It sounds like you're trying to make sense of dominance/submission, kinks, and fetishes. Don't. They cum from deep in our psyches and every person is different. The great news is that for every kink and fetish, there's a complementary one. God gave we Doms submissives, we spankos those of the opposite (or same sex depending on orientation) those who love to be spanked, etc. Have a calm, direct, matter of fact conversation with her once you decide to have sex but before or early on. Find out what she likes and wants and tell her what you like and want. I'm betting you'll find enough in common to make things fun.
I have also found that if a man goes to lengths to make sure she's getting everything she needs and most of what she wants, she'll do just about ANYTHING he wants.
Those are you examples of degrading? Seems pretty standard to me. I think what makes a girl good in bed is what she can take. I treat them pretty bad in bed but they like it. And I’m very good to them outside of the bedroom.
A lot of these things are done for novelty of sensation or convenience, not with the intent or interpretation of degradation. Ex: being smacked on the ass is found pleasurable to both sexes many times because arousal dulls pain sensation and gives a more sensual sensation that differs from that in the genitals. It's physical, not psychological. Likewise, swallowing during oral is less messy, and many do it just for that reason.
Really? I though it was the other way around. I don't like facials or being slapped or choked, but guys on this site seem to love all of that.
The more interesting question is, "Why do men find these things so degrading, but still enjoy making girls do them?"
Maybe because they like humiliating girls
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I don't find those things degrading... and I'm not sure most guys feel that way.
that's strange indeed.
personally i couldn't do these stuff, even if they girl asked me
only some girls and boys partake and do not find those things humiliating
It depends on the guys & girls.
I do not like any of this stuff. It is far too rough for me, I prefer slow and sensual sex.
They ARE degrading, that's WHY some wo/men like it.
You like to be degraded?
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