Why won’t girlfriend touch my penis?

[TuMama]

I’m super easy to turn on. Touch my nipple for a few seconds. Play with my dick for a minute. Kids my neck for 30 seconds. And my dick is clean, looks good, extremely well groomed.

But my girlfriend just won’t do this. And I do all kinds of stuff for her.

And she has not once ever touched my dick except the time I put her hand on it and after a minute I got turned on and we had good sex.

But all she does is rub her fingers over my chest for 30 minutes as I wait for her to finally touch my dick. Then I give up and just have sex, feeling dissatisfied.

Well the last 3 nights I just fell asleep while she played with my chest hair. I’m going to stop having until she figure out that it’s really easy to turn me on. And she’s all concerned now because we haven’t had sex for 3 days.

I mean how clueless or selfish do you have to be to not figure this out?

[HeyMikie]

Communication is the key. Talk to her about it. Tell her what you like. She may have what she thinks is a very good reason for not wanting to touch your penis. It could be something from her past or her upbringing. Let her feel safe in telling you and don't ridicule her. I once had a girlfriend who had been molested as a child. She would not touch my penis and I had to be rock hard in order to have sex with her or she would start crying. Be compassionate and don't push her. Good luck!

[Dargil]

While sexual intimacy isn't the only measure of a good relationship' it is like one leg of the chair. This will never be satisfactory resolved and her lack of empathy will show in other things as well. "She won't play with my cock" may seem shallow but its not.

[Carley99]

Be more dominant maybe she wants to be told to do so.

[spartan55]

You need to talk to her about it dude, today.

[oftheHowl]

Hmm how do I fix this simple problem where I expect her to read my mind? Oh I don't know, maybe TELL HER

[RedPilledAlphaMale]

Be more dominant. Let her know she's not pleasing you through your actions by being more distant temporarily, she should develop a craving.

[jurgenmeister]

Some girls feel like by doing that you’ll they’re sluts, is she very conservative?

[saurabh4508]

Kindly give comfort zone to ur girlfriend

[Imperius]

Dude, maybe try actually *telling* her what you want, and if she has issues with it, compromise

[Anonymous]

Good to see that she knows what she wants and doesn't want. be proud of her.

[Anonymous]

dump her!