Why some guys are selfish when it comes to sex?

I mean really some guys only believe in their sexual satisfaction rather than the women. Im saying jsut some not all. A guy and I made plans to have some fun. He was the idea of just some sucking andn touching and licking, he was not going to have intercourse with me so I agree, just foreplay and some oral. He told me this days before when we were planning to see each other, he told me several time Sure just oral as I jsut wanted to get off with you touching licking nd sucking. So I agree. the day came and I thought he was going to stick tot he plan of jsut oral, well in the moment he chnaged his mind and he wanted intercourse right away he even brought a condom. so even if he told me just oral some days ago he had other plans with me. First I told him no as he told me iot was going to be oral this time, he insisted he wanted ntercourse so my assumption is that he wanted that since the beginning and did not tell me anything days before in order to convince me the moment we were in bed. So he kind of fuck me and I waqs all tense on my thighs and legs. Before the intercourse I just giave him a quick suck and he finger me but it was quick both things, hehdi dnot even lick me, he wanted to fuck period no really a foreplay per se, he was being selfish. So he started to fuck me and I got all tense on my legs and inner thighs when I put my legs on his shoulders. I dont know why I got tense and during the fucking I told him that my plan tonite was not interrcouse, he said " Im finsihing soon, and keep quiet that was beacuse during the fucking I told him to stop as it hurt just a little bit so in each thrust he told me" im going to finish soon, quiet, and I keep tensing, so at one moment he could not even cum and he kidn of got upset he did not cum I got tense and I never shut up.
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I mean if I never shut up was because each time he told me he was going to finsh and that was a lie just to keep fucking me, so he just thought of h imself , his pleasure not on me. SO he told me that younger girls he was with in his past behaved better in bed, as they were quiet , they never got tensed and he always finish. Well I just spoke my mind, he first lied to me that this nite it was just going to be oral but his mind plans were other since the beginning he just wanted to fuck.
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I mean if I never shut up was because each time he told me he was going to finsh and that was a lie just to keep fucking me, so he just thought of h imself , his pleasure not on me. SO he told me that younger girls he was with in his past behaved better in bed, as they were quiet , they never got tensed and he always finish. Well I just spoke my mind, he first lied to me that this nite it was just going to be oral but his mind plans were other since the beginning he just wnqated to fuck me and
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  • I would say 75 % of guys are that way im selfish to but in a different way im not going to stop until every part of u or ur body is satisfied to where when im finished an roll off your pussy is pulsating and you can't stop cumming. for at least 20 min we are both having an out of body experience to where all of a sudden u can feel something touching your back and you dont know what it is you fight to open ur eyes and the moment you get them open u kinda startled and smile and realise its the bed touching ur back and u just got fuck so good snd just had the best out of body experiences if i can't make it all about the person im with i dont even want to do it

  • Because we get away with it. Don't tolerate it and he'll get better about it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • All I can say is you need to get to know men better before agreeing to sex or foreplay.

  • Damn. What a dick. Delete his number and blacklist this hookup.

    • He just wanted to fuck me he did nto wanted oral like he insisted for so many days before. And theh foreplay was jus tlike 5 minutes. I suck him, he finger me eh suck my boobies just like 1 minute he never gave me oral when I asked him he told "in a minute I do it" He never did it cause he wanted the intercourse to begin. Then I did tense my legs and inner tighs he flet that and he di dnot like me doing it and then when I keep talking saying it to him Did u finish several times he told me to shut up and he was going to finish soon and he never did anyway. He was a little upset. On another note. How an I stop tensing my legs or inner thighs in this case for a future intercouse but with other guy of course as it seems that coul dbe a turn off for guys if a woman tense their body.

    • You just have to trick your body into not being repulsed by a guy's action. I say stimulate yourself first and force the guy to wait. It still sucks but when he's fucking you you can pretend it's someone you fantasize about

    • It had happened to me befor but back then with a guy I was indeed attracted and once again the guy di dnot enjoy mcuh I tensed. But I got tensed when it is only missionary position tht is the possition i got tense but that is the only position I hd tried before not others. Should I try others?

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  • That just doesn't sound right and the grammar is bad.

  • Leave him or please him.

    • I believe he was a jerk he only wanted to satisfy himself and i did tell him in advanced i did not want intercourse only iral and he said yes hevlued to me the foreplay was supwr quick becayse he wantwd to fuck. He told me that i was behaving like a,15 yrd okd and not as a mature lady because i did not shut up also he mentioned mecthat younger girls behaved better in bwd than me i felt offended cause now i bekieve im will never be good at sex

  • Why not? Nature builds ALL life to be greedy, selfish and self-sustaining!

    The correct Q to ask is why are some guys NOT selfish when it comes to sex!

  • Because you let him do it. Pretty obvious. Women need to know that if they decided to cut all guys like that off, then that crap would cease.

    Same reason those guys cheat, lie, etc

  • Not true and not all are like that

    • this guy was a jerk. he then could not finish and got a bit upset he could not cum and I got tense and was not relaxed as he felt it in each thurst. He took out his dick took his condom out and i saw he was uncomfortable or upset for the way I behave. He lied to me first when I told him I waqnted just oral the foreplay was just quic. I suck him he finger me, he never lick me he just wanted to fuck me and he never told me those were his intentions.

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    • At the end he got what he wanted he fucked me but I guess not the way he would had expected so he got a little upset at me and even told me he had been with other ladies and they di dnot beahve like that, they behaved more mature and he told me that I was like a 15 yrd old gilr