There's dominance and submission. There's the bedroom and real life.
A guy wanting to be submissive in the bedroom shouldn't anger you. A guy wanting to be submissive outside of the bedroom is what your 'daddy issue' is. You may not be able to separate the two, but you should try.
If you do a bit of reading on FLR (female led relationships), you will most certainly be angered, because they will fit a lot of your experience with your parents. If you separate out those where the man is still a man outside of the bedroom, you might start to realize that there's a very common type of man out there who has a crushing amount of power and responsibility in his life - to the point that he simply needs a place where he can let go and let someone else be in control.
I'm one of those guys. I need at least one space in my life where I'm not expected to be the provider, the take-charge guy. The bedroom is my only escape. And pegging.. OMG the prostate is a sex organ, and any guy who hasn't been pegged doesn't know what he's missing.
So yeah, you probably want to punch me in the face, but there's no shortage of women on the opposite end who have no relatable power or responsibility outside of the bedroom who also want to experience that opposite world of complete control.
If it really bothers you that much, just ignore it right? You do you.
Both submissive in and out the bedroom piss me off. In my experience when a man has a authority jobs like he is the boss or he owns a business they are always dominant in and out of bed so what you are saying is not speaking for a majority at least with the men I have been with. Women are the ones with authority jobs but in relationships they act submissive in bed. Again from the experience I have with people. When I speak to men who have powerful Jobs they always come across very dominant to me and then I find out they are dominant in bed as well all the time. When I date men who take the lead out of bed they always take the lead in bed as well. anyway the problem is not with dominant men the probably I have is with submissive men who kiss my ass and say yes to everything a woman says in or out of bed.
When you spoke about being pegged it made me cringe so hard anyways you are not a majority the men with powerful Job I know are dominant asf thank God
The problem is when they start talking to me I don't know they are submissive even thou they look it I try not to judge by appearance but most of the time I get it right... when I start getting to know them and they start sharing how submissive they are in bed I start feeling like I want to slap them. I am just trying to understand why I get so annoyed and you submissive men need to stop sharing details of your sex life damm lol
It's a valid issue. I've said it before. There are way too many beta males out there. Society has demonized in general male traits and traditional male roles to the point that men don't know how to be men. I'm very traditional sexually. I want to be the protector and overshadow the woman as I make love to her. I want to be the one to direct what we are doing. I may be taking her from behind vaginally and then direct her to flip over her so I can take her missionary style. I also enforce that she feel good. I will not let her walk away without intense orgasms. She will feel like she was serviced well when all said and done. Someone has to take charge and it can be done safely and respectfully.
Yeah, that sounds like you've got some issues to work through about your view of your dad. I'd suggest working through that and revisiting your view.
Not wanting a submissive man is also a valid preference, though the way you've worded your question makes me feel like this is more about some unresolved issues surrounding how you view your dad and how that male role model was for you growing up.
My dad is also a pushover when it comes to his relationship with my mother, and I definitely had to work through similar disdain when I was younger.
Yea you are right thanks x
If you take issue with your father (a submissive straight man), then that may be one factor.
Another reason might be that you don't find it attractive to see a man submit to a woman to the point of aggression. It's actually common to have a sexual pet peeve that makes you aggressive.
While I do not encourage violence, you miiiight wanna let any potential men you date know that submissive straight men piss you off.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Because you don't understand what balls are and do, most likely. It sounds like you've got some very old-fashioned ideas that clash with the realities of the modern world. I think you need to have a long, introspective talk with yourself about what you are and want.
I want a big strong man to love me and fuck me and keep me safe
I am a submissive women
Does this have something to do with your personal interests? Do you only like strong, dominant men and this kind of thing just makes you frustrated? It sounds like you want to correct them when that's just not how it works.
I want a dominant man to correct me when I am wrong and to punish me when I have been a bad girl and to fuck me hard in bec😢
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Exactly, so that is what you want. Anything else to you would be a turn off. I could see why that would be frustrating. Just remember though, you don't have to date the men that are being submissive.
Hahaha I can't say they piss me off, just means more subby girls for me ;)
Men often will have fantasies of female domination when they feel guilty for how they treat women in day to day life. Usually around their inadequacies.
It’s likely you hate them because they are often hypocritical.
That's because they we're raised by a single mother and taught to be a girl. We can thank feminism for destroying two generations of boys along with their dead beat dads whom never had a influence over their lives. The feelings You have are natural though because women are naturally repulsed by week men, A man is supposed to conquer not bow down and especially not to a woman.
Sounds like your attracted to dominant masculine men rather then feminine submissive ones.
submissive men also probably remind you of your father.
Most women despite weak men. Maybe not to the point of wanting to punch them, but despising them nonetheless.
I think you answered your own question its something you saw as a child with your dad being a bitch to your mom. I get the same anger when I see straight men be submissive little bitches. I just want to punch them
Sounds like you have anger issues that you need therapy or you are just a troll
Either way, you are a lowlife
I don't know, but what I do know is that the Bible says that the man heads the Christian household.
i totally understand you
I feel ya
You are dating pussy ass men.
I think this kind of behavior is being taught to modern men these days. They see all these chick flicks where the man sacrifices his job health and even his life for the girl he loves and it works but they don’t know that’s not how the world works. Now you just have a bunch of pussies who can’t stand up for themselves in any confrontation.
Well when you love someone you would scarfice your life for them like if I had a child I would give up my life for them if one day it came to that point... the issue I have is men with zero boundaries and don't know how to say no. I am submissive asf and I have a vagina but there are things I would never do for a man sexual stuff and none sexual stuff.
Yeah we are taught to put them on pedestals because they are the ones we need to impress to get a date in the first place.
Everyone have different fantasy for example I like to smash girls ass..
😂 what I said is not a fantasy its how I feel about submissive straight men
Can you tell me what you like most ☺️?
We live in a society of emasculated simp males. We can blame feminism for killing maleness.
I'm a straight man. I've been the dominant one in my past relationships with the occasional switch. In my experience, some women are naturally dominant. Both have their charms for me. I believe in a balance.
That was not the question lol
Maybe submissive men remind you of your dad and you don't want that.
Thats probably what it is thanks x
I can't find a reason why women shouldn't take charge, men are aggressive and harmful in nature, women have more self control, I'm straight by the way.
Just reading this makes me want to punch you
why, what's wrong in what I said?
You did not read my topic?
well you'd probably want to punch me in the face then
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