Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
So, We've all heard it. A Girl whining and complaining that apparently, ''All Guys ever seem to care about is sex''.
Well, Let me stop you dead in your tracks sweetheart and tell you why it is that, Is simply, Not true.
You see, I think its important to say, That yes, Sex is important in relationships, Its a perfectly normal and healthy thing to happen that all humans at some point will naturally desire, Its inevitable, Its what makes us human. There is nothing to be ashamed of about it. So why have girls seemed to have developed this apparent 'Fact' That its all men think about it? Well, here's why.
Now, It is accepted in modern society, That generally (Not always), 'Prettier' People, Do get it easier when it comes to relationships, Thats not surprising, Thats just how humans are programmed when it comes to attraction, Looks are very important, Though they are not everything, they are a large part in attraction.
And sometimes, With Great looks comes great Vanity. Not always, But quite often. You see, a lot of Handsome guys will take advantage of their appearance, They are Alpha Males, Dominant guys among men. This is nothing new, Its always been like this. Its the same as how in High schools, The ''Jocks'' Were always at the top of every girls Want list. That dosent make girls Shallow or Mean, It just makes them Human.
The Problem is, As I've said, a lot of Handsome guys know this and abuse this. They will use it to sleep with women and take advantage of them for sex. Again, Nothing new.
Now, The problem comes, With, Because these guys, Are Handsome, And often considered the Pinacle of male Attractiveness within society by females, They are basically always the most desired by women, Which is understandable, This means, They date the most women, And with these women, Then have the most sex (Obviously). And they are basically only in it for the sex (Usually) and usualy dont care about long term relationships (See where this is going?)
So, When you think about it, The reason so many girls think all guys think of nothing but sex, Its because the guys they are physically attracted to, And or have slept with, Have been guys who are like that, And the girls fail to realise that they are only like that because they are attractive, and completely overlook the ''Less attractive '' guys who aren't like that as they have never experienced the uglier guys because, Well, Why would they want to ? theyre uglier. This is where the ''Nice guys finish last'' phrase comes from, Because generally, Uglier guys try to compensate with Personality, But if you dont have the looks to go with said personality, The Personality is fairly uselss. The same thing is exactly the same for females, This isn't just a guy thing, Generally, Less attractive girls feel this way too. But, It is usally projected with more hate from girls to guys then it is the other way around, This is why, As I've said, The ''Nice guys finish last'' phrase has been so universaly and famously coined. And why guys feel as though they have been ''Friendzoned'' for more physically attractive guys despite the fact of their ''Lesser Personality''
(^ This picture is all to true of a reality for so many guys, Its basically just a girls way of saying ''Youre the kind of personality i want, But your not hot enough''. Which pisses a lot of dudes off, The reason why its more famous with Girls to guys then the other way round, Is because girls are so much more upfront and honest about it then guys, Whereas guys will often take any girls they can)
So, I guess the morale of the story is, No, Guys dont only care about sex, The typical hot guy douchebags that you are attracted to only care about sex (It works both ways, Girls throw a tantrum all the time about how ''slutty pretty'' girls have sex all the time, Its because they are more physically attracive, so its easier for them to be slutty, its the same for guys)
And it always makes me laugh, Because most of the time, The people who complain about this type of stuff, Are the type of people who only care about sex, and then get annoyed when they found out someone else used THEM for sex and not the other way around.
If you want a guy who DOSENT only care about sex, there are 2 ways you can do it, you can either keep dating your typical hot guys until you slewed through enough douchebags and finally hit lucky and found a genuinly nice + hot guy, or you can lower your physical expectations (Which i doubt anyone is willing to do because thats not the society we live in)
So yeah, Girls, when i wake up in the morning, and go to work, and come home, and go to sleep, i can honestly say i spend about less than 0.1% of my day thinking about sex, maybe thats just me, but im not fussed about it. There are farrrrr more important things in far more numerous numbers that i think about that getting in someones skirt. So please stop with the arrogant nonsense of labelling all guys as sex abusing douchebags, because we are not ALL like that. just the same as not ALL girls are sluts.
Thank you for reading.
What Girls & Guys Said
22 29if this was untrue, they would date ugly girls !! they dont !!
i dont know where your bull shit begins and ends.. its limitless
So we're not allowed to be attracted to someone? Attraction is the basis of all relationships, his point is we don't just care about sex. You'd think by 30 you'd be able to understand simple facts.
shut up !! rite, being at 30 i seen enough to know ur utter non sense !! and u would think being 19 would give you some sense !! about what guys think
never saw an ugly woman happy !! never !!
Anonymous, You say that like its a one way thing, I could say right back to you that the Majority of Girls would never date an unnatractive guy, So dont give me the crap of saying its only Guys who dont like unnatractive girls, because its simply bulshit. I for one, Being unnatractive myself, Couldnt be fucked what a girl looked like (Obviously there is an extent, But that point is very low demanding). Hot people date hot people, Ugly people date ugly people. Thats just how society works. Deal with it. As much as you may not want to admit it Hun, Looks are very very important to most people, Sure not all people, But most. And if there is no physical attraction, then why even date? You can't maintain a healthy relationship on Personality alone, Attraction IS needed. So dont act like guys are only judgmental of girls, Because it works both ways hun... Dont judge the ender male gender over the actions of a few vain guys, just as i dont judge girls over a few bad apples...
my point was to prove this post is shit !! u want to argue just for the heck of it !! knock ur self !!
Your arguments are baseless, and your points are just angry, rage without any single shread of truth. Stop being arrogant, Not all guys are assholes who only care about sex...
"never saw an ugly woman happy !! never !!" Maybe that is because her "girlfriends" kept calling her ugly?
bullshit !! keep arguing.. you still wrong, this post still bullshit !! ur arguments are baseless !! and your points are just childish !! without any single thread of truth, lol your arugment is self contradictory and immature !! arrogant - look who is talking.. you're illogical and baseless arguments.. clearly indicate you as arrogant !! correct your logic then argue and then assume see who is being what !! you're 19, wanting to win you're arugment at all costs that is being - ignorant and arrogant !!
and childish !! grow up !!
its like a meat eater aruging - i am vegan !!
I find it hard to argue with someone who thinks lesser of people simply because of their age, and they themselves have the grammar capabilities of a 7 year old... Stop being so silly, the social world dosent revolve around you and your absurd and bias opinion, girls are just as nasty as guys when it comes to dating, and don't deny it, because clearly you have no clue about dating from a male perspective, ugly guys get shit just as hard as ugly girls, accept it and deal with it. That's how society works sadly, you're not the only victim here just because you're a chick
I not particularly writing for a paper.. don't give shiz about grammar.. same for u... social world ain't ur puppet.. stfu clearly ur a liar hypocrite.. ugly guys ugly girls whatever... this post is shit and self contradictory !! After u get a college graduate u be able to see the fallacy in this argument !! Good luck mista
I cud go on and on to smack u with arguments.. and prove ur ass wrong.. But I dnt hav time.. Good luck
And after u hav dated ugly women.. loved them blabdy blahs and hav void case of ugly women with a man... I shall believe this I baseless stupid statement.. sex is basis of a mans choice... wht dipshit claims tall make
*valid case
*yall
1) Please tell me where in my entire post i contradicted myself... 2) You have the nerve to tell me to get a college education (Which i'm currently doing) and yet you maintain the ability to use grammar of a child... And you then have the nerve to call me a hypocrite and contradictory? 3) I have dated ugly girls, I prefer ugly girls, Im an Ugly guy, So i dont shoot out of my league. 4) Your ignorant, Arrogant, Obnoxious and quite frankly just being pathetic... You refuse to accept any opinions other then your own. 3)
Wow. You're calling them immature when you're the one who clearly hasn't a fucking clue what anyone is talking about. There's no way you're over 30 years old being that the way you type you sound like you're in first grade. I had to stop reading all your replies because you're pissing me off too God damn much with your clear lack of intelligence and reasoning skills. The issue is that instead of considering facts you're simply resorting to stereotypes and random insults. So shut your mouth before you piss someone off and your world gets rocked.
So true. I feel like guys are just humans, in actuality im sure they worry more about themselves then sex.
Eh, I don't really worry about sex at all, it's probably down near the bottom of the list of things I care about ;)
I'm not sure I agree. I think "nice guys" would be doing the same if they were better looking (I imagine you'd agree on that) and so they are just as sexual as the hot jocks, just unable to satisfy their desires.
Obviously some guys are less interested in sex others, but it is a priority for quite a few - though obviously not literally the only thing they think about.
If nice guys were hot, they'd be called sweet and guys to date, if an ugly douchebag came he wouldn't be as attractive.
@SSDSSDSSD I'm not sure what you're trying to get at? I'm saying that the "nice guys" behave the way they do because of their low sex appeal, that virtually all guys would cash in on the ability to sleep around if they were able.
Strong statement, but no. The nice guy would not become a douchebag player just because he is better looking.
@bobbydigitaloa I said "nice guys", not guys that just happen to be nice. I'm talking about guys that act nice because they feel they're too unattractive to get away with being douches.
I can't disagree with all of it since there are aspects that I do agree with.. Such as, there are guys who may try to get with a girl just for sex.. Now, the guys isn't just thinking about sex. He's thinking about a lot of things, but in regards to the girl specifically, all he cares about is sex.. Now, this will fall down to guys that don't just want sex.. And this comes about when a guy that isn't just trying to get with a girl.. and he becomes horny, like animals do, and he wants sex. He just happens to want sex from the girl at a point in time when the girl doesn't want to have sex. So, because the guy is wanting sex when she isn't in the mood for sex, it can lead the girl to the incorrect assumption that all the guy wants is sex.
I know some not so handsome guys that act like this. They are simply cocky some girls like that about them. I don't particularly care either way, if you like sex cool, good for you if its all you want. If not make it known. Flings can be fun. But if I have feelings for someone I tend to observe their interactions before making a move because I don't need my heart broken over someone who is not invested in me as a person.
And I get propositioned often, I like sex but I can be picky depending on the circumstances.
Girls go for the guy, that goes for them. If he happens to be a douche, she took that chance
o.0. I'm a guy and all I care about is sex...
Good for you!
I don't think to much about sex anymore, but mostly because I'm considered unattractive by most women (tall, deep voice, but a small penis that looks even smaller against my body frame). I've simply put my energies to use in other ways. I know that I'm not going to impress women, so why bother playing "the game?"
Think too much *
Yeah, I dont really think about sex because i dont really want it, Not for a year or so anyway, I just dont have the Physique for it, Im badly out of shape ;), Oh well, Another year of Gym'ing should fix it up, Just gonna be a long time i guess. Such is the price for relationships though i suppose.
Love it! You go!
Cheers D00D ;P