He is 30…quite good looking…tall…stylish
I was really surprised when we had sex that he could barely handle a BJ and told me to slow down or he will bust (maybe 20 seconds in) and when I climbed on top he said the same thing to slow down, etc as we were having sex. The sex maybe lasted 2-3 mins
I want to know what the main reasons are behind this performance and how can you make a guy feel more comfortable?
I'm no urologist, but this is what I understand about the male orgasm. The rate at which a guy cums is related to his sexual excitement levels. If he is too excited, he'll cum too quickly. If he's your boyfriend and he's man enough to accept some pre-mature ejaculation advice from his lady, you can help him in a fun a sexy way. The way I trained myself to last a long time was the following: Use a 10 point scale to evaluate your excitement level. 1 being no excitement and 10 being orgasm. As he is having sex with you, he should maintain a steady pace until till he gets to a 7, then he (or she if she's on top) has to slow down, until that number drops below 5, then he/she can start fucking again. With practice and a bit of concentration, he'll get to a point where he can fuck with speed and force for as long as he wants, or at least until you've been properly satisfied. It took me a couple of weeks of daily practice to get to a solid 15-20 minutes of pounding (if that is what you are into), and he has the physical stamina to last that long. Blowjobs are difficult during the training because he's not in control of the speed, depth and intensity, and the mouth will vary in intensity (mouth being more open or closed, lots of suction vs little suction, what the tongue is doing, etc.) and speed depending upon a lot of factors. With penetration, everything stays the same. He can take his time, get use to how good you feel and adjust according to his excitement levels. Once he is able to fuck long enough, then blowjobs shouldn't be a problem.
Several things -
1 - He possibly doesn’t masturbate or doesn’t do that often so his penis still has a great deal of sensitivity
2 - He may be a premature ejaculator - his penis is so sensitive that any or nearly any stimulation will make him ejaculate.
You might want to use several things - I don’t know if you are using condoms or not but if not - spray a desensitizing spray on his penis. If you are using condoms - spray desensitizing spray on his penis then put the condom on his penis. You both should be good to go 😉👍. Good luck!
It's common for some men to ejaculate quickly during sex, especially during sexual intercourse for the first time with a new partner. Other factors that may contribute to quick ejaculation include anxiety, stress, and excessive sexual arousal.
It's important to communicate with your partner and make sure they feel comfortable. Encourage them to slow down and take breaks, if necessary. Taking deep breaths, practicing mindfulness, and engaging in foreplay and other forms of intimacy can all help to make for a more enjoyable and satisfying experience for both parties.
Make him more comfy? Time letting him finish fast and be ok not freaking out!
Really those guys are so boring only good for face sitting and being good subbys to eventually let cum after I have had my queeny fill and pleasure!
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Did you enjoy the performance? Some of the reasons could include novelty and excitement
He came quick because he was comfortable. The faster a guy cums ( in general) the more turned on and relaxed he is.
Because, nice guys finish last.
if he enjoyed u so much & if he didn’t ejac for few days like 4-7 days off ejaculate i feel crazy to cum, maybe i, ll take like 30 second to cum🤣🤣
try to make him ejac and start foreplay after 2 hours if he use condom it may help too
inexperienced
His dick is really sensitive
lack of his controlling ability!
YOU MUST BE VERY ATTRACTIVE
TO HIM FIRST , TIME YOU TWO
FCKED , BUT STILL LESS THAN 5MINUTES
THATS NOT COOL
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i can make guys finish fast in bed
Because it's real life and not the porno videos you watch.
It was particularly different than any other hookups I’ve ever been with
He finds you so sexy that's he can't hold on
Sometimes I too bust off too easily , but I ask the girl to keep going cause it's bad to end the session when both have not climaxed
Are you OK if he cums but you can keep going till you can too?
Sounds like he needs to learn how to edge himself.
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