Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Introduction:
Many people love the idea or perhaps casually entertain the notion that the choices they make in life somehow or someway will not a play a factor down the road because its inconvenient for them to think about and might put a stop to whatever desires they want of doing in the present moment if they consider the trade off.
I've come to learn the hard way that life even though unfair at times is one giant investment firm that rewards you according to your ways.
In this Mytake I will address why whoring around for both man and woman isn't ideal, and why it should be avoided at all cost.
I See The Lust In Your Eyes. Want To Get Freaky?
I understand that in one's youth between ages 16 to 25 or so everyone is at their peak physically looking and raging with sexual hormones in most cases and desire to have a blast in life before settling down for marriage, family and kids around mid 20's to early 30's.
I'm all for having a blast in life since one's youth is really short and life only offers a one way ticket.
However, I would suggest that whoring around should not be involved in the package when having fun with life.
Being loose sexaully isn't what it's cracked up to be in the end. All it ever leaves behind is regret and feeling dirty.
Yes, it feels good at the present moment while doing what your body desires, but when its all set and done you will come up with the short end of the stick.
You may never catch a STD which does harm physically, but mentally and emotionally a promiscuous lifestyle carries a heavy price tag with a boat load of baggage such as heartbreaks, cheating, distrust and lack of intimacy.
Once you have finished sowing your wild oats and decide it's time for a sweet harvest later on, I'm here to inform you, don't be confused, you will by no means reap the cream of the crop.
You will mostly likly have to settle for bottom of the barrel rejects that are washed up single moms that no one really desires for marriage or a serious relationship anymore as they once did when they were in their prime physically or a man in his 40's and 50's with a beer gut that looks like he is carrying twins and going bald with a dead end job.
And for you guys that do decide get a younger woman to settle down with that is physically in her prime still versus a decade or more older women, don't think for a second that you are winning just because she is a decade younger that she somehow is not a bottom of barrel woman neither.
That cute face and body She has doesn't play a role in her character at all. She won't have a problem being sneaky blowing a younger stud off behind your back and lying to your face with no shame in her at all; not mention, She deep down desires a young physically looking fun stud more rather than dealing with your E.D old ass anyways.
Fun Fun Fun... Cry Cry Cry
As a Christian now, I wish I had a Christian mentor leading and teaching me the ways of the lord and his word when I was a kid, in High School and in college. It would have saved me from getting in things I have no business getting involved in.
Like I said in the beginning your actions will always be followed by consequences whether you like it or not.
You may not feel the effects right then in there in most cases, but believe me that vicious dog will catch you down the road years later and put a mean bite to your rear end eventually and it isn't going to be hahaha no more like it once was.
Conclusion:
The seeds and choices you make and sow today will be the harvest of your tomorrow. Make no mistake about it.
You will bear it all alone. You're soly are responsible for your life. In the end it pays to live and do right by others not live a immoral and sexually loose lifestyle.
Proverbs: 19:3:
The foolishness of a man twists his way,
And his heart frets against the Lord.
Romans: 6:20-21:
For when you were slaves of sin, you were free in regard to righteousness. What fruit did you have then in the things of which you are now ashamed? For the end of those things is death.
Jeremiah: 17:10:
I, the Lord, search the heart,
I test the mind,
Even to give every man according to his ways,
According to the fruit of his doings.
Proverbs: 14:9: Fools mock at sin,
But among the upright there is favor.
Proverbs: 22:8:
He who sows iniquity will reap sorrow,
And the rod of his anger will fail.
Galatians: 6:7:
Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.
Proverbs: 22:14:
The mouth of an immoral woman is a deep pit;
He who is abhorred by the Lord will fall there.
Ecclesiastes: 7:26:
And I find more bitter than death
The woman whose heart is snares and nets,
Whose hands are fetters.
He who pleases God shall escape from her,
But the sinner shall be trapped by her.
Take Heed Folks. 😜
What Girls & Guys Said
1 1I guess its a choice, but your points are a load of crap. "Being loose sexually isn't what it's cracked up to be in the end. All it ever leaves behind is regret and feeling dirty." Bullshit. I've never met a guy and very few girls, that regretted having a good time. Life is short, enjoy it.
Yeah, go ask those same guys what kind of woman they have now? Lol
Not sure what answer you're fishing for but you aren't going to get it
My point was they won't end up with some woman that is totally devoted to them nor really respect them as a woman should respect a man. And not to mention the chick has probably has had more than 5 different dudes up in her already. Like I said in the beginning it's a trade off. You can't have it both ways.
Again, that's a load of crap.
How so? Let me her your perspective as to why?
I have no regrets and don't feel dirty when I whored around when I was younger. Now I'm happily married.
Lol ok. Make sure to stay that way til the end. And hope your hubby doesn't change on you.
https://youtu.be/1IPtQCo-Ah8?t=84
Seen it before. Kinda funny.