Why would a guy I dated say “it’s a good memory” about a sexual experience we had?

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I wasn’t initiating this conversation, he was... so my question is focused on guessing WHY he felt the need to say it when he could have just left it unsaid...
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  • Not knowing the guy, or his body language when he said it, the general feelings is that he liked the sex, but it wasn't anything special, and that you probably aren't particularly special to him either. That's a lot of guessing for what little information you gave.

    • Can you provide a reason for your thought... for example if you thought it were better what would’ve been the outcome instead?

    • Saying it's a good memory, is already putting the sex in the past, not cherishing it in the present. And saying it's a good memory, doesn't give much feeling of intensity or wanting to continue. Of course, however he feels, if you keep offering him sex, he will keep accepting, as long as no other girl gets in the way.

    • I see. I’m not offering sex, he’s trying to flirt. It is in the past, he’s got back in touch and initiates often.

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  • I think he became lost in thought while reminiscing about all the fun both of you had together. He probably even said it without really thinking about what he was saying, since he was so caught up in the memory. What I can say? Damn Girl! You must be unforgettably good! Like what did you do to him to cast that kind of spell on him? Please, spare no details!

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  • He was just being expressive maybe.

  • My guess is that he enjoyed it at the time, but he's moved on to someone else.

    • If that’s true why even mention it?

    • If he initiated it, he may want to do it again.

    • Yeah that’s kinda the impression I questioned too

  • Because he enjoyed the experience but doesn't want to have sex again.

    • He does

    • Oh... so why are you asking this question? It seems like the answer is pretty straight forward

    • Ohh so you’re saying the only answer is sex. Right okay. That wasn’t obvious to me as that wouldn’t have been my first reason. Mine would have included more feelings.

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  • Why not? Just like you broke up with someone, doesn't mean everything about the time with them was shit.

    • I know that. I felt that but I didn’t feel the need to say anything personally.

    • who broke up you or him?

    • I think we both did as far as I’m aware, it was circumstantial, not so much chosen.

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  • Sounds like a dumbass move.

    • Why?

  • Because presumably it's in the highlight reel of his spank bank.

  • Something about it was special for him.

  • Cause, Sex with you might be felt good

    • I mean I presume he enjoyed it if saying so, but the point is why the need to say it?