Only about 25-30% of women can orgasm from anything you do with your dick. It takes direct clitoral stimulation to get women off, and the penis is exceptionally ineffective at doing that, no matter how large.
If you want to know how to satisfy us, quit worrying about your dick size, and instead step-up your oral/manual stimulation game, and learn how and when to introduce a vibrator or other sex toy to save time and effort.
Why so many questions about dick size instead of what really gets women off?
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Yes, we know there is a vocal but small minority of size queens. Why do you listen to THEM and not US? (Noting the many female respondents so far.)
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Also worth noting: In the human female, it has ben decisively shown that ONLY the clitoris actually does the thing we call "orgasm". The vagina, the rectum, the nipples, and other places people claim they have orgasms actually do not have the mechanism for orgasm, even if they contribute to pleasurable feelings. If a woman had an orgasm, it's her clitoris that did it.
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22 94Guys are as self conscious as you ladies.
Women should just ignore these questions altogether. No amount of talk about technique, clitoral stimulation, etc., is ever going to convince a majority of men with average to below average size penises that most women on average would not either be disappointed by how "small" these men believe themselves to be, or would not be tempted to cheat on them with another man if that man is better looking and, they assume or were told, better endowed than them.
Also, expressing frustration over this issue, while understandable, isn't going to change the minds of these men. And it really doesn't matter how honest you ladies are being. Men have preconceived notions. Men are stubborn.
Just live your lives and hope that whatever men you are attracted to will have enough confidence to be intimate with you even if they aren't well endowed. Don't worry about random men online you'll probably never interact with. It's not your burden to make them feel good about themselves.
You make a good point.
I feel that g spot stimulation with my dick actually works pretty well.
That's also the clitoris. The penis is generally not very good at stimulating the clitoris by itself.
My girlfriend went out with a female friend for drinks sat... came home... omg you’re right! - What? - So and so is totally hung up on dicks. - Told you many women are like that... (gf is not). Basically a fireman and her friend went out with had a small dick. Said fireman made this girl cum twice. girlfriend asked “so it was good then?” - friend said “I guess, but I just couldn’t see sleeping with him again after that” - soooo, while you have your feelings, realize many many other women it is a big deal for them no matter how good you are with your tongue or fingers. When we met the very first thing another friend of hers asked how big I was, and she’s a lesbian in a committed no dick relationship. After my girlfriend answered she was like “phew cause some things are deal breakers”- so even a woman getting no dick seems to make a big deal out of it. Yes, we do listen to those women more than others, and basically assume women don’t really speak the truth on this...
I know some of those women are out there, but they aren't as common as you make it out to be. Some women also don't get much out of sex because they don't know how to ask for the stimulation they need, so they focus on things that don't really do much to increase pleasure.
We are similar in age. I think our generation is less focused on it in many ways because you didn’t grow up on internet porn. Most women ten years younger than us did, and so they get turned on by seeing porn dicks. Also, younger than us grew up idolizing Paris Hilton, sex and the city, etc and the pressure for men to live up to certain physical standards is much higher then ever before. Where you say very few, ime I would say half the women walking around it is a big deal to them. And I heard that talk my girlfriend had with her friend at first, and while she gave me a good review I heard her bash the guy she was with before me. Told her based on hearing that, I would assume that is something important to you. So even when it doesn’t matter to a girl, they way you all talk about it makes it seem worse than it is... I agree with your post for the most part, but this is idea of size being so important really does come from women. If women didn’t care we wouldn’t like at all...
What the hell is sex?
Ok, so sometimes when a Mommy and Daddy love each other very much, and they decide to make a baby, they have this special kind of lying down hug they do. Should I go on?
@MlleCake That response was epic! Laughed soooo hard lol
Because of their insecurity, and they think dick size will be what gets them girls and makes the girl stay with them
Because for us men, its not so important if we lose an eye an arm or a leg. But if we lose sth down there its like worlds end. Anyway its the same reason why girls are asking about their body hair or breast size or if they are overweight. That is simply important for the gendergroup because there are those 10 % where dicksize matters and boobsize matters because its simply attractive and a turn on for them. Unfortunately those are also the people who are well dressed and considered hot or cool, so the value of their opinion is higher than the value of the 90 % regular guys. For us regular people shape of breasts butt or penis doesn't matter. :)
I used to find the g spot pretty easily, and either use my thumb or tongue to simultaneously stimulate the clit. Ex seemingly loved it
I said this before you could have the best tool for tool for the job but if your a unskilled idiot it means nothing
I agree. Dick size questions are annoying. If guys really want to know the truth then they should just read this myTake and spare people from the trouble of answering the same question million times
Penis Size Matters ↗
There's a base insecurity in men about not measuring up, further as the only other penises most guys have ever seen are in porn, most guys think that they are below average at least on a subconscious level. Even really big guys really see themselves as average in their mind.
Just use logic - a woman can make herself cum with just a finger, I don't think size was ever an issue.
Also, sex isn't just about shoving meat in a hole or scratching away at a piece of flesh, it's a balance of physical and mental stimulation, hence the importance of foreplay, setting the mood, teasing, creating antecipation, provocation, immersion, variety, etc.
Blame pornography.
For men it's an issue of pride.
For women I assume genuine curiosity.
Porn ads. There's always ads like "TAKE THIS FOR A BIG SHLONG!1!1"
I think vaginas are disgusting and not planning on ever putting my mouth inside one of them, so i guess I'm in trouble.
anyways I tried telling @HitGirl_4680 this a while back and she lashed out at me with strong sense of disagreement
I find that very sad for you. It makes you a less versatile lover, and versatility is a highly prized quality.
for some reason i really don't care, most women here in America aren't versatile lovers either. so exactly what is the point of putting in so much effort and enthusiasm on a job you know is gonna tax deduct more than 75% of your salary. of course its always gonna be the employees fault no matter how hard they work. its never the company's fault for not living up to their end of the bargain
Cuckoo cuckoo cuckoo!
I LOVE eating pussy. They are NOT disgusting! They are intoxicating and delicious! They should be enjoyed with the mouth often! What in flying fuck is wrong with you? What's tax got to do with anything? You are completely and utterly infuckingsane
@MrBillH nobody gives a flying fuck what you like and just because you like it doesn't mean everyone else has to like it as well. talk about insane you sound pretty creepy for a 52 year old if you gotta brag about eating pussy like this at that age. and I'm sorry that you are too slow to realize that i was using the tax thing as metaphor to compare how pointless it is to be a "good versatile lover" nowadays
Really? You think sex at 52 is creepy? Wow! You really make yourself look stupid every time you open your mouth. And you're wrong about another thing... People DO give a flying fuck.
@mrbillh you really are slow aren't you? Where did I said sex at 52 is creepy? I said a 52 year old bragging about his "sexual success" like a 15 year old who just lost his virginity sounds creepy So with that you shouldn't be talking about "sounding stupid the more you open your mouth" cause you been making yourself an example of this since the start. And if everybody else did give a flying fuck then why are you the only one replying to this?
Haha! I blew coke out my nose you made me laugh so hard! Lol! Well to each their own but I eat pussy with the same enthusiasm as Pooh Bear face fucking a jar of honey!
@OralMayhem For every guy that won't eat pussy, my job seducing women is made that much easier.
damn how many more creepy 40-50+ year old pervs are gonna continue invading this one opinion I made?
This is MY question. I'm hardly a pervert. I'm more of a sexual gourmet, and my sex life is probaly 15X more interesting than you'd ever give me credit for. More's the pitty for you. You make dating younger women much easier for me.
wasn't talking about you @MlleCake, you obviously can't invade if its yours but about your "15X interesting sexual life" all I have to say is... OK I guess?
I mean not sure why you would want to brag about that in social media. you pretty much sound like them cuckold swinging liberals that be posting on Reddit. I seriously don't know how you're gonna get that so called "credit" or validation out of that.
and about the younger women part I say... nah i'll pass, you can have all them dumb young bimbos that have nothing but their vaginas to offer and aren't even good at making that offer anyways. so again you can have them all because more than happy fucking my sex workers that give me more than what I can ask for.
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Fucking whores is nothing to spread on social media either. And I can't see how it's any less disgusting than eating pussy. You have a disgusting attitude, and you have the audacity to call anyone else a pervert. What ding dong. I'm not looking for validation from you. I'm just amusing myself using you as my tool.
well I figured that since you bragged about your preferences then why not brag about mines in return. lets face what girl isn't a whore today? which one of them actually fucks for free? do you know? because I'm dying to find out. and never once did I met to used the word pervert in a negative way but when you got people in their +40-50s bragging about their so called "sexual success" and preferences like 15 year old that lost their virginity yesterday than I think that sounds a little more than just "disgusting" or don't you think?
and im glad to be at your service cause you have no idea how amusing the three stooges of you sound right now
@CasaNorba - Well there ya go, you've been doing it all wrong! Granted I don't exactly know how you did it, but your lips and tongue go ON the vagina not IN it... lol. Now go eat enough nice ripe pussy until you get it right.
@OralMayhem thanks for the tip but in case you're as slow like the first dude that responded to this or maybe that coke is really messing with your head but I dont think I could of made in anymore clearer in my opinion on the fact that Im not interested in doing any of this bullshit. not only do I think its gross putting my mouth any where near anything that looks as disgusting and probably took 100 penises before you but I just seriously don't see any point or sense of accomplishment in doing any of this nonsense
Lmao... Just wanted everyone to hear you ramble on.
Giving a woman an orgasm starts in her head. The rest is about stimulating the parts of her body that are the most sensitive when she is aroused, at the right time. Not all women are the same, except when it comes to the mental side. If a guy can create enough sexual tension, everything will fall into place better, and the size of the dick won't matter. Being able to last during sex has more influence than size. A big dick that doesn't last long isn't as good as a average dick that can last. There is much much more about pleasing a woman... it's nice to see her walk like she forgot how after sex.
Cause dudes want you to fear their giga cocks duh. If you don't seem shocked by it then they don't feel pleased. Also, something satisfy about laying a big ol' meat tube out on the table. It's not about you. It's about us.
I agree , even 3 inches is a lot at 900 rpm and just as much as 9 inches, it's a mental thing really, lots of antisapation, fourplay, romance and ramp up the rpms you will get her off for sure
you know in order to ask the right questions, one needs to know enough about the topic...