Why won't a guy let me finish him?

I feel dumb to ask but why wouldn't a guy let you finish him?
It was my second oral on him but after 10 minutes he stopped me.

This is the second time it happened
Can i be that bad at it?
Would a guy do this for some reason?
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  • Did anything follow after he stopped you? If he moved you onto the bed and sex was to follow after, it's cause he wants to last longer and found the bj as part of foreplay.

    If you were looking to finish him off but took a long amount of time, there's multiple reasons as why he may have stopped you. Maybe he wasn't feeling it anymore, maybe he began to feel bad if he was causing a stiff neck...

    Honestly, don't feel dumb to ask. If you're adult enough to engage in sex, you can be adult enough to have a conversation about it if you care to please and satisfy one another.

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  • Honestly you'd have to ask them to know why. But what happened after they stopped you? Did you just move to intercourse or something? Because if that's the case, don't take this personally. Every guy is different, but for me, a bj is more foreplay. Sure give me one, but you're not likely to have me finish that way. Nothing to do with you, I just need more than that usually (ie intercourse).

  • Maybe he didn't want to cum in your mouth or on your face have you talked about it I new a girl who wanted and need a big Dick all over her face and in her mouth she craved it and then she wanted a full load in her mouth on her face or breast and or all 3 at the same time is that what your looking for if so tell him,, for me I like oral and I don't because I want to make her cum to

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  • I think that is his personal choice. May be he is someone who only likes to be emptied in vaginas.

    If you ask me, I can go with anything. I can finish anywhere provided it is a girl. It doesn't matter then if it is face, tits, stomach or vaginal.

    The feeling of releasing for a girl in itself is awesome!

  • Ask him for the correct answer. We all here can only make a wild guess

  • honestly you're probably bad at it, I don't like/finish from bjs either so I get it

  • i believe it's because it's taking too long for him..
    10 minutes for BJ alone is quite long for me too..

  • I would if I feel guilty about something. Are you having sex without marriage?

  • Sounds like he's not enjoying it. Did he do this the first time too?

  • Its likely that he didn't or wasn't enjoying it. The only way to find out is to ask him.

  • I do this too
    I stop the girl not because she is bad at it but because I have a hard time "finishing".
    When it comes down to it, I can run the race all night long but I'll never cross the finish line so at some point I get embarrassed or tired of trying and say stop.

  • He likely didn't enjoy it too much.

  • Getting head feels so good. I tell my girlfriend to stop so I don’t cum so fast in her mouth. Like it’s better to just enjoy it and have it last longer.


    If your boyfriend is saying slowdown it may just feel to good for him. If you think there’s something wrong other than that just ask him what you could do better or something.

  • Maybe he has something wrong with him personally I love anytime I can finish via oral. It just feels amazing and watching her swallow it is so hot.

  • Next time he should just put your head against the wall and facefuck you forcing you to swallow,

    • Why?

    • Why not?