Is he a virgin too?
His dick is almost certainly bigger than 2 fingers, and you could try 3 (not flat like a paddle, more squished up together like a prism) to ease from 2 to 3 ...
But it seems quite odd that if 2 fit fairly easily, a penis can't get in at all.
I feel like he's not aiming his dick properly. But i mean what's happening when you say it 'won't go in'. Where are you feeling pressure, what's exactly happening?
Ignore mr. razor cut, focusing on that is sure as hell not going to help. I've taken precisely one girl's virginity. Yes, it hurt her, but she also began having a huge orgasm almost right away. Focus on the good part.
no he's not a virgin, yeah the razor cut thing kinda scared me lol but thanks i'll try the prism thing. And meant that like I was tight I guess, I didn't feel anything but he couldn't get it in I don't know why
I mean … you should feel him trying to get in, otherwise I feel he's not pushing hard enough in the right location.
yeah maybe he needs to try harder lol
Forst, let's assume you're not suffering from Vaginismus. Consult a gyno if you think there is a need.
Next, condition your mind to be ready for pain "like a razor cut" and blood. (It doesn't mean you will, just be mentally prepared).
Finally, talk to your boyfriend and try one more time. This time assume Missionary Position, make sure you're wet after foreplay and use a lot of lube.
Then during penetration, he push it in with one go, with the full objective to penetrate you fully.
Give it a go girl, be brave. 😝😝😝
a razor cut pain? oh god yeah i changed my mind about losing my virginity lol
LOL! That's what my girlfriend told me after we lose our virginity to each other. But hey, after that we literally has sex 2 to 3 times DAILY for the next 6 months... I think she liked it after all 😄😄😄
oh god lol well that's good if she likes it now
It will eventually he just needs to make sure your pretty wet and it should go right inside.
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How'd you get it in?
we were just in a more comfortable place and he fingered my first til i was very wet and we also used a lubricated condom so it just went it and didn't hurt
That's generally the key: very hot and wet with lube. He can even use two of three fingers if needed.
Not going in? Is it blocked up in some way?
i don't think so? maybe im too tight
Maybe he doesn't know exactly what hole to go in? Cos there are 3
haha i dont think that's what it is, it went in a little last time but we couldn't put all of it in
Have you tried sitting on top of him as he lays on his back, then you hold onto his dick with one hand and guide it in as you put your weight down on it. Use plenty of lube and the power of gravity.
It took me like a dozen tries to lose my virginity proper, coz I couldn't get the right angle or position for "entry", and by the time I got it, I was so distracted by the whole ordeal I couldn't stay hard. Not to mention the condoms, I still to this day have a "difficult" relationship with condoms lol. So what I'm saying is, if he's new to sex then it's normal to have a period of "figuring it out". Once you both get it, it'll click and become as natural as breathing.
Lots of foreplay
@Asker Well done! I'm proud of you.
thank you!
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