a fetish and just attraction tends to be the sexual aspect

[boggboss]

Sp u can be attracted to somthing and it not be a fetish but can also have a fetish for something which makes u attracted to it

[Asker]

Most of the time attraction to blonde is also sexual and really weird. I can't understand blonde appeal

[boggboss]

Thats not somthing I have seen unless u are talking about bimbos and in that case its nit only them being blond

[Asker]

Still it seem like fetish to me. Then liking Asian girl over other race is also not fetish

[boggboss]

Again its a fetish ifbits based on sexual factors it is more so coming off that u don't like that some men prefer blond women so u are looking at it from a negative stand point

[Asker]

I don't understand it lmao so I am asking this question

[boggboss]

Not understanding something is fine but stating its a fetish because u don't understand is silly

[Dargil]

A surf-girl I dated had a long curly, platinum blonde bush. I was fascinated.

[Asker]

Would you find her less attractive if her hair was brown?

[Dargil]

No, it was just rare.

[AviatorTom]

Beats me... Brunettes all the way!

[Zandoval]

It's less common and it resembles the colour of gold. Also just aesthetically, women look better blonde.

[Asker]

So less common. As I thought fetish. Because facial features look same even if a girl dye her hair brown or blonde. I know way more people whose favourite colour is brown or black rather than gold

[Zandoval]

Yes it is more of a preference though. Blonde hair and blue eyes are like the gold standard. Most women with those qualities are pretty attractive.

[Asker]

Lol it is joke most women with blonde hair blue eyes are not attractive unless you have extreme fetish. They also have higher chance of having pasty skin. Most attractive blonde you see are in reality brunette including most famous Marilyn Monroe

[Zandoval]

Well, I myself and a huge proportion of men would disagree. We love blonde women. It's no wonder "hot women" are often portrayed blonde.

[Asker]

Hal gadot is portrayed as hottest there day and she is brunette. Same with meghan fox What about andrina lima. Isn't she considered hottest model? I am just telling you truth most blonde women have pasty skin. and most attractive blonde woman are fake brunette And hair color don't change facial features a blonde lady would look same even if she dye her hair brown same with a brunette looking same even if she dye her hair blonde

[Zandoval]

Well why do you think those brunettes dye their hair blonde? They look even better that way. I'm not claiming brunettes can't be hot. Blondes are hotter.

[Asker]

Lol so you think brunette who dye their hair blonde look better even though they have same exact features why? It is fetish nothing else. Some women dye their hair blonde some don't

[Zandoval]

It is a preference. Just like some may like men with hair instead of bald men despite same facial features.

[Asker]

Lol you are comparing someone with hair and bald? They look very different through. And losing hair is sign of bad health lmao not having blonde hair is not sign of bad health

[Zandoval]

Losing hair isn't a sign of bad health. It is a natural process. Just like having blonde hair.

[Asker]

Nope it is genetics. People with age lose hair. So if you have bald hair you are more likely to be old

[Asker]

I mean justin bieber look equally attractive to me will his brown or blonde hair. That's why I am not able to understand this blonde fetish

[Zandoval]

Yes but alopecia doesn't necessarily have to do with age. Like I said, both are natural processes.

[Asker]

It have to do with age. Most old guys I know don't have full head of hair

[Zandoval]

Look it up. Although there is a correlation, there are tons of younger people who go bald. That is not a sign of bad health.

[anon1903]

Marilyn Monroe

[Asker]

She was fake blonde

[anon1903]

I love her nonetheless

[ritxi]

For me not now. When I was 12 I prefer blonde girls because that color made me remember the sun, and I had had much more fun in sunny days at that time. But I live in a country where there are few blonde people. When I became older (like 16) I saw lots of girls who dyed their hair blonde and I didn't like that, so I began to prefer natural brunettes than dyed blondes. Nowadays, I'm not worried about hair color, I'm attracted to how she makes me feel.

[JosyJosy]

They do, well crap, I'm not going to dye it.

[Asker]

Same lol I won't want to date men with fetish. I never understand why they have it. Since facial features look same

[megabamse]

From top to bottom i would say red, black, brown, everything else and blond aaaaaaaall the way down to the last spot. I don't like blonds at all.

[LiamJHayden]

It is just a preference. Some have a preference for a certain ethnicity. Some have a preference for a certain eye color. Some have a preference for certain hair color.

[Asker]

But hair color don't change facial features

[abc--123]

I've never been with a blonde. Not by choice its just how it's worked out

[msc545]

No real reason except blond is a lot less common.

[Asker]

Lol so just because it is uncommon? What about black women where I live people don't like them. They are also uncommon

[Asker]

Do you also have fetish for blonde hair?

[msc545]

Perhaps there are other reasons to dislike them

[SmokinAces2000]

I don’t get it either I don’t find blonde hair attractive at all

[CubaPirate]

Due to socialisation

[Hell_boy]

Hair colour doesn't matter that much for me!

[Habshater22]

Not me I like dark hair
1- Brazilian women
2- Asian women
3- black women

[Asker]

I am. Talking specifically about white women with dark hair

[Habshater22]

Yes I’m giving examples and white women should only have dark hair for me

[Anonymous]

Blondes are best. They are naturally more attractive.

[Asker]

How? What make them more attractive? Facial features look same

[Opinion Owner]

Lol you again. It is hair colour preference.

[Asker]

But why a blonde woman look same even if she dye her hair brown

[Anonymous]

White supremacist narratives that have been shoved into many echelons of society, even influencing what people 'think' is sexually attractive and/or safe/sexy.

[Asker]

But dark haired white women are also white

[Anonymous]

That's mostly a myth.