Girls, Why would a girl presume something is wrong with me because I reject sex with her despite that she is so sexy?

[Anonymous]

[btbc92]

Simple. Because she slept with guys who forced her to believe or she was imposed with the belief that if a man isn't having sex with you he's not interested in you. That's how these girls end up hurt, and it wouldn't end up with the wrong kind of men, they want to blame Someone Like You who's trying to show her different as if you're the problem. The truth is she don't love herself and you just need to be flat out on speaker. If she's that kind of woman that likes to mess around with guys because they want to hop in her panties all the time she needs to find that guy and leave you alone so you can find a woman that you can actually love and respect. Have nothing to do with how she looks. Have nothing to do about what she got going on, you need to ask her what's her intention is. Either she's looking for something real or she's looking to get using abuse. You just need to tell her that. And not waste your time. That way she can go where she can go and you can go where you have to go.

[btbc92]

Women especially, as well as men need to learn to have a lot of respect for themselves. They don't sexually respect themselves anymore. Is not necessarily entirely on their fault, but when people being taught that premarital sex is okay you can just do whatever it is that you want there's no consequence, this is exactly what happens. Because now you've been treated as if your dog, and you're making it very clear from this question loan that may not be your intention my house. Is very clear you got a little bit more self-control than a lot of people. So this is where I can say I got a bit more respect for guys like you. Cuz at least you know to have a conscious choice of what is and isn't right to do. So no. You're not the one that's at fault. It is now on her. If she thinks you're gay, asexual, or whatever, you let her know that whole words have nothing to do with you, it has to do with her insecurities because she thinks that sex is going to get her a man or going to get her love of whatever she thinks in her brain is going to get her. If you was there for sex, she wouldn't even need to ask question. But God forbid if you pumped and dumped her, then she can't get mad either, because she is the one that made that decision. Now I cannot speak for you because I don't know what your intentions are in this relationship. But regarding this question, you don't let anybody disrespect you that way sexually.

[btbc92]

If she presumes that, then the best thing you can do is assume in a sense of exactly what I just told you. That she had dealt with guys at either she slept with, or emotionally abused in some way, to make her think that this is normal male behavior. When it's not. You are you. You are your own person. You can make your own choices. And at the end of the day, if you are as a man is not interested in having sex or don't want for whatever reason, those are your personal choices. You got the same amount of freedom and free will as we as women do. Either she respects it or she can find another man that can do what she thinks a man is going to do. Not disrespect you.

[Asker]

Wow that is very detailed but i can't put it up all together.. i think i need to tell you more about the situation..

[btbc92]

It doesn't really matter what the situation is. The question is what kind of woman do you really want in your life? Do you want somebody who just going to throw themselves at you so they can get something out of you and God forbid leave me for somebody else because you're not giving them what they want? Or do you really want a loving and respectful relationship? You should not have that kind of woman that's doing what she's doing in your life because at the end of the day she only give a damn about herself. She's not looking for love because she don't expect it. A woman that respects herself would not throw herself at you nor ask you such a question and then make you feel like you're not a real man. You are free to make your own decisions. She cannot make you do anything that you yourself do not want to do. Don't let somebody like that destroy your perception of what a woman is and isn't. I know for a fact for myself, I believe in waiting till marriage to have sex, and that person would know automatically. That man is trying to manipulate me into sexual sin, that guy has to go. So rethink being involved with this person.

[Asker]

I need to talk in pm with you.. Can i?

[MissyJ9876]

Because guys take whenever they get. But why did you reject?

[Asker]

Yes guys do.. but i don't like the idea of being seduced.. She is hella sexy but i can be strong whatever she does to seduce me..

[MissyJ9876]

Ohhky, but She's not gonna wait around for you. You might have missed your chance

[Asker]

I don't want sex with her or any thing with her ever ! A woman who would wanna force sex on me by seducing me is really pure garbage to me..

[MissyJ9876]

Seems like you scared / insecure about something

[Asker]

Like what?

[Asker]

And here you are presuming the same ! Something is wrong with me 😀

[MissyJ9876]

It's just weird. But anyway you know your reasons

[Asker]

Whyyy weird? If you are a pretty and a sexy girl , why would you think any guy can't say no to you otherwise something would be wrong with him?

[MissyJ9876]

How did she try and seduce you?

[Asker]

Lol , do you want details on that?

[MissyJ9876]

Yes say it

[Asker]

Ahh why? I prefere not to.. Details doesn't matter

[MissyJ9876]

Ohky then.

[Asker]

Fine i can tell you in pm.. ok?

[lucyloo76]

Because its just not normal turning down a sexy woman...

[Asker]

But it is normal from a girl to turn down a sexy man?

[Sherri4321]

If she was sooo sexy what did she do for you to reject her

[Asker]

Trying to seduce me ?