Why was my guy friend so into showing me his favorite porn star?

We were having convos about sex and stuff and he mentioned one girl he likes watching. And then says he wants to show me his face. I ask why and he said “I want you hmmmmm to give you a good idea of what I watch”. And I again said “I don’t wanna see.” And he kept pushing and shows me her face. It was so off putting
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  • That line between friend and friends with benefits can be so thin, it’s important to set clear boundaries with him, which you have not. I don't know which one of you opened the door to talking about sex and whatever, but now that he’s comfortable to talk about these things with you, he’s eager to keep it going and that’s partially your own fault. If him delving deeper into the flirty/sex talk is making you uncomfortable then you need to very clear and put an end to it. Just be sure that when you do so, you stick to it, not straddling the line and flirting because it’s fun or whatever. Don’t play those sort of games.

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  • Perhaps he wants you to do your hair and makeup the same as the porn star so he can fantasize about her. I'd tell him to jerk off to her videos while you find a decent guy.

    • Well I look nothing like her lol. In looks or size. So that wouldn’t work lol. And I have a boyfriend. It’s just so weird

    • That is really weird. If he does other things that disrespect your wishes you probably should ghost him.

    • We’ve been pals for years and very close. So that’s why I was fine telling him I don’t wanna see it or care. Lol.

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  • I think he's having lesbian fantasies about you and her. That's what it sounds like to me. Hopefully I'm wrong.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Lol. That’s weird to me….

    • SAME!!! Lol

    • I don’t even have porn stars I get into. Lol. I couldn’t even think of any names.