Why would a guy at age 34 still be a virgin and what did he mean when he told me nobody made him feel so good before?

There’s a guy that I know who is 34 years old and is still a virgin but he did get hard when we were making out and he said that nobody has ever made him feel this way before...
why is he still a virgin? What did he mean when he told me nobody made him feel that way before? Does he have feelings for me?
Waiting for the right person/ doesn’t wanna get stuck with wrong person
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Mental issues- slow / disability
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A bit of both
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  • (Saw his pictures you posted).

    He looks nerdy and sporty. Not exactly a "girls guy".

    I wonder if he being a virgin is because he couldn't get girls to sleep with him, or he's too chicken to ask for sex.

    Or worse, too afraid to have sex. Not gay, just a guy who has a sex drive, but too awkward to think about doing it even when opportunities arise.

    And if he merely says you made him feel good, but when you tell him to get into the bedroom, he refuses, what say you?

    If you care to, try it. The next time he flirts, tell him "I'm ready" and see how he responds. Could be fun to observe this character.

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  • Which country do you guys live in? I'm also still virgin. Because I am not settled financially plus I live in a country where you can't just openly have relationships. In our religion and culture, premarital sex is considered a big sin and if you ever get caught doing this, your whole life can be really messed up.

    People who lack privacy, because they have to live with their parents and siblings to look after them, to provide for them and stay busy at work, hardly get time for themselves. Plus girls don't come easily towards them. Girls in such countries also want someone who first can get married to them which isn't easily possible.

    So it all depends on which country you're living in and which class do you belong to money wise.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I can't tell if he has feelings for you but I definitely have a feeling that he's lying on both of those, and that he probably lies a lot a lot of the time.
    If you have to ask here why he's still a virgin, I have to wonder why he hasn't offered some kind of explanation for that already.
    Sorry but he just sounds fake. Be very careful.

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  • There are several possible reasons:

    1) socially awkward, too shy to make advances to anyone
    2) asexuality
    3) same-sex attraction, but afraid to act on it
    4) health or personality problems that make him unattractive


  • I think he lying he hoping you believe him to suck his cock
    and fuck him you feel sorry for him

  • Usually if a guy is a virgin at that age it means he's either insecure or isn't confident on the dating scene

  • Well, I think I am a right person to answer your question because I am 34 and am still virgin. The reason is he hadn't met the right person before. He feels emotional connection with you. He wants to be with to be with you but he is either not sure of his feelings or he doesn't know how to communicate to you.

  • What you want actually

    • Meaning this guy would stay with me if we ever got into anything serious?

    • Not sure

  • I think he meant that you made him so good , probably never been kissed before

  • I wanted my wife to be my first experience... first kiss, love, fist one to see me naked, etc. life got complicated, I stopped trying to be in a relationship. Here I am , going to be 32 and still a virgin.

    • Why did you stop trying to be in a relationship? Did ladies keep rejecting you? Or did you have your mind on someone in particular?

    • I am not financially stable, I didn't try to have a relationship cuz of it.

    • Is that the main reason why most guys aren’t in a hurry to get into relationships?

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