Why would a boyfriend want to purposely get me pregnant, why did he do that?

After I had a miscarriage (I found out I have endometriosis, makes it difficult to carry a pregnancy), my ex boyfriend's attitude started changing. He became distant and we would argue more. He seemed to be more upset at the loss than me.

It was an accidental pregnancy I never wanted anyway. Though we had protected sex so I kept wondering what happened. We got drunk 4 days ago and during an argument, he admitted to poking holes on the condoms, all of them.

Why would a boyfriend do that? I actually felt chills when he told me that. I'm still trying to process it all. Why he do that?

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He's been asking for forgiveness but I'm not sure if I can forgive that.
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  • Red flag alert!

    He's trying to trap you. Some boys think that if you get a woman pregnant, you're basically stuck with him... even if you no longer want or love him. Basically a baby means you have a higher chance of staying with him because he's the father.

    Now you know if he did that once, he's going to try again. GET OUT. I hope you're not stupid enough to stay with a guy that admitted he tried to get you pregnant, especially when you told him you don't want a kid.

    • Thank you for the reply. I really throught we had a good relationship for 5 years. Now I feel as if I've been sleeping with the enemy. I'm in total disbelief.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Never forgive that! Run and block him!

    He probably has a kink for it! My friend had an ex who did this thankfully she was infertile and after 3 years she told him and he left instantly!

    Even if it was a lie then it was to much for him to say especially during an argument to hurt you!

    • Thank goodness your friend got saved from that bastard. I can't believe I thought I knew him after 5 years being together. I wish it was a lie but after we got sober, he still admitted it was really true what he said. I'm still creeped out.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It could be most definitely egoism and to keep you trapped while he disappears in from the scenes. This is why you find tons of young mothers 😐

    • Honestly I'm not sure I can ever forgive him for that. He knew I didn't want kids. I've made that clear from that kid. I think I would've likely given the kid up for adoption. There are safe haven sites (police station, hospital, churches or fire stations) to drop off a baby.

    • **I've made that clear from the start.

  • That's a deception that should never be forgiven. Obviously, he wanted a baby. Not sure why he just didn't say that to you.

    • He did and I told I didn't want kids so he did that deception. He really throught I would change my mind with a baby. He just couldn't take no for an answer. That really creeps me out.

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  • He is a freak and an ass. Dump him asap.

  • He wanted to have a baby without your consent. He was only thinking about himself. Basically he did that out of selfishness.