Why is that when he cums he seems embarrassed?

[Anonymous]

Like when I'm masturbating him and he cums he looks like mad or embarrassed about it. Why is this?

[Anonymous]

Tbh I ask this question all the time to guys- how are you NOT embarrassed if a girl is jerking you off and she's standing there all in control while he is losing it and lets go completely. IMO I think its totally normal that someone would be a bit self conscious and embarrassed. but I guess it depends on trust- how long have you know him ? By the way if he actually IS mad and still lets you do it , its kind of passive aggressive on his part so you shouldn't feel bad about that- not your fault he's not communicating. It is true men and women make funny faces when they come ,so don't rule that out either- oh! I know lol- ask him :)

Also, a friend said its about how much experience hr has. apparently guys get used to that but maybe he doesn't have much experience- ask him :)

[Opinion Owner]

Btw lol Tell me if it gets resolved. I'd like to know what the deal is , because I really have difficulty believing guys done care at all- some must ^^ -toulouse

[candlewax]

Is he coming relatively quickly? Maybe he feels like he's coming too fast and is embarassed/frustrated by it.

[DoctorSex]

lol I'm speaking for the 16yrold doctor sex...the 21 year old doctor is too composed to be embarrassed ;)

the reason we don't mind whilst its happening is because the animal instinct and testosterone is fully flowing...a flock of birds could fly through the window abd we wouldn't stop...but the second you come all of that floods out of you in an instant...and your pretty much seeing the real guy for who he is...so if the guys naturally shy...your gonna see it rite after he cums...

...plus he's at his most vulnerable and you have he's sensative penis in your hand lol

[l-hedoniste]

Maybe he is embarrassed. Sometimes people are taught to be ashamed of masturbation, taught that it's dirty. If someone did this to him, you'll need to fix it, by letting him know that it's okay, by giving him the understanding he's never had.

[azzhole725]

When a male ejaculates, it's a vulnerable moment for him. He's revealing his emotions. He's afraid that you might laugh at him or ridicule him.

[sucker4ashedevil]

lol maybe he thinks he should last longer. He may feel vulnerable and that he is unable to control himself. Your hand feels so good on his thingy that he just looses control and spurts his creamy load everywhere, lol! Just tell him not to be embarrased and that you love to watch him come :)

[toulouse]

:) lol little thingy

[ketfoen]

i don't think he's either. Most men make weird faces when they cum, some have happy faces some look mean and tired. He must be having a mean fantasy while you were jerkin him off.

[katiesmuff]

I think it is the expression of pure glee!

[Littletad]

He's... mad? Maybe it hurts. A doctor visit perhaps?

[Femur]

He could be ashamed about the whole concept. I would ask him about it. Communication is key in a relationship.

[jimmydean72]

He probably doesn't think he is good enough for you.

[NormalVisual]

You should ask him, he's the only one to know!

[EMPKaden]

Something to do with the fact he probly feels like he isn't reaching his potential. Like he should last longer and that you'll think down on him for it.