Why won't he cum in my mouth?

Question

My boyfriend really enjoys when I give him head and I can tell he enjoys when I give him but he never cums in mouth. He says I always do I really good job and it's not my fault because he's never just came from a blowjob. BUT the other day he said he was so close to cumming in my mouth but he didn't. So what can I do that will for sure make him cum in my mouth?

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

So he's not cumming in your mouth, or having issues with cumming at all

If he's got difficulties with cumming at all, could be due to stress, nervousness, or worst case scenario some ED. If it's the latter, that would be a doctor's job to look at and treat. If it's the former, give him some time to get used to you, your technique, and just get overall more at ease.

If he's just failing to cum in your mouth, tell him! Communication is key. I know when I first got with my boyfriend, it took months for him to get comfortable with that as a result of his ex having been crazy. I had to tell him and show him several times to prove that I'm 100% cool with it, so you could give that a try too.

tinyclit · Accepted Answer

Sex is very mental. Talk "dirty" to him. Beg for cum. Tell him that you want him to cum into your mouth so that you can enjoy swallowing it. Tilt your head back, open your mouth wide, have him stroke his cock and cum into your wide open mouth. Then swallow his cum and suck and lick his cock squeaky clean. It's fun, enjoyable and satisfying. Then mentally reinforce things for next time by telling him his cum was delicious and that you thoroughly enjoyed swallowing it. :)

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

He is probably playing some head games with himself while you are giving him your best efforts; maybe it's a previous experience, some weird guilt trip, some notion of that's a dirty thing to do to you. The best way around that is to distract him with something else while you are licking his lizard. Here's a suggestion you should love. Next time, suggest that he give you a damn fine licking while you are doing the same thing to him: 69. If he is preoccupied with tickling Miss Kitty, maybe he won't think about whatever it is and his body will take over and cum. If it doesn't work. . . at least you'll get something out of it and you can always finish him with a hand job.

DJ4856 · Accepted Answer

That's a tough one.. I rarely cum from just oral alone unless it's some bomb ass shit lol like a woman with out a gag reflex type deal.. I would suggest you do what he likes, while giving him oral tell him to give you a sign when you do something he really likes. Like a simple tap or grip your hair etc. I prefer for women to stay away from my tip lol makes me squirm like a little punk out of sensitivity Haha good luck though. Once you find the things he likes combine them so how!

Secondly, you can always just ride him until the point then hop off and suck him off the rest of the way.

summiter · Answer

Tell him to communicate with you when you go down on him. You need to know what feels best for him and he should tell you. Get him real close with a handjob first then when he is about there, finish him off with your mouth.

Are you two having sex yet? I hope he returns the favor to you... you deserve some great orgasms also.

pepperhicks · Answer

If guys get used to masturbating for some time, for example, in between having a sex partner, it can be difficult to cum with a partner. Give him a little time and plenty of opportunities. Ideally he will stop masturbating himself if he is still doing so.

SpurtLover · Answer

I think just telling him that it will turn you on a lot to eat his sperm will send him over the edge. Just let him know you are really excited about eating his cum.

zorro8888 · Answer

More importantly, why do you want it in your mouth so much?  Maybe he had a bad experience with an ex and doesn't know that you'd like it?

tzdc21 · Answer

Maybe he just can't cum from BJ's. It might not be anything to dk with you at all. Maybe that's just how he's wired.

Useral · Answer

Some guys just can't cum a bj alone but id say just keep doing what you're doing just dont stop till he cums. LLick his head, the underside of his head.