Why try to have sex with someone if your not ready for it?

[Akam93]

Say you don't get turned on easily, don't like touching, or kissing for that matter so why try to think sex is different.

[Gent207-2]

I don't know what I would do if my wife came to that same conclusion and was no longer interested in sex.

My sex drive would hammer at my walls of faithfulness till I snap and take up ropeless bungee jumping lessons for such is my hell. No matter what I do it will never be good enough.

I'd rather die than be a cheater.

[Anonymous]

It's a big part of physical attraction and if you're not ready for it it's not good to rush it. Some people don't like to be touched which makes it very difficult to have sex

[Ironic_Method]

It only takes a few minutes for me to be ready for it. We also have a free use agreement so it makes it easy.

Also, not being ready for it is irrelevant because it still feels good and/or will feel good soon enough.

[Sunnybeach123]

I've tried to have sex when I wasn't ready. Embarrassing, tbh.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t. I assume those who do are pressured into it.

[Akam93]

Maybe. I feel like 85 percent of girls are not horny at all.

[Opinion Owner]

Me too tbh

[MrOracle]

"Maybe. I feel like 85 percent of girls are not horny at all." You are projecting your own experience on all/most women, but that's not remotely true. What IS true is that many women's sexuality is relatively dormant if they aren't in a solid relationship where they have an emotional connection and feel safe - at which point, they often find their libido roars to life. If yours doesn't, even in that situation, then you are the one outside the norm, and you should probably talk to someone professional about that. The vast majority of men have no interest being in a sexless relationship, but there ARE a few asexual men, so you could potentially have a relationship with one of them. Or you can remain single. That's your choice, of course.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not, I say that I agree because I’ve spoken to a lot of other women who feel the same way. My friends feel the same way. Not saying all women feel that way of course but a lot do.

[Opinion Owner]

Not craving sex whilst in a relationship doesn’t mean someone needs professional help either…some people just don’t see what’s so good about it. The entire thing is hyped up to be better than was it is and then it’s a major disappointment when you experience it and realise it’s actually not as great as people say it is..