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Very often young women are after older men for relationships and not men in their approximate age range and here is why:
1. He has an established career, money and a high paying job
This is a no brainer. He can spend money on her and pay for the dinner out of his own pocket because he can. She has to doll up, show up and order from the menu.
Yay today's capitalism, biased social conditioning and double standards.
This is the main reason why. It's also the only header here. The other reasons next are just minor factors and even if a young man may have them all but the first one, women will still prefer the older man. The reason can't possibly be any more obvious.
2. He matured and is serious about life
Well I'm young and just as serious about life but I couldn't find young girls being as mature. Many of them are still stuck up on high school drama.
However the older men are more likely to find repeating the word penis everywhere to be boring and immature and pointless. Or watching twitch livestreams during university lessons or practical labor.
3. He has his own place
He probably lives alone or has an upper class home for himself. There is enough privacy and it's a proper home without any bug infestations from poor maintaining landlords and janitors and the sanitary utilities are in working condition compared to students tiny dormitories. That means undisturbed sex is easily possible. And it's comfortable.
4. He has a car and a drivers license
But so did Elliot Rodger actually and he died a 22 year old virgin. His reason for being unsuccessful with women however was very different - it was his terrible attitude and his feeling of being entitled to women and sex.
Women love to get around between places and having their man driving her around. Sorry to disappoint you young guys, who don't have any wheels.
5. Older men are experienced
It's like applying for a job. Women prefer men with experience. Even I wonder why they don't like the journey of both being young and inexperienced virgins. In my opinion this is where romance really starts to bloom because puppy love.
Older men know when, how and what without her saying a word. Women love it when they can be readen like that.
Inexperienced virgin guys in their 20s can only get jealous and the pressure adds up with each passing time interval. No wonder why men watch porn.
6. Less video games and he is already educated = more time for her
Although young college/university guys if not employed have all the time in the world they have other areas, where the older man has the upper hand. Read this one again and you will see: Not employed. The older guy is employed.
7. Older men's physique are usually in good condition
Since young men are normally financially poor and even worse busy working a hard, minimum wage job draining him from his time and energy (I mean its still better than being unemployed), results in fatigue, partial starvation and being skinny and weak, women are turned off by that. That's how life fucks with us all. It's a bit similar like the concentration camps in nazi Germany.
It just shows, that the young, starved guy is already beaten by his life duties and he can't protect nor provide for her.
8. Older men have stuff
A fancy smartphone, a powerful and cool computer, a pair of blasting speakers, a wide range of clothing… you name it. That shows he can afford it. And maybe even give her gifts. Turn ON!
9. Age
It is just a number but there is a reason why some say, that men age like wine and women age like milk. Some Women just prefer, that this number exceeds their own. It's just their preference.
10. They are past the partying wild stage
Or at least they're not as active anymore as the typically young men. I get it why partying everyday until the morning and fucking bitches is a turn off while not studying for the upcoming exam. I really do and understand it and all but not all young men are this type or are so lucky to be part of it. Me included.
But guys in this wild partying stage can't be taken seriously for LTR. Some Women are bewaring and it's good for them.
It is what it is. If you happen to be a young man like me and are looking for a serious and committed, long term relationship, odds might be you're luckier with older women starting from their 30s. You might even really like them because they are likely to be as mature as the older men are. And also more likely to be mentally stable and less to deal with stupid drama. I also heard, that women start getting sex crazed in their 30s like men in puberty would. You can only try. Good luck!
What Girls & Guys Said
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MONEY
Could have literally been ONE word.
MONEY
That is all. Women will give up all other morals and standards for money.
I know. I have written this for the dummies, who don't understand.
I think the reasons are pretty obvious to everyone. And as long as both are adults and both are ok with being used, then who cares
Fair is fair🤷💁
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all men save money after of waste time in friendzone, fail proposal of other bitches.
I prefer them younger or my own age. Now what?
That's cool. You prefer young men.
Money talks n older dick rocks !!
Absolutly true. Women only want men with money and any other valuables they can steal later.
False for me I prefer younger, I hate guys who have wrinkles.
We all grow older.
So? Wrinkles is still unattractive and if I date a younger guy he will look younger longer.
It's not uncommon to see older people look younger than young people. It depends on how well you take care of your health and body. Do lots of partying and sun tanning in your early 20's and you'll raisin faster than a California grape.
@pineappleorange Date a younger guy who doesn't party, sun tan and have an healthy lifestyle, look younger longer.
I'm just saying you cannot judge how young a person looks strictly by their age. Plenty of young people who look old and old people who look young.
I love older men who are just what you just described. The oldest guy I dated was 37 and age was never a problem. Those who talk shit about age gaps have never been in a relationship with someone significantly older and they fail to acknowledge that age gaps aren't for everyone. It takes a very mature young individual to sustain a long-term relationship with an older partner. That being said, those arguments saying "you're both at different stages in life" or "you both won't have anything in common" are bullshit. A young person can have the same interests/ hobbies an older person does such as religion, politics, golf, etc... and being at different stages in life doesn't mean anything. He can go to work while I can go to school. And if he's financially stable himself, what's the problem?
MUCH AGREED 👏
This is actually a very good take on this question and it is honest and true. My husband is 13 years older than me.
ehh not really.. Every girl says she's mature for her age lol... No matter what you say, you simply don't have the time clocked in this world long enough to be on the same level as a man 37 and you're like 18 lol He's with you for your youth and you're with him cause it's easy for young girls to attract old men That is always the base... the rest is up for debate though sure
@TripleAce I just said that age gaps aren't for everybody and that it takes a very mature individual to sustain a relationship with an older man. "No matter what you say, you simply don't have the time clocked in this world long enough to be on the same level as a man 37 and you're like 18 lol" On what level? Mental level? Age doesn't determine maturity. Some women your age act like they're 16 year olds. I have more maturity than some women who are in their 40's. Plus, I'm not 18. I'm 22. "He's with you for your youth and you're with him cause it's easy for young girls to attract old men" You obviously have never been around older mature men before lol PS: I have seen a lot if your posts on here an you clearly have nothing better to do with your time than troll and purposely try to piss people off lol My advice: Stay in school and educate yourself. You'll realize that age doesn't determine maturity. Experience does.
@katiesmuff I agree. It's unfortunate that so many guys like the one who just responded below you lack the mentality that most of these older mature men have. This is why I gravitate towards older men in the first place.
@Richareens Yup. It's funny how these younger guys are all bitter and upset about that we want real men lol
@TripleAce oh, I forgot to mention that scientific studies conclude that women mature faster than men do. Nice try though lol
You clearly didn't get what i meant lol You just repeated what you said. So ill say it again No matter how 'mature' you feel you are. A young mind is still a young mind. You simpy haven't clocked in the time (living) to be at the same point as a 40 year old guy hell a 17 year old girl could be more mature than you doesn't mean dating a 40 year old man is right for her when she's still a kid
Oh you're such a kid lol by saying that 'Scientific studies show women mature fast than men' Ok there lol i don't think they mean 20 years faster lol Nice try
@TripleAce www.telegraph.co.uk/.../...ys-scientists-find.html
Do I need to say more?
Not all 22 year old women act like they're 16 year olds. Sure, a lot of them do, but for the most part, we don't. It's an evolutionary thing for women's brains to develop much faster so that women can bear children as early as possible.
"A young mind is still a young mind. You simpy haven't clocked in the time (living) to be at the same point as a 40 year old guy"
You make no sense. If a girl is mature for her age, what exactly us wrong with dating a 40 year old? I already explained why being at different stages in life isn't a valid argument. You may want to clarify this one for me because I'm not following you here.
Can you see yourself dating a 13 year old? Mature or more mature than you?
Boom lol Rest my case
@TripleAce Educate yourself rather than troll all day on a site filled with strangers. Find something better to do. Go take some college courses or learn a new language rather than hate on women who want to be with real men.
Gotcha Admit it
@TripleAce Wtf? lol Your argument makes no sense still. A 13 year old boy is a child whose brain is not developed yet. A 22 year old woman is an adult.
@TripleAce Do you see anything wrong with a 65 year old dating a 30 year old (big age gap) If not, what's the problem with a 22 year old dating a 40 year old?
It's all relative... to a 40 year old man you're like his daughter... a young adult lol... so you'd date a 16 year old... that's developed lol and it's only 6 years apart
cause no matter how mature you think you are... cause lets face it, every girl says that... You just aren't fully grown up yet to make sure choices a 40 year old man needs from a women... you just aren't there yet no matter how mature you feel... Plus he's going for your youth almost 90% of the times.. he has no need for you in his life really.. you're just like a side thing
@TripleAce God, you are so dense lol. Every man wants something different. Who's to say that a 22 year old can't provide an older man with the same thing a 40 year old can? lol I feel as if I'm arguing with a wall here. I just gave you the evidence that women mature more faster than men do and that mature women do indeed exist. Sure, not every girl who says she's mature really is, but there are plenty of mature girls out there. And those mature women gravitate towards older men because we are sick and tired of hanging around guys our age who act like so densely. So no matter what you say, you simply don't have the gravitas or the maturity level to understand age differences. If you want to argue back and forth all day long, that's fine with me. But, only a mature man would realize that age has nothing to do with maturity.
"Plus he's going for your youth almost 90% of the times.. he has no need for you in his life really.. you're just like a side thing" Another generalization lol. Not all older men are sugar daddies. Some are genuinely looking for love. Of course, I wouldn't expect you to know this because you're clearly a kid trapped in a man's body assuming you're really 33.
it's not that you're sick and tired of hanging around guys your age... it's mostly because these kinda girls have a hard time putting in equal effort to actually keep a guy around her age lol so they go to older men... and all it really takes to get these men is your youth... brah there is many like you out there... we've seen them all. it's just cause you can't hold down a legit relationships at your age range...
@TripleAce it's not that you're sick and tired of hanging around guys your age... it's mostly because these kinda girls have a hard time putting in equal effort to actually keep a guy around her age lol I wouldn't want a guy my own age even if he has the same amount of money as Donald Trump lol. Nice try though.
yea I know cause it takes effort since you are competing with other 22 year olds... so it's not easy and you can't make it happen but with a 40 year old... you're not competing with other 30-40 year old women.. no shit he's going for the 22 year old lol
you are competing with 30-40 year old women***
and hence why young girls like older men easy work... sit there and look young and you got your 40 year old fart waiting and bowing down to you while the football dude thats young and handsome and you guys can grow together is hard to get since he's got his eye on many 22 year old girls ya been there know that lol...
@TripleAce Lol, it's because I have no interest in dating guys my age even if they wanted to date me and if they had other desirable traits such as money. God, you really need to elevate your reading comp skills.
@TripleAce You are so ignorant if you truly believe than all older men are looking for youth and beauty lol. Not all older men are looking to be sugar daddies. Of course, I wouldn't expect you to realize this since you're a kid trapped in a man's body lol
@TripleAce "yea I know cause it takes effort since you are competing with other 22 year olds... so it's not easy and you can't make it happen" lmao I'm dead XD I have seen girls who look like the back of my ass who have horrible personalities make all kinds of men fall in love with them lol. I'm seriously just cracking up right now.
"sit there and look young and you got your 40 year old fart waiting and bowing down to you while the football dude thats young and handsome and you guys can grow together is hard to get since he's got his eye on many 22 year old girls" The 40 year old mature man with a lot of cash will be a lot more desirable than an immature 22 year old football player whose only real talent is playing video games. Hence, it wouldn't surprise me why he would have his "eye on many girls his age" since he can't even be loyal to any girls probably. Girls want resources more than looks. It's also an evolutionary thing.
yea the idea is to grow together and make something of yourselves and enjoy being 22 while you are 22... not ride some older man's back tail on the work he put in for 40 years while you've done nothing since you're only 22... just like that football player
like I said... cause it's easy to ride that old man's life's work... and hard for you to grow together starting from scratch and putting in enough effort to keep a guy at 22 until marriage see dating a guy you age and ending off with marrying him - is 10 times more rewarding than cuddling with old fart cause you're just a young girl... like nah, that's not going anywhere blah lol
@TripleAce "not ride some older man's back tail on the work he put in for 40 years while you've done nothing since you're only 22... " Wtf is wrong with you. My boyfriend's 32 years old and I've never made him buy stuff for him or asked for cash. You're delusional.
@Richareens 19 and 32 isn't that bad... about 10 years isn't that bad 20 years is a little much though...
@TripleAce There's nothing wrong with wanting a man who is already experienced, established and successful in his career. Not everyone wants to "grow together" as you put it. I am just not physically or mentally stimulated by younger men and that doesn't make me a gold digger or any of the nonsense that you're saying. And not all younger girls are looking to leech off of a man's "hard-earned work". I'm actually a college student looking forward to having a good career after graduation and having my own money. You're literally crazy as fuck.
@TripleAce Even if that was the case though, women are biologically wired be attracted to men who are good providers while men look for the most attractive women to mate with. Can't blame girls for mother nature's and God's creation.
omg this girl though lol... You've totally convinced yourself I mean are you currently dating some old fart though?
@TripleAce Some males look like dorks / geeks when they're young and actually get better looking with age. Those guys are the lucky ones since the opposite happens with everyone else.
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@pineappleorange I'm just not physically attracted to younger guys. In fact, a guy with wrinkles and body fat is actually hotter than a 22 year old guy with tattoos and a six pack.
You are with him for money though.
@bekkesmash of course they are. Many of them (subconsciously or consciously) are. GIRLS LOVE MONEY 💵💰
Can understand why young boys like you are sulky
You aren't a goldigger you are a prostitute, as a man having money is a prerequisite for you to date him and in turn sleep with him. He literally has to pay, you are literally by definition a prostitute. Your dad must be proud.
@bekkesmash exactly. No money, no honey, no pussy. Money controls those women! In other words prostitutes.
Must be fun being a judgmental asshole, keep it up guys. Bye
Are you saying you aren't a prostitute?
@bekkesmash Fuck off, pos troll
@Richareens Don't listen to this pos below you. In every single question where females say anything positive about older men or men who are finically stable, he always calls them "prostitutes". Obviously wants to make up for his own inferiority complex.
And asker, you're just as brainless as this idiot. I guess that all men are superficial for wanting to find the best-looking woman they can get, right?
I've met so many chicks that dated older guys They are always such trouble Cause they pick up and learn stupid shit from older men This one girl is so messed up today cause of this 40 year old guy She literally doesn't know how to date men her age. She's messed up
I don't care much about looks whether you believe it or not. but MONEY MAKES PUSSi WET! It's an established FACT! Can't argue with facts.
@TripleAce Don't suppose you might be part of the problem? Messed up in who's opinion?
With some YES, but more would say NO!
@katiesmuff there is always a sense of normality Policy makers don't need others to confirm what is a good standard or not We are intelligent enough to figure that out ourselves However to someone who is oblivious. It won't sound right to them
@katiesmuff the problem with young minds like 22 and below They can sometimes pick up things from that older guy. Which isn't good A person needs time to be who they are suppose to be. Maturity doesnmt give you that. Clocking in the years gives you that
@TripleAce "Maturity doesnmt give you that. Clocking in the years gives you that" Please tell me that you're either high or drunk as hell. Being older means nothing if you're an adult who acts like a child (acting immaturely). Maturity comes from experiences. Not "clocking age" as you put it. I've met guys who were older than you who still act like they're in middle school and live at home with their parents. A 22 year old can be just as mature as a 40 year old, even more so if the 40 year old has never experienced hardships in her life. I really wish this dude @olderandwiser could lecture you on this topic. You're just throwing a temper tantrum because most of the women you're interested in prefer older men over you, or you're experiencing a road rage if you're injecting yourself with steroids. Women want older men because they are mature. Maybe you would successfully attract women your own age if you mentally grew up rather than say nonsense on the internet all day long.
A 40 year old can act like a kid but for the most part they are still 40 and have passed through 20's and 30's They know something you donmt know And the gap is simply too much cause you haven't figured out who you really are yet He, the 40 year old, mostly likely knows who he is whether that is a kid or not See the difference. Its not about maturity lol you're confusing the two and you woudn't even go for men that aren't stable and solid. So that argument doesn't apply to you To you, a young 22 year old wants to fiddle with a man way beyond her what her mind, body and soul is ready for I don't let your kids do that though. Cause tbag's messed up lol. You do it ok. But don't let them do it lol And when you have kids with a 40 year old man He's 80 and dead while you're 60 and alive. Ok there lol
@TripleAce A 40 year old doesn't stop learning or "figuring himself out" just because he's 40. Just look at Caitlyn Jenner who discovered that she was a transgender at the age of 60 something. Or older women who change careers later on in life. Plus even if that's the case, what exactly is wrong with not having figured yourself out? An older man can certainly be a better guide than a 22 year old who wants to play video games all day long. Age means nothing if you haven't matured. And as we all know, maturity comes from experience. Not age. An immature 36 year old like Kim Kardashian who knows nothing other than having things handed to her will never have the same mentality as a 19 year old who has experienced poverty, perhaps even sexual or emotional abuse. See the difference?
"Plus even if that's the case, what exactly is wrong with not having figured yourself out? An older man can certainly be a better guide than a 22 year old" --> You have parents for that, you don't need a old fart to show you the way lol... walk the undiscovered and enjoy the ride "Age means nothing if you haven't matured. And as we all know, maturity comes from experience. Not age." --> This whole time I'm not even talking about maturity. Im talking about having an older soul A 81 year old women could be kiddy af... but her soul is still old... you have a certain awareness that you don't get with only seeing the world for 30 years for example vs 80 but hey your choice... obviously it's easy for you cause it takes no effort to get him... but if you like that sure Im sure there is a 22 year old guy out there just as determined and ambitious to get life started that doesn't play video games... there is actually many like that
@TripleAce "You have parents for that, you don't need a old fart to show you the way lol... walk the undiscovered and enjoy the ride" Guidance can come from pastors, school teachers, counselors, co-workers, and better yet, a romantic partner whom you want to call "an old fart". "This whole time I'm not even talking about maturity. Im talking about having an older soul A 81 year old women could be kiddy af... but her soul is still old... you have a certain awareness that you don't get with only seeing the world for 30 years for example vs 80" I have more things in common with older men more than guys my age. I'm interested in politics, religion, old school music, travel, etc... "but hey your choice... obviously it's easy for you cause it takes no effort to get him... but if you like that sure" Getting an older guy to take you seriously is pretty damn difficult just like getting a younger guy to take you seriously would be. It has nothing to do with age.