Why won’t my husband make me cum?

We’ve been together for almost 9 years and married for 4, so he knows how to make me cum. Unfortunately though, for the past 6 months I have not cum once, and he knows. After sex he always apologizes and tells me how bad he feels, but doesn’t do anything to change it (and doesn’t finish me off in different ways either). I tell him to slow down or even stop for a minute if he needs to, but that never happens. I brought it up today because he’s been asking why I haven’t wanted to have sex recently. I explained myself very calmly, being careful with my words. He just got mad and now won’t talk to me. I’m at a loss. I’m really, really sad. Too embarrassed to talk to my friends about it. Not to be dramatic but I shed quiet tears after we have sex now because I feel so empty afterwards. I’ve run out of ideas. Please help? Love, confused wifey
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  • At this point I think that you need the help of a marriage counselor. As it seems that your husband has lost respect for you and doesn't love you as much as he should.

  • Don't do ultimatums. Sit down with him and talk about how you feel when he makes you end and that you would love to feel that again, because it makes you feelore connected. Also tell him "make me cum" when you are at it. It would be a turn on for me honestly, and I would do it.
    Has he got some problems? Does he have premature ejaculation? Is he embarrassed about ending first? Sometimes men feel less masculine when that happens.

  • Do you take ANY responsibility for your own orgasm?

    • Sir that is all we do after you guys roll over after 6 minutes of sex..."dO yOu TakE anY rEsponsIbiLity" 😂😂😂😂😭

    • @Alpha09 Have you considered becoming a lesbian? Certainly they would not be so callous as to roll over before you have orgasmed

    • Many many times, unfortunately I'm still attracted to men🤷

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  • He is busy making other women cum.