Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Why won't he go down on me?
Anonymous
So I've been with my man for almost a year. I'm 22 and he's about to be 30. We have discussed this topic several times, typically it turns into me getting upset and feeling insecure, I'm a girl, those things happend and then he "understands" and will say "tonight or tomorrow". Well aparently those days dont come. I'm always willing to take it even when I'm not in the mood and give hime head everytime we have sex - thats my foreplay. I've tried all of the basics : - "I had this thought while in the shower of you going down on me and me cuming so hard, it was wonderful. You shoudl make my thoughts a realtiy" - "babe when i get home, all i want is for you to just wrap your arms around my waist and make me cum" - "I know something sweet you can eat" - "my turn?" - "kiss me lower" I'm sure you get the picture. Anyway - to be honest he hardly give any effort into getting me wet. He just expects me to be ready for him whenever he wants it. I'm really trying here. I dont know that this is a deal breaker but it might be. I want someone to want to please me - just me, for once. Any suggestions here would be wondrful. Maybe a way to really talk with him about it would be best.
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7 28Lmaoo you guys make everything about equality, tried 69 yet OP?
i think in OP's case, it's last resort about equality since she put up with the sexual frustration for so long. most people feel it when they're giving more than they're getting, doesn't have to be just about sex. kinda feel used.
tell him if he doesn't do it than he isn't getting any head
You've tried everything I would suggest! Maybe he's just the kind of guy that doesn't like to lick pussy!!!
You gotta shave that bush first
Funny !
If its a girl I like ill do it to her. my opinion
For me to lick a girls clit flicker my tounge n go down... its foreplay... just like suck my dick get it wet before we fuck... fuck lube but honestly there is certain women very few I could go down on. Yeqh depends on smell hygiene all that mainly for me its if they carry themselves like a lady there persona n there look etc.
Maybe he just don't like doing that.
Some guys just don't want to eat pussy. He at least SHOULD be doing something to help with foreplay. Get him to agree on something or withhold sex. If he cares, he'll try something otherwise he doesn't give a shit and it's best you break it off with him.
It's simple he doesn't want to go down on you and even though you give him oral it is your choice to do that if he specifically asked you for oral this is when you should refrain from it, reciprocation is every thing in sex.
I can get you wet online!