What is pleasurable about being forced to do something that you don't want to?
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ChrisMaster69Master
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Because real life is not like a romance novel.
people have fantasies, kinks and fetishes of all different types.
a girl that is disgusted with anal sex may have a mate that loves it.
we are all individual fantasies and things that give us a hit
for most, these are mildl, for some these live in the dark reaches of our minds.
for some, they like tempting the dark and get a big hit from playing with the dark.
our sex triggers for pleasure, pain and fear are very very close and produce similar chemical triggers.
A simple kink could be having hot wax dropped on your boobs, the chemical release is very similar to the pleasure circuit.
humans are strange individuals with often completely different likes and dislikes
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Anonymous
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The psychology behind a rape fantasy is that you have no agency, therefore no responsibility for what is happening, but you can have the experience in your mind without the guilt or shame. You can imagine what you want without being “slutty”.
There was a really excellent female-authored my take on it from years ago. I think it explains it really well.
I dunno. A lot of it may stem from psychological trauma but some people just like it
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Anonymous
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A fantasy is just a fantasy. Having a rape fantasy does not mean you wanna be rape.
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username118
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A fantasy is not just a fantasy 😂. Sexual fantasies reveal your desires. So yes, it actually means that they do want to get raped.
Opinion Owner
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You're completely wrong. A fantasy is not always a desire. Many things I fantasize about i will never do in real life. .
Steinkopf
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I can relate that it's just a fantasy.
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123lucy
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@username118 No it doesn't, I have plenty of fantasies I wouldn't want to do in real life, at least not with someone I really trust after knowing them for a long time. And even then, it's acting it not actually having it happen for real.
It has nothing to do with that you said it right , it's fantasies there are tones of girls that love this FANTASY , and nothing more its a kink ,, a Fantasy tjats it and they will be the first to tell you they would fuck someone up if they tried it with them , I like i always say in order to understand it you have to experience it , the FANTASY , NOT THE REAL
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InexpensivefurnitureYoda
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Most of the time when I hear people talk about having a rape fantasy, why they really have is a rough sex fantasy.
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Sam_The_SavageYoda
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Bkoz they like rough sex
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username118
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I like rough sex too but I don't have rape fantasies
Sam_The_Savage
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Rape = rough sex. You just don't like the name rape.
username118
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No, rough sex does not mean rape.
Wise4myageMaster
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I often wonder that myself, and I think sexual abuse might be one of the reasons why this happens. Or, its just something that they discovered through relationships and it really turns them on.
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UnbeatableXper 5
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rape is associated with dominance, just like height and cock size. I know im a rapist. That doesn't mean im a criminal, but i would *tastefully* rape my girlfriend without asking her
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username118
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Rape means sex without consent, which means that it is forced.
Unbeatable
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We'd never have boring sex, cause id leave the chance of pregnancy open. Get that adrenaline flowing.
MrTabooYoda
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They like it ruff. I've hooked up with a few that wanted to be raped. But is it rape when you want it?
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JKhehraXper 1
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A girl can have rape fantasies because she may want to have sex in forced way like as if someone else is dominating her. It is not as if she actually wants to be raped. She may be want to get fucked according to someone else's fantasies.
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Anonymous
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MANY women have rape fantasies. From what I’ve gathered, it’s the thought of being desired so much that the guy will not take no for answer and wants it so bad he will force her.
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Anonymous
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She has a lot of insecurities and is really turned on by the idea of someone wanting her THAT badly
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Anonymous
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Sexual fantasy is a powerful thing because the mind is the most important sex organ. Women don't want to actually get raped, but the want to fantasize about it in their minds, and some like to actually act it out with a trusted mate. I know this because I've had two girlfriends who had rape fantasies that were important enough to them that they wanted to act them out. They were never wetter than during those sessions.
So why do women have rape fantasies? Because women are naturally submissive and want to be "taken" by a strong, dominant man who will have his way with her. But most women don't feel geed about themselves if they are submissive to their man in every day life, so the bedroom is the only place where they can indulge their true nature and feel OK about it.
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username118
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Not all women are submissive and not all men are dominant
Opinion Owner
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True, there are exceptions to every rule. But a majority of women have rape fantasies, and an even larger majority are submissive by nature relative to men,
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