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Lady like
It's simply not lady like. I know a lot of women reading this right now are boiling in their seats. Well, that's one of the main reasons, it's not lady like at all for a woman to want sex with multiple men. It's like she's chasing after penis which is very unattractive. People believe women are supposed to be like butterflies, you chase after them but never catch them, until one day a butterfly lands on you, and you know that butterfly is yours to keep. That's how it is in books, movies, fairy tales, and just in general. It's not very lady like to have slept with over 10 men. Imagine this discussion with a bunch of other females, telling them you've slept with over 10 men, and the rest of them are probably virgins.
Overused
Men don't like women who've had sex, because they believe the vagina would be all used up and worn out. I know it's been proven that vagina's are elastic, but think of it this way. I'm pretty sure you all know what a mouth guard is right? A piece of equipment athletes use to protect their teeth from being damaged. Would you want to use someone else's mouth guard? That they've had all in their mouth for such a long time? They've got their spit all on it and whatnot, would you want to use that? Even if they wash the mouth guard, you still wouldn't want it? No, you'd just prefer to get your own brand new, never used mouth guard.
That's how men feel when it comes to vaginas, why would we want it when we could just get a fresh brand new one. The only difference is, another mans penis was actually in the vagina, so it's even worse. Would you put a mouth guard in your mouth that's had some guys penis on it? Even if it's been washed... no, the fact that some other man has put his penis there is not attractive, especially if multiple men's penises have been down there. With penises, you won't be able to tell the difference, no matter how many times a guy has sex, his penis will still feel the same. Vagina's on the other hand do stretch, and the feeling slightly changes after she's had sex a few times.
Experience
Men like to impress women, believe it or not we do. That's why men show off in front of women, we like to make them smile, giggle, and just impress them. Well, you can't impress a woman who's seen and done it all. Men love to see a woman's grimace, or just to hear her say "Wow". When a woman has had sex with a lot of men, most likely you're not going to be the best she's had, so nothing you do is going to surprise her at all, she's already done it. Also, it makes it even worse when she pretends to be surprised.
It's very easy to make a man say "wow." Literally, you can make a guy say wow just by flashing him, even if he's seen your breast a billion times, he's still going to be impressed.
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42 56“It is not love that is blind, but jealousy,” according to the writer Lawrence Durrell. Still, this ugly but durable emotion has served a vital evolutionary purpose. Jealousy is defined as a fear and rage response that preserves romantic bonds between sexual partners. Its function, it is believed, is to curb infidelity between parents, which advances the survival of their children and their subsequent reproductive success.
Romantic jealously is widely understood to be different for men and women because each gender has a different level of investment in reproduction. For a man to provide for genetically distant children decreases his reproductive success—and because men are uncertain whether they really are the father of said children, they are most susceptible to sexual infidelity. By contrast, women can rest assured that they are the mother of their own children; however, they are more dependent on men for resources, making them more sensitive to emotional infidelity, since it could threaten the supply of resources for herself and her child. While many subscribe to this view, the research has been inconclusive: Some studies attribute sex differences in romantic jealousy to cultural forces, while others have observed no gender differences.
Recently, a team led by Hasse Walum of the Karolinska Institute in Sweden broke new ground. He and his collaborators investigated if there were gender differences when it came to romantic jealousy, but they also wondered whether there's a genetic component. That question hadn't yet been tested, and thanks to a gold-mine research sample comprised of 1,048 monozygotic twins, 1,129 same-sex dizygotic twins, and 1,020 opposite-sex dizygotic twins, they were able to pursue it. (Monozygotic twins share 100 percent of their genes; dizygotic twins share on average 50 percent).
Participants were presented with two hypothetical infidelity scenarios:
Sexual jealousy: "You suspect that while your boyfriend/girlfriend was on vacation s/he had a one night stand. You realize that even if s/he did have sex with this other person, they will probably never see each other again. How upset do you think you would feel if this happened?’”
Emotional jealousy: "You suspect that while your boyfriend/girlfriend was on a trip s/he fell in love with someone else. You realize that even if s/he did develop these feelings, s/he will probably never see this other person again. How upset do you think you would feel if this happened?’”
Participants were asked to answer these questions along a 10-point scale, ranging from 1 (not at all) to 10 (extremely). When Walum and his team crunched the numbers, what did they find? Consistent with prior research, women reported higher levels of jealousy on both measures, and both men and women scored higher on sexual jealousy than on emotional jealousy. However, men reported greater jealousy in response to sexual infidelity than to emotional infidelity. These findings square with the theory that men and women differ when it comes to types of jealousy—that is, sexual vs. emotional. The results also revealed that genetics was a significant factor—accounting for 30 percent of the equation. Yet there were no differences between men and women when it came to jealousy on a genetic level. The authors highlight that their study provides additional evidence that men and women probably process infidelity differently.
From an evolutionary perspective, it could result from exposure to different "selection pressures" over the course of human evolution. And their finding that genetic factors play a role in romantic jealousy is in keeping with previous research establishing a relationship between genes and other mating behaviors, including marital quality, monogamy, and the probability of divorce. While the investigators acknowledge the limitations of the study and future research directions, their findings lend more insight into a cruel component of human nature.
Yeah
You insecure that her ex's have bigger cawks than you?
Wouldn't matter if her ex had a -2 inch We don't like penis, period.
I'm re-reading this & i didn't really explain it well enough. What i meant to say is we don't like the fact that women have had other mens penises down there.. when we get there, that's all we thing about is how other men have had their penises here & we don't like that, period.
I completely disagree with this entire take.
Good to know
Wonderful myTake. I agree with all of it. Notice how everyone who disagrees is personally attacking you; they have no arguments, only emotional outbursts.
Because this trash doesn't abuse or personally attack women at all does it?
Yup, I'm not surprised..
@Blonde401 No, it doesn't.
I know how badly you want to believe this article made you and other women a victim, but sorry it didn't
Neither am I. Humans are irrational 99% of the time.
Women aren't victims. But men like you certainly are perpetrators of rape culture and abusive behaviour.
@Blonde401 How many feminists does it take to change a light bulb? None, because feminists can't change anything.
'Everyone who disagrees is personally attacking you, they have no arguments, only emotional outbursts' 😂😂😂 the irony.
@Blonde401 Im arguing using your method of argument. I knew logic wouldn't work with you so why even bother?
No you're not? I used a counter argument and you just called me a cunt because you lack wit, logic or reasoning skills. You obviously don't understand irony either.
@Blonde401 I lack wit? C'mon, those jokes were clever and you know it. Okay, how about this one: What do you tell a woman with two black eyes? Nothing! You already told her twice! 😂
Jokes about beating women. Wow. You must be fun at parties! It's pretty clear your mum never loved you enough.
I rubbed my penis all over the quarterbacks mouthguard hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Disagree! I view them both equally! And I believe most do. Men shouldn't feel any less guilty concerning promiscuity. Women shouldn't feel anymore guilty.
... and to add to that, I wouldn't even prefer a girl who has dry-humped or kissed anyone lol. I consider that "non-virgin" as well.
Just a sadistic virgins hunter passing by 😜
I agree
for me its simple :
1- i dont want her to have any other dick anywhere near her body
2- not really special when iam number 8 or 10 on the list
3- much more likely to stick around and appreciate marriage, non virgins dont care they get a divorce and sleep with someone else
4- much more pure
5- why would any sane man marry another mans trash? wheres the logic in that
one real women and 4 real men agree with me, those who disagreed probably have tasted every dick color in their neibghourhood
8 sluts around and one fake man ;)
@Jamesbound lol he's a white knight so fake yea, these women think their opinion actually matters when you're not interested in dating them, why would i care what you think of what i think when i flat out admit that i do not want to date you
@Z-Spark lol you are my twin, but I have a question like if you loved a loyal girl but her past boyfriend slept with her and then he left her the next day, would you marry her or not?
@Jamesbound probably not, i know that sounds shitty and maybe a double standard since i dated girls before but i dont think i can commit to her, a virgin has sex after marriage if she has sex before getting married then she wasn't serious about being a virgin and just used it to get some guy she liked but gave it to him and he dumped her.
@Z-Spark Yes actually it hurts, because I loved a good girl maybe not but I think she's and she just made a mistake, and then one day my friend told she's not a virgin, at this moment I hated the whole world, so the problem is I don't want to leave because she'll blame her self for ever, I'm really stuck
@Jamesbound Do what you feel you want to do , in the usa having one sexual partner is considered perfect, but in other parts of the world such women are looked down upon, so it really depends on where you live , who you're dating and how you feel about the whole thing.
@Z-Spark I'm not American but I live in America and these people here makes me crazy, I'm eastern christian also I'm extremely strict man so it seems impossible to marry a girl that used by someone else
@Jamesbound not gonna lie its gonna be hard to find a girl in america who is a virgin but if you pray you should find a girl who is in bible studies or something , most of them are usually virgins and haven't dated before, other girls have sex by 16 if not younger
@Z-Spark To be honest with you, I don't like to waste my time with girls and kids relationship, I always want to use my time for college and making something special like mark zuckerberg ;)
@Jamesbound lol well in that case put dating on hold for the time being and focus on what you think is important
virgin shaming!!!
So basically you're admitting you're a sexist?
I'm a sexist because I want my girlfriend to be a virgin? k.
You're exist because you literally stated that all girls are supposed to be lady-like and pure. Don't try to deny it.
Sexist* smh.
They are? & all men are supposed to be manly & protective
You need to stop putting things in tight, iron-clad boxes.
No one really likes promiscuous men either fyi.
But it relates directly to difficulty. It's actually hard for a guy to get a girl generally, our innate value of women means a guy getting a girl is actually impressive and a credit to him in *some* way (even if you disapprove of a guy being a play, it's impressive that he *can* do it). No one is impressed by a girl that can attract guys, it's not really any great feat.
But would you rather have an easier time or would you rather have a harder time but get a pat on the back for getting the same thing and expending thrice the effort? Easier time for me plzkthx.
If you care about her and put your ego aside there should be no problem being with a woman who's had fifty previous lovers or none. C'mon, it's not like your dick is like a car's odometer there checking the "miles", you probably won't notice unless she were to tell you.
._. i can't say much in this topic. Considering that im still a virgin. But what about the other way around? Many (depends on the girl) **honest girls dont like a guy whose slept with many other girls/ladies/women/etc, to take theirs thats also gross.
You girls are confusing me Half of you want the men to be experienced, half of you don't
Opinions XD
Hypocrisy...
Lol where? I never said women didn't have the right to a virgin man, but reading these comments women prefer experienced men The only women who are really complaining about not having a virgin man are the ones who are butt hurt over the question.
This is why it's pointless for women to bother with men. Just go WGTOW.
Pointless for women to bother with men? Wtf you act like they're some kind of mythical creatures Like they're above us or something they're humans We all have the same blood in our bodies, you really think I care about a woman not wanting to bother with me I prefer it to be that way
If you want a virgin then be a virgin. If you want someone with a low partner count then be a person with a low partner count. I don't think a woman who likes to have a one night stand every night has any less value than a woman who wants to remain a virigin until marriage. Though personally I'd prefer someone with a lower partner count or somene who has sex within long term relationships because personally I'm the same. I was never a big fan of the one night stand/ casual sex thing but to those who are more power to you.
I find it hypocritical for someone to sleep around a lot and then want to find a virgin girl. If you're having sex with multiple partners and then want a virgin because she's more "pure" then you're a hypocrite. Plus in that situation you wouldn't be pure yourself.
I find it stupid how people demonize men who stay a virgin and want to marry a virgin. People have different preferences lifestyles a cultures and if they don't believe in sex before marriage let them live their life looking for another virgin because hey aren't hurting anybody (as long as hey aren't shaming anybody for living the lifestyle they want).
I understand people who don't want someone who's had a ton of partners when they've only had a few (I know men and women like this) and that's their preference.
Though for your three points if it's not lady-like to do then it's also not gentlemanly either. No princess wants a prince who's slept with every other princess in the kingdom would be the counter point to that (like it is in fairy tales). Women also like to impress men so the experience thing also applies to women. And as for the over-used, vaginas do contract back to their original size so even if a girl was havign sex wi men who have abnormally large dicks, if she held off for a while her vagina would turn to normal.
Thouh personalky my view on the whole thing is that I believe in having sex with someone you truly love. So I'd want someone who values sex within a long term relationship. Even though the three people I've dated so far happened to be virgins, I wasn't looking for that specific quality. I wouldn't mind dating a girl who wasn't a virgin (not all non-virgin girls have 10+ partners, some just have 1). I really want someone I click with who shares similiar views on relationships and sex.
Just reading a few comments down below and I wanted to add something. Not wanting to dste a girl because she's a non-virgin and not wanting to date a guy because he's a virgin is one thing (it also is probably part of the reason why men get praised for sleeping with women while women get shamed for sleeping with men), but shaming, degrading and devaluing a person based on the number of sex partners they had makes you a shitty person. A guy is no less of a man for being a virgin just like a girl is no less of a woman for having sex with a new guy every night.
I think there should be a distinction between non virgins. Why is it either you are a virgin or you slept with 10+ people? Is there no middle way anymore? A lot of people who are not virgins do not necessarily sleep around or even have a high body count. Why is it assumed that all non virgins are the exact same? Do you know you can still have sex with your partner and be "lady like" ?
No one think non-virgins are the exact same way.
There's rarely an in between... that's why how ever many men a girl tells you she's slept with, you have to multiply it by 3. they always lie about it too..
Fuck you. That's not true at all!
Wow what have we come to if you think women lie about their numbers
@Monsieur-potato Why should we believe it & if you think I'm lying about the multiply it by 3 , look it up That's actually a thing I didn't make that up
Honestly that's not always (if ever true). I for one embellish the exact number by adding. So i seem more experienced
Virgins are rare, because hardly anyone stayed with their first a lot of us never had a virgin, I have had only 6 partners, never a virgin unfortunately, at least they would be std free if you did. I certainly wouldn't wait till marriage , there are enough surprises to deal with after doing that