Why would a guy act differently once he finds out im a virgin?

[Anonymous]

Seriously
Its the third time it happened.
As soon as they figure it out everything changes.
Like why?
I just dont get it. Its like a chore for them...

[NamerOfStars]

They were probably interested you in. Maybe they still are, but for a lot of guys (and, I'd imagine, some women, too), a partner being a virgin is a negative. If you've never done it before, you don't know what you're doing, and sexual skills are learned like any other. It's kind of like applying for a job when you have no experience- except that having too much experience is also often seen as a negative.

[nawtee_me]

if a guy wants sex and he finds out the girl he is with is a virgin then that cuts his chances of getting some way down... Just saying... For me, I would say stay a virgin and don't worry about those guys because they aren't worth your time. The right guy will come along and he will want you for who you are, virgin and all...

[DeAngelized]

If he's a very experienced guy who is not into virgin girls, he probably already categorized all virgin girls into the "just a dead log during sex" box.

[Asker]

He is... its weird.. we still go out a lot... but like almost just as friends.

[DeAngelized]

Then I guess he just wants to be friends. This guy is into experienced and adventurous women. If you're looking for a meaningful relationship, move on. But there's a veeeerrryyyyyy slim chance that perhaps he's taken a liking to you and would want to start it off slow for your sake. It's best to ask him and clear it up.

[Gwenhwyfar]

A lot of guys lose interest cause they think you’re not down for anything sexual

[samiammm]

I'd rather take it as a positive thing.

[Nuespeed]

A chore? Hell id prefer a virgin if at all possible but I try not to let it bother me either way

[Mikelaughs]

That sounds so strange!
Have you asked him why?

[Dargil]

How does their behavior change?

[Asker]

Like he slows way down and hardly does anything

[Dargil]

Perhaps you should be vague about virginity. If it comes up in conversation, just tell him you haven't been out that much and are kind of an amateur... but would like to learn. That, sweet Anonymous, would be a green light and a huge turn-on! We LOVE to teach!!

[Asker]

Not to be too tmi... but i gave him oral... and he texts me randomly during a non related conversation and streight out says your a virgin arnt you.. Like i must have been that bad

[Dargil]

Lets not do "bad". Inexperienced, sure. But for your part, be eager and uninhibited. OK. I'm not a troll or creep. I can give you some boilerplate on giving skilled oral that is guaranteed to please. I will agree that "BJ acumen" IS an indicator of sorts. While you are at it, ask for oral and be prepared for it.

[magiusX26]

some guys just do not like taking viginity

[AmeerX]

Different how?

[Asker]

Went from going good to friends only almost instantly

[AmeerX]

Is that bad?

[Asker]

Yeah... its the third time it happened... like why is it so darn bad

[AmeerX]

It is not bad. Shouldn't you be happy they don't treat you like a object

[Asker]

Yeah im so happy we went from dating to friends... thrilled...

[AmeerX]

You seem sarcastic. But I think you might need to find a virgin for what you want to do

[Ianto]

When a guy meets a girl he is hoping for sex.
Virginity suggests you don't provide sex.
Guys find that disappointing.

[3five0nine]

I like virgin girls!! By the way I am a virgin too😅😅

[EyesOfGod]

Inexperience really turns some guys off. Others would be thrilled to be the first.

[COMMODOREII]

A chore? How so? 😕

[GreenGold1992]

I guess most morons expect all girls to have experience. Don't feel bad, you can do better than them anyway.

[Smf1989]

I would not act any different

[J1mm1ny]

He probably want to take your virginity from you

[Anonymous]

Because it’s not a good experience for you the first time and they sometimes don’t have the patience or want to deal with it.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't care I don't ever want to have sex.