Guys, Why would a guy have casual sex with me and then ignore me? How can I convince him to do it again?

I only want casual sex from him, no relationship and I have told him that. He told me he doesn’t want a relationship either. We had sex once. I tried contacting him afterwards but he’s ignoring me. How can I convince him to do it again?

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  • I mean a few reasons I could think of are he regrets it and wasn’t really into , wanted an emotional connection….. and might not necessarily be cognizant of that.

    Or he could be seeing someone else or his ex came back.

    or maybe he’s like one of those mythical “1% men.” That can go anywhere, and have such good rizz that they can go to a new environment with absolutely 0 social proof and bang a girl that night. . . (Right, lmfao…..)

    he might just be the type to already have a girl or two he’s fucking and wanted to try you out, but got tired of it and went back to his usual.

    Either way : If he won’t talk to you now, it’s pointless to try and chase. Let the guy go and find your dick elsewhere.

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  • You can’t really convince him , if you have to convince someone to have sex with you , then you are just wasting your time , If he wanted to have sex with you again? Trust me he would of already been knocking on your door , Most us men love sex , it’s just how we are made , sex is more important to us then it is to most girls’ when we meet a girl that makes us melt we don’t hesitate on trying to get her back in bed , so if he is hesitating to climb back into bed with you again then either he didn’t enjoy having sex with you or he is getting it elsewhere , he is probably interested or already having sex with another girl, So it’s up to you if you want to be his convenience or not, he is clearly going to use you if he does eventually come back around

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  • He's ignoring you because he is afraid you are going to want a relationship, or text everyday, or some other relationship-ey crap. You not wanting those things (assuming you are being honest) makes you a VERY rare outlier.

  • It could be that he regrets it….
    Not necessarily because of you,
    though (although it could be, I don’t know).
    Like maybe he wants to wait for someone he loves but let horny-ness get the best of him.

  • Maybe he has other options or he wasn't into it

  • He most likely is a guy who likes to have sex... once... and then find his next conquest. No commitment, just physical pleasure for himself.

  • That’s what happens when you give it up

    • But it was good sex, why wouldn’t he want it again?

    • Because they lose respect,

    • But I just want sex so why should he care if he respects me or not lol

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  • Maybe just ask I need some service only you can do.

  • I wouldn't ignore cause I'd want more sex with you

  • Because he was just out to use you.

    • But why only once and not a 2nd time?

    • I guess once was enough?

    • Lol I don’t get it. Surely he’s felt horny at least once since it happened? He prefers his hand?

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  • Are you THAT fucking desperate?